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female
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anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I have been with my husband for 6 yrs (married 4). He has been spending a lot of time online chatting to 1 particular woman, and just before x-mas he said he was thinking of leaving me, but that he wanted to work it out. I agreed to work things out but he is still talking to her and phones or txts her everyday, he said he has never met her face to face but I just found a photo on his pc of him taken on friday (he told me he was at work doing overtime)what should I do? I am scared to confront him as it might push him away and I don't want that.
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (27 January 2007):
 If he wants to work it out with you, how come he still texts and phones her? To me, that's not acceptable and it's only confusing him more. You're going to have to lay it on the line that you don't want him talking to her anymore. And, if he was thinking of leaving you before christmas but, now says he wants to work it out, what improvements has he made? Whatever, the issue with the two of you it is not one-sided. Both of you need to work on it...
I hope that helps.
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reader, ingotblue +, writes (18 January 2007):
 Well its obvious that something needs sorting out, ask him if he feel that you need time apart? Maybe he has a fettish that he is scared of telling you about.
This woman that he talks to might be nothing more than a confidant to this secret he MIGHT have.
Talk to him maybe share a few fantasies of yours that you havent told him?
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