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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I dumped her for lying... but when we got back together she put us "on a break"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - On a break or what? Iv been going out with my girlfriend for two years it has been the best relationship both of us have ever had until recently when I found out she had lied to me about something which I didn’t expect from her as I have always been honest with her throw o... (258 words)

Worried now that my 8 year old child might be by another man to who I've thought all along! Should I tell all now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with S for 4 years when we spilt up. I met someone new, T, and after a few months I slept with him. I was taking the contraceptive pill. I slept with him once, I felt really bad after because I still loved my ex and I didn't see him again. Three weeks later, I bumped ... (210 words)

He said I had got him down as he felt I was always negative and depressed... then he sent flowers to another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age - Hi Me and My partner of 4 years recently went through a rough patch. He said I had got him down as he felt I was always negative and depressed. Anyway, he started something with another woman (alot younger than me) who flirted with him when he was shopping for christmas gi... (302 words)

How do I make the kissing move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are going to the cinema soon and I really want to kiss her, because i love her and ive never kissed anyone before. I'm just wondering what I should do because I cant just move over all of a sudden and kiss her so what can I do? Thanks... (56 words)

My fiancee is in another country and wants a nudey pic... Should I send it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been in this relationship for thre years but my fiance is in another counrty now and he want a picture of me naked.What should i do cause i dont have a cam and i am afraid to send him a picture.Should I send it or not?... (48 words)

Is there any hope for my relationship with this lesbian lady or should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am friends with this lesbian and our friendship is great. We have everything in common and love eachothers company. After spending time together it came to a point that we had sex. This relationship lasted for about a month (she seemed happy) but I would be told she wants to ... (120 words)

She asked for a break so she could get her grades up... but now she's skipping school with a new guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M) age 36-40 - ok well my gf and i have benn going out for a year but after x-mas and new years [we had a great time] she asked to go on a break because she wants to find herself and wants to get her grades up but now she is skipping school to go and hang out with this guy and now egnors me ... (128 words)

My heart and body say "H*** yes" but my God-fearing part is reminding me that I can't...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 34 years old and almost 12 years married to a man I thought I could love when he was loving, but he has become manipulative, rude, crass, emotionally abusive to myself to his son and stepson. I basically married him because I was a single mom and he was such a good 'dad' ... (426 words)

The guy I've fancied has a crush on my mom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, i have an amazing problem, i had a bit of a broken heart, which no one really knows aboiut or what happened and ive had this friend for 3 years and me and him are really close, hes a big business man and i think the world of him. I really like him and i know h... (214 words)

Need tips on how to get over my ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated this girl for about 2 months until she said she wanted to break up with me. I was so depressed I didnt really know how to handle it so I called her a B**** which I apologized for. Bad move on my part but even know we have been apart for 3 months but I still think and ... (134 words)

He proposed... but with no ring (he was saving)... now it turns out he hadn't really meant it!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I am at the stage where I really don't know what to do for the best. He is a couple of years older than me and when we first got together things were great. After 6 months he asked me to marry him and I accepted. As time ... (177 words)

Had a great crush on the girl I work with... until I found out she has a boyfriend! How do I get her out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a miserable situation. I am 25 working as admin in an airline. I have a great crush on a girl at workplace. I didn’t notice her before but from last three weeks or so i noticed that she has got some feelings for me. So i took a step forward and i asked her name, where ... (146 words)

My mom blew up when I told her the guy I'm seeing has kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice although i feel very stupid having to do this. I'm 24 years old, with a great job, nice car good friends, good education the works. I've never done anything to dissapoint my parents to my knowledge. My mum and dad are separated and she is asian ... (640 words)

I think my ex boyfriend is schizophrenic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my ex boyfriend is schizophrenic. We're still pretty close even though we're not together, and he went crazy last night. He has AD/HD and has always had social issues and can get very violent, but he really scared me. He sent out a text to a lot of people saying that ... (254 words)

Can't shake my crush on this older teacher!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a massive crush on my teacher, but I'm 16 (17 soon) and he's a LOT older than me. Problem is, I can't shake it, we spend so much time together at school, and his behaviour towards me isn't normal, and often very flirtatious. We're quite close, he talks to me abou... (179 words)

About thave sex with my bf...so should I shave it all off or keep it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Pubic Hair Horror, i am about to have sex with my boyfriend and i would like to know whether i should get rid of my pubic hair or keep it plz help x x x... (40 words)

Worried I've broken my sex-drive by watching too much porn!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and I was single for a few months. And lately I've been watching a lot of porn. I was only masturbating with porn. At least 1 time each day, for a long time. Now I've meet this incredibly attractive women, and we are starting a relationship. But I can't get it up ... (259 words)

I think I love my step-sister...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a sticky situation. Well i think i love my step sister-very much and i have been for aobut 2-3 years. I live with my mum still as i'm only 15 and shes 15 as well and lives with my dad and step mum. I like her loads, and i need tell her how i feel about her soon. Its ... (82 words)

How long do Aids/HIV tests take to get back to my doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I went with a man for 2 years and were now broke up i had some drug problems but ive been to rehab and ive been clean 6months,goin back to school gettin my life and son back,I left him becuase he still does it and the queston is I heard he shared a needles with someone with HIV ... (162 words)

Caught my wife giving a BJ to an older guy at a party... !

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 years and my life is pretty good, I am 29 and my wife is 26, we have an 18-month little girl. We got married when she was still at University and I run my own company, which is more than profitable, so no financial worries. I met my wife through ... (490 words)

I need details...how do I kiss a boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, all my friends are going out with lads and kissing them(snogging) a lad has taken an interest in me but i feel that he'll want to kiss me and i want to kiss him back i just dont know how. HOW DO I KISS A BOY? i need details. from hopelessly in love... (60 words)

Can one of these internet chat and flirting men really fall in love (with me)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- I was seeing this guy for a few months and it wasn't serious but i found out on the internet that he talks to other women and that he's a proper flirt.Anyway i ended it and told him that he was nothing more then a player.He's been emailing me,calling me,asking to see him again ... (115 words)

Should I try and patch things up... even though I don't think it was my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a guy from work for 4 years. During that time we have argued often about another woman from work who has upset me by being very friendly with. He says nothing is going on but I have always been uncomfortable about it. She left work to start a new job at ... (163 words)

It hurt that my friend is dating a guy I told her I liked! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I really fancied this guy at my disco, my best friend knew as well, Anyway, we were kissing And dancing and holding hands But then my best friend started getting too cosy with him, dirty dancing and kissing and now they are going out, it really hurts me... (97 words)

He says he still cares about me, but he doesnt act like it. Should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So... im 17 years old going on 18 and me and my boyfriend who is 17 have been together for about 2months and a week. I feel as if he does not feel the same way as he used to about me. I got text messaging taken away on my fone, which is how we used to talk all day. So now we ... (188 words)

Finding it hard to get over my ex-boyfriend... we're still hanging and kissing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - So I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex-boyfriend.. and he's got a new girlfriend.. who he doesn't really like that much. The other night I was really drunk and we kissed for ages.. until he said that he couldn't because he had a girlfriend. I went off my head about ... (97 words)

Does vagina size matter? Is it something men look for?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- Does size matter? There's often a lot of talk about whether a larger penis is important but I worry about whether my vagina is tight enough to give a man pleasure and whether its something that men look for? I was once described as rather cavernous and it has bothered me ever ... (63 words)

Can't get over my ex (even though he can be mean)...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- hi im a teen and i get upset every night thinking of my x boyfriend since we have not been together we have done things you would do if you was together and a few weeks after we did somthing together he went out with someone else and we have done things since he has been with ... (126 words)

My husband doesn't touch me but he masturbates everynight. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband will not touch me but I walk in on him every night pleasing himself. what do I do?... (20 words)

I hate the thoughts of his colorful past! Am I just being petty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im with a Guy who's a lot older than me. first person i've ever know to make me feel what can only be love i guess. thing is he's had a slightly colourful past and everytime i think about anybody he's been 'with' or some of the conquests he's accomplished i get torn inside. i ... (117 words)

Sent him some messages I regret. Will he be really angry with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- This week a guy i fancy'd , found out ! =S ... he was all off with me for the rest of the week . Last night i was drunk and went on msn , and sent him some messages saying , i dont even fancy you anymore ... ect . He didnt reply because it was late and he was probabably in ... (100 words)

In love with two guys...so how do I decide whom to pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm engaged to a guy that i have been dating for 3 years and i do love him. But there is another guy. Who i've also known for quite a while and we had a relationship when me and current fiance were taking a break. I love both of them, but I'm not sure if I'm in love with my ... (70 words)

He dumped because he said I was too young! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- I have been in love with this guy (lets call him Fred) for a year, he is 17 and im 14. He said he liked me but im too young and if i was older he would go for me. I understand im too young but i cant seem to let go. I really want a boyfriend, a lot of guys ask me out but i ... (119 words)

Will I be stuck with 'bitchy' girls, all year long at this new school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- Im starting year 9 at a new school next week. I dont know anyone there so im nervous. A girl in the same year as me, moved from my new school to my old school. She was talking to my friends and she said that the girls at my new school are really bitchy and mean so thats wh... (87 words)

How do l break up with my girlfriend but remain good friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do l break up with my girlfriend but remain good friends?... (12 words)

He cheated on me, but I want him back, but he wants nothing to do with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age - I split up with my partner last November and we were going to remain friends, but this has been hard because I kicked him out of my house as he had been cheating on me, not just once but a few times with the same woman. I love him and still do, we have spoken on the phone a ... (176 words)

She's not putting big efforts into the relationship. Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay this is my first time actually asking for help on the site let alone the net, but I'm really troubled by relationship and i need some answers or advice. I've been in a long distance relationship for over 3 years now. I've broke up with her two times and got back togethe... (228 words)

Any tips for phone conversations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me how to keep a conversation on the phone?... (12 words)

She suddenly said she needed time to work things through--help me understand this girl. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused. I've got a very close female friend. My best friend, really. Anyway, I have had a really strange off and on relationship with her. We have never been together, but the chemistry and sexual tension is off the chart. We've hooked up once, but she's been ... (355 words)

Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6422 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never ever had a boyfriend. I say it is because I am fat and ugly, but all my other friends say it is because nobody is interested in my yet. Is there somethng wrong with me? Is there something wrong with boys not wanting to date fat girls?... (50 words)

What was the wet... and could I have gotten pregnant through his boxers and my panties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i hope this questions isn't dumb, but i'm genuinly confused..... the other night i was at my boyfriends house and i had my legs wrapped around his waist and i was kissing his neck and everything (it's his "special spot") anyway i noticed he started breathing really heavily.... (178 words)

How do I deal with my lack of sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't feel i have a sex drive. I've seen all sorts and people and thought, oh yeah he's hot but when I'm with someone I care about, I hate hugging them, i hate kissing them, i hate anything and everything. This has been like this my entire life and the whole thought of sexua... (106 words)

How can I get over my fear that I will be cheated on again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - after an 8 year relationship and three wonderful children i separated from my cheating ex who happened to be cheating with a friend! now i have found a new love and i am afraid that he will walk away with one of my friends how do i over come this fear?... (51 words)

Why would he be turned on by my feet!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Why are feet such a turn on for some people? My boyfriend even asked me to incorporate them into our intimate times. We got on the topic of fetishes, and I said 'well, I like feet and everything, but not to the point I'd cut someone's off', and he said 'Yeah, I know what you ... (100 words)

My ex's roomate is overly possessive of her. Should I tell her what I think or leave it alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age - i married a woman 23 younger than me and our relationship lasted 7 yrs during which we had a child.when we divorced i raised my son alone with little attention from his mother for 10 years. he is now 14 and my present job makes it very difficult to handle him alone so i ... (580 words)

I am in love with my online guy. The problem is, I am stuck in the web of lies I created

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy on the internet a few months ago and to start with i was just looking for fun and having a laugh, if i'm honest i just wanted a bit of attention. now i've fallen in love with him. he's in love with me too. and i know that people often say you cant fall in love ... (157 words)

My gf hides alot of her thoughts and feelings from me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody. I am having trouble handling my gf. She does not tell me if she's unhappy with me even though i asked her. She does not tell me a lot of things too. Like for example, when i could not spend christmas with her last year, she was pretty upset and her friend told me. ... (171 words)

My gf loves giving me BJ's but I don't want her to do that. How do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there I'm a guy n my gf loves to have oral sex.......she just looks for the right time and tells me to pull my pants down......i tell her that i don't like it but still she wants to lick my penis....i feel ticklish and i fear if she bites it....so are there any ways o... (69 words)

I have missed her and hse wants to meet again. Is this the start of our relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

3 February 2007 (M) - Hello, Well my girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago, after a long relationship, not because of lost trust, or because we met other people, but just because she felt it wasnt the time for her to be in a relationship. We agreed to go completely our seperate ways and not ... (183 words)

Me and my gf both have Cerebal Palsy. Her parents are very protective of her and it's hard for us to meet up. What can we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 25-year-old man who has Cerebral Palsy. I have been with my 26-year-old girlfriend, who also has Cerebral Palsy, for over 5 years. The relationship between ourselves is great and we really love each other. We are soul mates who met in our GNVQ Advanced IT class. Howe... (476 words)

Do guys like the 'bigger" girl or do they all just like skinny ones?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - do guys honestly find ""bigger girls"" (im a UK size 16) attractive or do u only go for skinny girls? ... (20 words)

He left me for a 20 year old but now, I'm not sure but it seems he maybe trying to win me back! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - please dont pass me by i really need your help?.i was on before to you and the help i got was great but now i have a follow up.i was here in oct about my husband leaveing our 21year marrige for a girl 20years younger than him she is the same age as our first born child she is ... (317 words)

A good friend was snappy and confrontational with me. Will she do it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

3 February 2007 (F)

- Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to answer. I go out with the girls for coffee every Friday afternoon but today was a disaster. One of my friends called me at work and asked if I would be coming. I really was in the middle of something but said that I should be ... (297 words)

She's a virgin but she has kissed guys before...this past of hers bothers me..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6501 days ago

3 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys just a quick question,i am 20years old and have jus got into my first relationship,the girl i am with is a virgin bt she has had past boyfriends where she has kissed n she has kissed a couple of guys in clubs,she hasnt done anymore then that,but i feel that i am not ... (246 words)