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writes:Well last week my girlfriend said that she wanted to go on a break. We will have been dating for three years as of this coming Valentine's day. We have been having some minor relationship problems over the last few months but for the most part it really hasn't been that bad. She says that I've broken her heart again and she isn't sure if she will ever be able to love me the same again. My question is what should I do? Do you think I should move on or do you think I should stick it out and see where it goes? Also should I try to call her or wait till she calls me? Thanks
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reader, jabey  +, writes (18 January 2007):
there are a couple of things here which are slightly unclear. Firstly, do you love her ? secondly what has happened that has caused you to break her heart again.
Right if you really love her and want the relationship to continue then yes call her. Take her out, cook her a lovely meal. Whatever you have done to break her heart apologise and make it up to her.
Because I dont know the full story it is hard to really comment, but if you have hurt her over and over, sometimes people just have enough of pain. And very bravely walk away. If then the relationship is to be saved the person who has done the hurting if they really love the hurt party, should do everything in their power to make it up to that person.
YOu decide how much you want her, if its a lot do all you can. If on the other hand you are not sure, a bit of time out for you both is probably a very good thing.
Good luck to youxx
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