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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Too much competition!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): i wouldn't refuse to go on a date with a very good looking guy, i wouldn't have the guts to ask him.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Hmmm this is new... Its pretty obvious good looking guys hardly have any trouble getting dates
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): for me i probably look for mr average. I'm not unnatractive i suppose but at the same time i'm not confident with my appearance. If i were to go out with and extremely good looking guy I think i'd feel inadequate. On top of that other women may certainly feel intimidated by attention drawn from other women whilst dating an attractive guy. But most women who are confident with themselves should have no apprehension from dating a good looking guy unless of course there are other factors about the guy that prevent a possible relationship. Hope this helps your understanding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): in my opinion theyre scared of us ugly guys too lol...i guess i want to become mr average then if i want to stop being single lol.
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reader, forgetmenot +, writes (17 January 2007):
 What? To be honest I've never seen or heard of it happening. I suppose it could happen. I just haven't noticed it. I've never had a problem going for the guys I want
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reader, moomoomoo +, writes (17 January 2007):
 yup, what that person just said. insecurity and "oh my god i don't feel confortable with someone this good"... not really sure how a girl thinks but thats probably how some guys think
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Hmmm, thats a tough one. It could be a fear on them running off with another woman. Getting alot of female attention.
Maybe they think they are just simply not good enough, and they woulden't look at them anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): Hmm. I have dated whom ever I wanted and would let a guy or man know when I found them interesting. So...I have never been intimidated by a man let alone anyone else.
Even as a youth, if I found a dude attractive...I'd say I find you most attractive.
*shrugs*
Why do some men fear attractive women and refuse to date them?
Insecurity? Fears you don't measure up? That someone such as them could never be interested in lowly you? That they cannot wrap their heads around the possibility that an attractive person wants what most people want in another...when you peel off the external beauty...they want depth, character.
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