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I said no because of our age difference but now I'm wondering if I should have said yes!

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Question - (7 February 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a 34 year who honestly does not look my age and have a 20 year old who wants to date me. He not only has spoken to me but when he told me his age I thought no way and then on different occasions he spoke to two of my friends asking them to help him get me to forget about the age difference and take him seriously as it was not a problem for him and he has liked me for a while. To begin with I said not possible but I am now wondering as I must admit before I knew his age I liked him too. I have known him for over a year (seeing him around etc). Am I being ridiculous?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007):

you SO shouldnt have said no to dating him just cos of age diff! why does age gap really matter anyway? oh you made a big mistake :( change your mind! age is not that important it doesnt matter! go out with him or you maybe regret it? what harm wil come out of dating a younger guy anyway? i mean thers no good reason to not date him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007):

If you both still like one another then you could try and have a relationship with one another and see how it goes.

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2007):

what is age?

surely the relevant factor in any relationship is whether you feel comfortable with that person and if they make you feel happy?

if this guy makes you feel these things wheres the harm in going out for a few drinks, as you have doubts i suggest you take it slow just so you dont hurt the poor guy if you change your mind. get to know him, you might be pleasantly surprised, hes obviously keen.

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