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writes:Is he really happy with his girlfriend? I have been having what I thought was casual sex with a guy for a year and a half now but he has a girlfriend of 15 years. They don't live together and they never have sex. He wants to spend weekends away with me, he text messages me for weeks then doesn't for another few weeks. I currently changed jobs, at one time we worked together now we do not, he applied to the place I work at after hearing that I found guys there attractive. He is very possesive but in a low key way, he says that he gets jelous when I talk about other guys but makes a joke out of it. He said to me that he always knew we were going to be together, he just needed it to be the right time.All I want out of this is casual sex and I keep telling him that but he tells me things like, I need to find a man that is 5-10 years older then me (which is is age) When I tell him that I am not looking for a relationship right now he says well okay I can do that for you. If everything is okay with his girlfriend, why is he sleeping with me and why is he jelous of people that I may potentially be dating? Is he happy with his girlfriend and secretly wants to be with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2007): hi there well im in the same situation apart for mine donsnt have a gf we just see each other now and again he can phone me one day then i dont hear owt from him for weeks ? men who understands them cos i dont it sounds like he realy wants you he just finding it hard too split wid gf but on the other hand if all your wanting is casual sex then it may be that hes not the right person to want that from but if you can handle just casual sex from him then it may be a good idea to just tell thats all you want or finish it if he wants to get seriouse and you dont xxx good luck and take care xxx
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reader, moomoomoo +, writes (17 January 2007):
 hes not sexually satisfied by his, she probably doesnt put out for him.. but then your story seems kinda more complicated than this so perhaps maybe something more, maybe he doesn't like his girlfriend anymore? anyways, usaully i think guys have casual sex to satisfy their sexual needs, isnt that the point of casual sex?
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