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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My husband has admitted he visited a brothel but said nothing happened. Do I believe him???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age - I recently found the numbers of two local brothels and two massage parlours in my husband's computer and on his mobile phone bill. When I asked him to explain he said he likes to ring them and ask about their services so he can masturbate as they tell him. He finally admitted... (136 words)

This is driving me crazy. After 2 years wouldnt she know if ahe wanted to be with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (M) age 36-40 - Hey everyone i would appreciate it if you guys would help me decode a very difficult girl because it is essentially ruining my life at the moment. she put us on a "break" a month ago and says she doesnt want anything "serious".. after a 2 year serious relationship she decides ... (256 words)

I need advice on my first kiss!!! How, when and where???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I need advice on my first kiss. Me and my girlfriend really want to kiss, but we never have privacy, friends, all the time. Her parents won't let her come, to just see me. Only times I do have alone with her are not really alone. I have, the school library during ... (91 words)

What's my boyfriend playing at? One minute he loves me, now he wants to break up!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 17 months just told me he doesn't love me anymore, I am so confused. Just the weekend before we went to a party with his family and I was introduced as the future fiance! Then one night I come home and he says he doesn't want to get married and the next day he ... (74 words)

She's bad for me but I can't leave her, what will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a mate of mine, who everyone hates because she said some really nasty stuff about them, but shes a bad influence on me, but if i stop being mates with her then she will have no one, and i mean no one! ande i love her really, but i just cant be around her because she is ... (76 words)

Do I still have a chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i was dating a white lady until one day she saw my cam opened and she got ungry with me she said i shouldn't call her any more. do i still have a chance? we're in different countries.... (38 words)

Please help me to heal after my break up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My affair of a year has just ended. I knew it wouldnt last forever since im married and had no plans to leave my husband but I also fell for this guy and hard. We have had such a connection on a deeper level and now he is moving on to try and start a family that I cannot g... (173 words)

She broke up with me and I did nothing wrong! What will I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Things were fine with us until one day she came to me asking me to break up with her. I disagree cos i did nothing. She came back the folowing day broke up with me because of what she heard about me but i still love her very much. Please what should i do? Please help me.... (62 words)

Worried about panic attacks when I'm flying...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- hi ya can anyone help me. i suffer from bad panic attacks, and i am going away on tuesday and iam shitting myself about been closed in on my flight. dont get me wrong i have flown loads of times but since two years ago when my panic attacks started i have been concerned about ... (110 words)

Want to make a move with this girl on Valentines day... but don't want to scare her off. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a thirtysomething man who's not had a real gf other than short term (mostly drunken) 'encounters'. We have a group of friends that have been hanging out for a few years now, the men the same age as me, the ladies in their early twenties (my best friend married one of their ... (162 words)

What's the best gift to buy my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- HI..I didn't get my boyfriend anything for his b'day which was in December, and I've been trying to decide what to get him for Valentine's, so I was wondering if the 60GB PS3 might be good as a gift, since I didn't get him anything for his b'day either. ON his last b'day, I got ... (107 words)

Do I continue to fight for what my heart wants, or do I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - here is my situation; my boyfriend just broke up with me almost 3 weeks ago. we were together for 7 months, and prior to making our relationship official, he knew that i was in the process of ending a long distant marriage, and that i did have an affair with a friend of my ex ... (289 words)

Are condoms still effective in water?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M) age 30-35 - I was just wondering if it was possible to be able to use condoms in water and to still be effective? could anyone help please? Thanks a lot... (29 words)

My boyfriend hits me but I still love him, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in love but its all wrong its not like when i was little and love was easy and...... he hits me and then after he is really sorry and he is not a wife beater its just i do things wrong somtimes. I know its all my fault and i know that i should be grateful to him he does ... (91 words)

Does this guy still have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i went out with this lad for 3 days in january because he really fancied me but i didnt like him like that and plus everyone made fun of me so i dumped him but i really like this lad. My friend asked him out for me and he said no but its really busted our relationship between ... (106 words)

I don't know if I can trust him any more... did he or didn't he cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. In the past month he has received emails from a girl that talks like they have a three month long relationship that includes intimacy. Yes my boyfriend shared his email password with me. These on-going emails h... (148 words)

My partner and I have split up but we still stay together, now she's acting as if nothing has happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner and i have just split up,we have been at least 3 years together. She has too many reasons why we split up but there is no reason to try and make things rite again. Honestly we fight alot and every fight that we had her whole family knows about it. when ever we have a ... (213 words)

How can I get more confidence to chat with boys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey x i am a 13yr old girl i hav been told by sum boys that i am quite pretty so its not my face thats annoyin me it my bludy confidnce (mind my language) for example: if there was a boy i liked me and he liked me back , if he came up to me to try and strt a convo then i ... (133 words)

This is my first date and I don't know how to react!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- hi all, im 15 i live in the uk and i have my first date on valentines day and i have no idea wat to do!!! This may sound really naive but im so worried that he wont like me,or i wont know how to act or anything i've never met this lad hes like a friend of a friend but we have ... (75 words)

Helpppp!!!! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So I emailed yesterday and asked for advice but more is needed, it was about an ex-boyfriend who I cant stop thinking about I saw him last week for the 1st time in a few years and he was really nice to me giving me compliments and being rather touchy-feely and I am left ... (196 words)

Becoming more than friends with an older lady... but scared because she's said in the past she likes guys who are well hung!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with this older lady friend of mine for three years. Even though the age gap is about seventeen years is doesnt matter as we get on so well. I've started to like her more than a mate and I'm getting signs that she's starting to be that way towards me too. ... (346 words)

Things were fine, then she broke up and wouldn't say why.... Why!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my ex were doing good and had many future plans, then at the click of the fingers she broke up with me. i asked her why and she wouldnt answer me truthfully. what should i do?... (38 words)

Is it true guys like hugs more than us girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for about a month and a half now. well you know girls really like hugs from their boyfriends (and im one of them lol!) well is it true that boys like to cuddle their girlfriends more than their girlfriends want to hug them? i hope ... (69 words)

I really like this girl so why do I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people need some help,ive just got my first gf bin with her for 2months,it is a long distance relationship, shes a really decent girl, i have wanted to get a gf for a long time, and now i have found one i feel that i should be more committed, and i keep getting thoughts ... (103 words)

My heart is broken!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my heart is broken and i cant bare the pain..........help... (10 words)

My boyfriend says he can't ejaculate... should I help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im a 15 year old girl. My boyfreind recently told me he cant ejaculate! I'm not sure whether this is just down to him not having developed enough yet or whether he has a problem. He is quite immature for his age in physical terms so im wondering whether he is just a late ... (131 words)

My boyfriend says I'm boring in bed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he works too hard to try to get an orgasm when we have sex. Basically, he thinks I'm boring in bed. What can I do to keep his interest?... (34 words)

What's the difference between love and lust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this seems like a really simply question but im so confused ... whats the difference between love and lust? see i dont want to make a fool of myself if its just lust... (35 words)

I am now married but my feelings for him havent changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- i have met with my ex boyfriend after not seing him for the past 8 years. even though now that i am married and have a child, my feelings for him havent changed. he's going through a divorce and we just met as old friends. i dont know what to do.... (51 words)

After only 3 months, he is going out with someone else.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I started dating my bestfriend 3 years ago. Now he has broken up with me and is now after only 3 months being apart is going out with someone else. But he still wants to hang out and he knows that it hurts me for him to be dating someone else. Im still in love with him...I know ... (82 words)

I love him but he has a gf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I love, well..have strong feelings for this boy in college. I think he likes me to, but I'm not sure. Plus, he's got a girlfriend, but she lives in Hull and they only see each other once a year! What can I do? Please help!... (48 words)

Why does he watch other females dance and not me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - can anyone tell me why my guy wont watch me when i dance,yet he will watch another female.im a good mover and get lots of attention off both male and female and compliments,yet my guy has never complimented me. why is this?... (42 words)

Worried about the little lump on my vagina. Any ideas what it could be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago i found a tiny lump in my vagina. Its not growing or hurting but its just there. im 16, im not a virgin and im really worried. its really small and its just kind of sitting on one of my "lips", what should i do? i dont want to go to my GP, and im too ... (74 words)

Is it wrong to orgasm in the shower?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my shower.... When i have showers, i can give myself the biggest orgasms ever. Is it wrong? i have been with partners that get me to reach orgasm before and that was amazing but this... its like the world has exploded inside me, when i come out the shower i feel shaky, ... (115 words)

Why aren't I getting dates? Do I need to be pretty AND popular?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- I'm quite clever, and my family and people close to me, outside of school, say that I'm absolutely gorgeous. However, no-one at school says I'm very pretty.. and I'm never asked out by anyone. I'm not very popular so I'm expecting this to be the reason. Does the need for a gi... (87 words)

Do vitamins help with erection problems???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Lately I have been having erection problems and I am only 25. I just started taking vitamins 3 days ago and they seem to be helping. Does anyone know what vitamin might be helping me? Or if a vitamin deficiency could cause something like this?... (48 words)

I slept with a married man, now I feel awful and don't know what to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known a man for over 2 years after meeting him through work, he is 48 and I am 33. I am single and he is married with children, whom I have never met, and even though we stopped working at the same place a year ago, we kept in touch from time to time via email and had ... (702 words)

Does he really have feelings for me or am I being used big time here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long one, but please help me, it's getting me so upset and hurt, i thought i'd found love... A couple of months ago i found someone i REALLY liked, i cant explain it. He's 18, i'm 17 in a week, which was good because in the past i have always gone out with older m... (937 words)

He is claiming he "needs time..." Is this a clue that he wants out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) - dear Cupid I am in a long term relationship and lately my boyfriend doesn't return my calls and he has been coming home later than usual. I don't even know why he acting like this and I don't really know what is going on. I contacted him yesterday and asked him what his p... (196 words)

Why do I feel red and sore after I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - After my boyfriend and I have sex I notice that my vagina hurts. It seems more to do with if he cums inside of me. For days after, I'm very sore and it feels red and hot. Does anyones else know what I'm talking about. I never have this problem until I got pregnant. The baby... (69 words)

I am terrified of commitment but really care for my partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was hoping you could give me advice as to how a man who is a afraid of commitment would behave in a relationship, even though he cares for his partner.... (31 words)

Will he ever love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I do have a bf who likes gambling, "cockfighting" to be specific. This is basing with the nature of his work as a sales specialist that this is somewhat needed as a get going activity with his clients. He told me all of this stuff beforehand and i thought that if the time ... (162 words)

"How do I deal and speak to a person who is so unfair and only see things from her side?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi , rather unfortunately this is happening more often now days.... two people meet, things are great at start, after few months of knowing each other responsibilities kicks in, some other reality of life comes out, then suddenly they start arguing, fighting all the time, ot... (483 words)

Was this his way of hinting that he doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - one afternoon while were listening to a radio station whose main event is finding a someone to be like gf/bf thing, my bf reacted when a girl in the station stated that she wanted to find a lover, my bf said that "ohhh, your looking for a man and when time comes that your ... (138 words)

We are like a couple, but he doesn't want our friendship to progress into a relationship b/c I cheated on him the last time. Am I wasting my time w/ him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) - Hi please could you help,Im confused. This time last year I met a great guy and we were together for about 4 months. Unfortunately I was unfaithful to him and he found out about this, I keep on asking myself why I cheated but I dont know why because he was everthing I was look... (221 words)

My mom got angry at me for being raped among other things! How do I get my parents to leave me alone?? I don't love them!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

- I haven't been talking with my parents for several months. This is because I have had a bad childhood because of them and am just now realizing all the hell I went through. I guess I've kept it supressed for a long time - I've just moved out and bought my own house (that's ... (966 words)

Is there a chance that I have a different STI than I did before? Or is it something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 17 and i think there is something wrong. there are two things that are worrying me. first of all i dont know if i have thrush or an STI or something. I have had sex without protection- i know its a bad thing to do but i make sure i do now. I had a check up for an ... (261 words)

My guy is choosing his son over me - now I'm thinking I won't attend his family get together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone... My boyfriend and I have been together over a year and next week end we are attending a family get together (his family) and we're all meeting up in a hotel for a few days which is great! The thing is he's bringing his son with him (which I don't mind). ... (175 words)

He says my friends are slags and that's why he can't trust me. I've talked w/ a counselor and he got angry! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for about 1 year and 8 months. He is 31 and i just turned 23. I know that i love him with all my heart, and our reltionship is great but he has a big trust issue with me. he thinks htat i am going to hurt him and i have never done thing... (409 words)

How can I make her see that he's a complete idiot and that she's better off without him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has started going out with this guy that I know is bad news and she is making him really permanent in her life like doing things such as planning to go to a university nearer to him and talking of getting a tattoo with his name on it. How can I make her see that he ... (102 words)

When I try to break up with him he gets angry and upset! Guys - how would you want to be broken up with??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy but I don't have any feelings for him anymore. I want to break up with him but I don't know how to because when I try to suggest breaking up he just gets angry and upset and then says 'lets talk about this some other time' Maybe a guy can help me.. From a... (72 words)

I said no because of our age difference but now I'm wondering if I should have said yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 34 year who honestly does not look my age and have a 20 year old who wants to date me. He not only has spoken to me but when he told me his age I thought no way and then on different occasions he spoke to two of my friends asking them to help him get me to forget about ... (131 words)

I believe if you get alcohol mixed in with dance and loud music and another man... something will eventually happen!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Long Message, any advise on my situation would help: I have been going out with my GF now for 7 months, our age difference is 3 half years, I am at University (working in industry for a year at the mome) she is studying for a-levels). It was great, almost magical, for the... (637 words)

My bf tells all his female friends that we're just friends, too. I don't want to be hidden!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months and hes told all his girl mates hes single and that me and him are just friends, a fair few of hes mates know about me n him. I havent even met hes parents. Does he even want to be with me. Im a pretty girl and i dont know why... (143 words)

I can't masturbate by myself b/c it hurts. Now I have a cut that won't heal - should I see a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Imma girl and for some reason I just CAN'T masturbate. My boyfriend has to finger me to get anything happening and even then it's painful, imma virgin and plan to stay that way but we like to mess around etc. I don't wanna have to ask him to finger me ALL the time because ... (138 words)

My ld gf goes to sports bars where guys may hit on her - do I have reason to be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age - ive been in a relationship for 4 years with a girl i love so much. she feels the same about me. we are getting married in 8 monthes. she lives in calgary i live in pittsburgh and yea i know long distance relationships are hard. but we found a way to work it out. but ive had a ... (183 words)

My ex lied to me about loving me for a year. Now I'm terrified to tell my new bf I love him b/c of what might happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Back about 5 years ago I started dating this guy (I'll call him D) D and I dated for 2 and a half years. About a year into this relationship (he always hated that word) we started having problems. I didn't want to let him go, so we continued to date and the problems never ... (226 words)

Is he feeling bad about denying me or something? Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's a scenario: We're watching TV and I want to cuddle with him and kiss, and he says 'not now, jeez' and watches TV. I turn around and watch TV as well. Then he kisses me and tells me he's sorry and tries to cuddle and kiss. I hate it when he does this! Why does he do it?! ... (68 words)

Is it normal that I like him to control me during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal that I like him to control me during intercourse? He's very dominant and tells me what do do and I like it! Is this normal? It never leaves the bedroom, but still...... (35 words)

He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom! Should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom, but I'm worried that it will be gross for him! We've done it with a condom, and it was really clean, but I've heard of 'pimp shitz' or something where stuff gets forced up into his penis. But I don'tunderstand because if he cums ... (76 words)

Hope is tearing me apart!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when the break-up's for real, and you're not going to get back together? I know you're supposed to always believe that it's permanent, but how do you force yourself to give up that hope when neither party's moved on, both seem to be miserable, and you believe ... (211 words)

Should I find a guy or stay single??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - In my "group" everyone seems to have a b/f and they are all telling me to go out with a guy. I dont want to seem concieted or anything, but even if im nice to the guy and even if i dont thnk im pretty, ppl tell me im pretty, i cant get a guy! I don't wanna go into the streets ... (108 words)

I like my ex again.....but hes going out with my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I really like my ex again....and hes goin out with my friend! She told me that if i told her that i liked him, she wouldve said no to him, but i feel bad to like him. She said its ok but its weird. Should i get over him or keep liking him?... (53 words)

We were close friends but now shes a BIG MOUTH spreading my secrets!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6528 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - the past 2 years ive been friends wih this girl, and since we became closer i told her mostly...everything. but now, shes copying my other friend which is really annoying b/c she is meaner, more annoying, and has become a big mouth. this past week, she keeps on mentioni... (74 words)

When does the arguing mean its over??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How often do most couples argue? How do you know when the arguments are too much--when they're a sign that, even though you love each other, you need to move on? If you have a terrible, horrible argument--yelling and crying--that's not even ABOUT anything ... and the same... (159 words)

Is it fair to spend the weekend out of town without her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My girlfriend and I live in Colorado. I have good friends in north, central and south Florida, and California. I want to go visit them soon and would like to take my girlfriend with me to see most of them. But taking her with me to see all of them would both be ... (90 words)

I'm stuck debating if he's just stressing like last time, or is cheating on me so he has to pick a fight this way to end it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6528 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to know what is going on with my relationship. I have been with this guy for a little over a year, well after some miscommunication it's a little less. We are "taking it slow". In saying that i don't mean we don't have sex. Slow (and I was confused by this) meaning we ... (704 words)

I don't want to like him because I know I deserve better!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So, here's the situation.. awhile ago I met this guy named alex .We started talking more and I could tell I was starting to like him but just a little because, I had a boyfriend and he also had a girlfriend and was always talking about how special she was to him, how much he ... (317 words)

My gf got angry when I tipped my glass at another girl (bar), who was celebrating a b'day! Is my gf over-reacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6524 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid While at a bar with my girlfriend the d.j. announced some girls b-day over the loud speakers. Turns out the girl and her friends were facing me maybe five few feet away. I smiled at the ridiculous spectacle they were making and raised my glass in a cheer. My girlf... (123 words)

I know accountability is important but this seems too much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My girlfriend used to demand I let her know first before I leave my building. A 5-minute drive to the post office, or a walk to the corner store would enrage her if I didn't let her know first. We made some progress and she tolerates neighborhood errands and such... (88 words)

Shall I send sexy pics to my b/f for valentines day?

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7 February 2007 (F) - hey everyone for valentine's day i was wondering if i should send my b/f a pic of me with something sexy on..like a school girl outfit or something like that vj vanessa minillo did...i know i wont look as hot as these girls in magazines do but was just wondering if i s... (88 words)

Does the guy at work like me more than friends for not wanting to hug me... yet?

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7 February 2007 (F)

- Thanks in advance for help with my question. I was in the hospital for a few days but am on the mend now. I returned to work and had quite a few people come up and give me a hug and say they were glad that I was feeling better.There is a man that I work with that I am ... (116 words)

She demanded I can't hello-hug any women but she says it's ok for her to do it to guys!

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7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Early in our relationship my girlfriend demanded that I never give other women a hug-hello since she never hugs guys. Its so rare that I hug-hello anyways, and then, only to real friends who cannot misinterpret it as flirting. However, I come to find out that eve... (97 words)

Secret relationship to respect my dad - or am I disrespecting my man?

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7 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - my bf asked me one time as to why that he cannot visit me at home,were just been 6mos. with this relationship yet i did told him that my father is so strict that he might get angry , im 25 years old but due to my respect to my father ive been a good daughter enough to follow ... (201 words)

Is it true that sex can bring a couple closer or is he just pretending?

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7 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in this relationship for 2 yrs not engage but do have a sex life i think my partner is loosing it for me.nAlways talking about how good i was even though he is my first i am not a pro. Is it really true that sex can bring people closer in love or is he just pretending just ... (69 words)

Because I occasionally meet female students at my Mother's job..my gf is saying I can't go there anymore! What gives here?

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7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My mom is a college professor and when I am at her office she has introduced me to her colleagues, staff, and occasionally a student. Some of these students have been women. These introductions are only a matter of her being polite and civil when the situatio... (107 words)

Why is she encroaching on my privacy? I have nothing to hide!

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7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My girlfriend has been demanding we exchange email passwords as a mutual good faith gesture of trust. Her ex let her have his and she says if I have nothing to hide I'd do the same. While I have nothing to hide, I am uncomfortable with the idea. I told her I don't... (102 words)

Will I ever be able to come to terms with the fact that my wife had an affair?

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7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - A year ago my wife had an affair. We separated and now we are wondering if we could work things out. Can I ever forgive and forget about what happened and how do I deal with knowing that she went out for a year long adventure??? without me?... (50 words)

I really like my girlfriend by why won't she let me see my friends on my own sometimes? Is it a trust issue?

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7 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have a few close mates who live out of state. My girlfriend is vehemently opposed to my visiting them without her. I want to take her with me on some of my visits but the logistics for the others would make her accompanying me a major headache. Also, there ar... (152 words)

Why does my boyfriend keep talking to this girl when she's so bitchy to me?

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7 February 2007 (?) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for eight months, and its been very happy! Except for catching him once before doing things online that he shouldn't have been doing, I have no reason to suspect him of cheating or intending to cheat on me. However, there's one girl who has recently ... (295 words)

Why bother going through the process of meeting new people when I could just date my best friend?

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7 February 2007 (F) - ive known my crush for a good 4 years..within these 4 years our families have gotten really close. on the weekends i hang out with him and his friends and we all have a lot of fun at parties. his friends love me and they often call me from his phone to hang out. At times i feel ... (241 words)

Do I love her like I loved my ex?

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7 February 2007 (M)

- 4 Days Into Our R-Ship and i dont know what 2 buy her for v-day i'm 24 i'm dateing a 16 year old girl that goes to collage (i know 16 is young but who cares in the united kingdom u can sleep with a 16 year old girl) i really like her so much. shes nice good looking and... (358 words)

I want to see where this man lives but he says it's not convenient at the moment, has he something to hide?

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7 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Readers Please help! I met a man 7 months ago on an online dating site. He was married but separated from his wife. We dated, and eventually began a sexual relationship. However, he has never invited me to his home (or his Dad's home, where he is now living), saying ... (216 words)