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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him but he does drugs! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

- well... i like someone from work... but... he does drugs.. (Weed) i dont know what to do... he says he likes me and i make him happy... but its the drugs... he doesn't wanna give it up..... (37 words)

I seem to be eternally single! Will I ever be happy in love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I'm feeling so lonely. It's always highlighted at this time of year (Valentine's Day). I seem to be eternally single, after having dated a number of men who just haven't treated me right. To be honest, I look at myself, and I can't understand why I'm single. E... (303 words)

Update: I can't trust my husband..I've had enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I CAN'T TRUST MY HUSBAND I'VE HAD ENOUGH I am responding to the 2 e-mails sent earlier. The first from Eve made a lot of sense,and thank you for your reply. the 2nd reply did not make sense,a marriage is based on trust NOT LIES. Obviously this anonymous reader did not r... (62 words)

My ex says I refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and refuses to talk to me! How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been seperated from my ex for about 6 months now,we have 2 kids and we argue about everything concerning them, especialy since we slept together about 3 weeks ago. He now tells people that i refuse to allow him contact with our kids, and refuses to talk to me how do i deal ... (56 words)

Going for a 'girl' checkup-should I douche before I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am going for a 'girly check-up'..does anyone know if its okay to douche before my appointment?... (17 words)

Are there certain things I can look out for a guy's behaviour that show he likes you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how can u tell if a guy likes u? are there certain things i can look out for in his behaviour? i really like someone but ive been turned down and hurt in the past so i really want to make sure this time before i make a move... (49 words)

How do I get over my jealousy? Is it time for therapy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get over my jealousy? My ex of over 7 yrs. cheated on me. I can't get over him and I think part of it is because since he's with someone else and Im not, It makes me obsess about it more. As if he's Mr perfect now because he's with someone else, and she's better for ... (103 words)

I can't trust my husband any more, now I've had enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years in April. We have 2 children. In Nov 2001 my husband went on holiday with a friend of his behind my back, he said he was going on a business trip. I found out before his flight had even landed, he returned a couple of days later and things were ... (287 words)

Why do guys always seem to go for matchstick blonde women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am a bit confused. it seems like only all the skinny blonde, tall girls get boyfriends! i am 16 and i weigh 8 stone :s i am about 5ft 1 Brown hair. is this any boys type? or do they only go for the skinny tall girls?... (61 words)

Is my boyfriend underweight for his 6ft height?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my boyfriend is 16 and im wondering if he is under weight just because he looks very slim. he is about 6ft and weighs 9 stone. is this very skinny for a 16 year old and is he under weight? (I am about 5ft 1 and i weigh 8 stone! lol! so i feel fat when we talk about weigh... (99 words)

This guy is so good to me and loves me so much but I don't feel the same. Should I let him go knowing how well he treats me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - Please give me some advice. I've been with this man for nearly a year, the time has just flown by, he is a fantastic sensitive man, generous kind, attentive and loves me so much, its great to be wanted and appreciated, we have a laugh together, have the same ideas about the ... (256 words)

I want to get married without all the legalities. How do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my boyfriend very much and we were thinking about marraige but we want an unofficial wedding that doesn't entail all the legal views. just in case anything ever happens we don't want the hassle of divorce. Does anyone know of any way we can do this?... (48 words)

I know she is THE ONE!!! Should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 33 yr old male. About one year ago I met the love of my life. I have been through two marriages and divorces and this has enabled me to grow and know what I need and want in a partner. This woman is all of that and more. She is my first true love. I thought I had it ... (509 words)

I am 40 and single again, all the guys my age seem to have baggage or are unavailable. Should I just quit the dating scene?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been married and divorced 4 times. I have tried getting back out into the dating scene. I've been fixed up, I've waiting to get asked out, or I ask guys out myself. It seems every guy out there is gay, married, or "unavailable". I am over 40, should I... (72 words)

I don't want any lies in our relationship and he's going on holiday with the lads! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in our second year I went on holiday with my friends but before i left me and my boyfriend split up. This meant I could have some fun, which I did, meaning I got with another guy. Now he has planned a holiday with the lads this sum... (87 words)

Will I still bleed if I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi well im in a long distance relationship...and its goin great just over the 5 month mark. We are going to see each other this week...we have both talked about sex, we are both 18 and feel very ready...we talk and are very open with each other, but he cant answer the question ... (76 words)

He wants to try again... should I risk being hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Where to start?? well....i had this boyfriend last year who i fell for very badly... and i really thought we could last. I lost my virginity to him and i really wanted us to work. He made me smile and i couldn't stop thinking about him...or talking about him but he wasn't ready ... (302 words)

I'm so scared I won't find love again...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) age 36-40 - im really unhappy - i had to break up with my partner after two years because i couldnt cope with him hurting me anymore. He's cheated, lied, not answered my phone calls, made me feel fat and ugly, ignored me and all other horrible stuff you can do to a person to hurt them. ... (92 words)

How can I build up my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 19, 20 this year and i am 6ft 1 tall. I have always been very slim, i'm uncomfortable about my body being on show when i'm going swimming or when in the summer it's hot and want to take off my top. The problem is weight like 9 stone and i find it very hard to put... (131 words)

If he doesn't want a relationship then where is this going???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice, I started off sleeping with one of my housemates, though before this we started off with a few kisses, none of the housemates or our friends ever knew anything about, but everyone said they thought he liked me, and that we would be together. Since the... (274 words)

How do I tactfully raise her perfume use with her... and what do you recommend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

- Two questions really. How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend that I really don't like the perfume she likes (it smells kinda strong and bitter)? She got some new stuff over Xmas that I adored and kept telling her how nice she smelt but she didn't seem to get the hint and ... (110 words)

I wrote a bulletin on My Space and my friends have taken the wrong meaning from it, now they're not talking to me... what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

- I'd call myself a bit of a loner as i only have 2 friends and theyre not even close they all like rock and im the total opposite so i'd say i dont have friends. On myspace i posted a bulletin saying "CANNOT WAIT UNTIL YEAR 10..NEW CLASSES AND NEW FRIENDS" but my two friends ... (314 words)

I hoped she'd grow on me. Five years later though, I still haven't found much in her... !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

- My girlfriend is talented, bright, caring, hard working, very successful and always seems to be on top of things. We've been together five years. I haven't fallen in love with her however. She ticks a lot of the right boxes and we share many attributes and interests but we ... (344 words)

Does he really not remember kissing me or is he just pretending to forget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - I went to a party the other night and I kissed a boy there that I've liked for a long time, we were both tipsy but not drunk, my friend saw us and the next day she said "omg i saw you kissing" to him but hes pretending he was too drunk to remember it...hes being soo nice to me ... (130 words)

Do men ever change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any advice on how to get a fun-loving, women (plural) loving, playboy-of-a-kind guy to be more serious? Do men ever change? What would you get one for Valentine's Day? ... (33 words)

I can't stand anyone else being with my mum

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - how can i tell my mum i no longer love her and i want to move out? im 13 and hate my mum to bits, people say its impossible to hate ur mum, but i really do, she has really hurt me ((not in a abusive way)) and shes been with this man a year and doesnt kno if she wud give him up ... (209 words)

I can't get a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi,im really upset because i cant get a boyfriend and every one else can what can i do?p;ease write back a.s.a.p thank you xxxxxxxxxxx... (25 words)

I am looking for a psychic person

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - i need help, i am looking for a phsicic person in my area so i can talk to my dad, me and my sister - 21, have been looking for ages, im 13 and cant go another month with out knowing he's okay, please help we are also trying to find out how he died, it is still unknown. please ... (61 words)

I think losing each other is stupid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid Should I try to keep getting my boyfriend to be with me? I have been in a relationship for five years now and since sunday my boyfriend hasn't been returning my calls and has'nt been picking up my phone calls me and him have been argueing alot and this weekend thi... (277 words)

Should I just ignore it as a viscious prank?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband got a Valentines Card from someone implying they are sleeping with him. Hi, I just want a little advice really. I have been with my husband for 9 years and we got married 5 months ago. Yesterday he got a Valentines card through the door which was open so i read i... (219 words)

Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i lost my virginity last night! and i was so shocked it didnt really hert! was abit awquid and compforable but was ok! however im kinda sore 2day is that normal? and i had a little bloody 2day but didnt last night?... (45 words)

I know it's meant to be

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend about 5 months ago as we decided it wouldnt work out with me goin 2 college and him staying on a sixth form as we thought we wouldnt see each other, he moved on and by the end of the month was getting together with someone else which really hurt me. ... (191 words)

We're really good friends but I want to be more thn that

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this guy and i want to start a realtionship with him, we are really good friends but i wnat tobe more thn that, how do i find out if he feels he smae way? i dont want to make a move and thn mess up our friendship too... plz help... (52 words)

Why is my girlfriend so open? She knows all about her Aunt's fanny, her brother's sex life, and more!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M) - Why is my girlfriend so open? She told me once that her auntie had a vaginal problem and went into detail about it. She knows all about her brothers private lifes and is so open about sex and pregnancy that it really really irritates me. I think it does because one minute she ... (119 words)

Torn apart by jealously and rejection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend dumped me because of my jealousy and also because i believe that he misses that excitment you have at the start of a new relationship thats why i now know why he has had a lot of girlfriends. How can he buy me flowers and a teddy one day and dump me the next? It... (154 words)

My husband took everything we had - trust, love, and ruined it by sleeping with a Thai bar girl...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a very happy marriage until about three months ago. My husband went on a business trip to Thailand and visited a go-go bar where he had protected sex with a bar girl. He got back and confessed the very same night but said he only had oral sex and his Thai colleague paid ... (167 words)

We both got drunk on Sat and I said things I regret...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - I have been arguing with my boyfriend recently over silly things and I think this is because we work together and have recently moved in together. It came to a head on Saturday night as we were both drunk and I said things I really didn’t mean. I told him I wanted him out of ... (258 words)

My ex gf respects my feelings and won't date this guy. Am I being fair to her and him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Apologies for a long question. I am a 19 year old guy. Five years ago I met a girl and we dated for a few months, then broke up and became best friends. We have both had other relationships since, but remained very good friends throughout. A couple of months a... (256 words)

Are saying loving words really important for guys to hear? Any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - i confronted my bf of not calling me honey again, he told me that he chooses not to coz of what he had saw at the past when he snooped my cellphone and found out the text of my ex in another languange he thought that one of the words in theyre says 'hon' so i did told him ... (120 words)

How do I open up to my gf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over 2 months, and she is the best by the way. The problem is i have a hard time opening up to her. I used to not be able to even hug her but i got over that. Now im taking the next step. I really want to kiss her but ever... (157 words)

Can long-distance relationships work?? If so, how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was just wondering if anyone knows of any long distance relationships that worked out, and if yes, how did they/you make it work?.. I mean, long long long distance, as in, different countries. I'm in love with a guy who lives in Australia. He has a steady job and I am ... (81 words)

My husband had an affair...should I stay or go??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age - I've been married for 22 years and just founded out husband had an affair for 4 years that he broke off 2 years ago. Should I stay in this marriage and move on?... (34 words)

I'm scared if i forget her we will never be together again!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me and said she wants to be single but she also belives that one day we will be together again. i know the only way i will be ok is if i forget her completely, but i feel like if i do i will never be able to be with her again. I'm screwd... (62 words)

I have lost the perfect girl for me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I just lost the perfect girl... for me anyway. What do i do? I have dated and lived with me ex for 3 1/2 years. We have moved From Atlanta to Miami and back to Atlanta. When we lived in Miami (where i grew up) she was unhappy and then the news came that her mother had cancer. ... (287 words)

I have a major crush and think he maybe using my friend to get to me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a major gay crush on a guy at school. We're in a few of the same classes together and don't really talk to each other. I think he may be gay, but i'm not sure, and no one knows that i'm gay either. I always thought he was cute, but a week ago, he gave me a look that was ... (170 words)

He thinks that because I don't "moan" that I don't like it (sex).

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have sex quiet a bit.. I enjoy it but i never have a orgasim .He dont believe me that i enjoy it because i dont Moan or anything either.. Is there something wrong with me? He thinks that if a girl dont moan than there is something wrong with him. ... (54 words)

How can I make my feelings clear, without scaring her away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I went out a couple of times with a girl last year but our relationship did not become a sexual one. She has had emotional difficulties and has been in quite a bad way and for some months she did not want to go out with me. I thought it was over but she clearly wants to be ... (155 words)

Are inter-racial relationships a bad thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I am white and i have a black boyfriend is there ANYTHING wrong with that? ... (15 words)

I'm afraid my wife's sex ban will drive a permanent wedge between us...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner of 6 years and I recently split up. There were a couple of problems, sex (or lack of it) being a major cause of a lot of them. She wouldnt have sex with me for months at a time and I basically cracked and left her. We have had 3 kids in the last 6 years so that ... (341 words)

My boyfriend prefers to masturbate than have sex with me any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a bit years now, and i love him very much, but.. at the start of our relationship we had sex every nite we spent together then it steadied off until it was once a week now we barely have sex at all. in the past i have asked... (192 words)

I am 11 years old and am starting to have feelings for girls but I'm not very confident, will I ever get my first kiss?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 11, soon to be 12, and have "no life". i mean, my step-brother is always talking about girls and how he should go out with them. he has many friends and says that girls think he's funny and nice. i am well, kinda strange. most kids in school think i'm clearly not interested ... (286 words)

I am a woman and am attracted to another woman, how do I find out if she's attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6536 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am attracted to another woman. However I don't know if she is attracted to women. Any suggestions on how to approach her with this?... (25 words)

Is there a difference between dating a "man" and dating a "boy?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

8 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm an 18 year old University student. This is going to make me sound lame, but I didn't date much in High School. I mean I had plenty of opportunities and 1 or 2 flings, but no real relationships. Lately I've been getting close to this guy and I think we may make... (224 words)

My girlfriend is needy, jealous, overbearing, irrational, temperamental, possessive and a control freak but says she's NOT insecure!!!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Imagine the most overbearing, needy, hyper-jealous, irrational, temperamental, possessive control-freak and thats my girlfriend. She's never been cheated on, I've been dead honest, but she has witnessed friends getting hurt. She believes that she is not insecure... (99 words)

My boyfriend is so lax, is this what he's going to be like if we move in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (F) - I am 18, my boyfriend,20. We have been together 4 years. We are best friend also and spend all our time outside of work together. Whether that be, he sits in my room watching one thing, whilst I sit downstairs with my mum watching another, or us going out just the two of us. ... (520 words)

We should never have split up! Help... what should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

- Basically we are one year down the line, and I have broken up with the girl again........again not being able to talk things through, and taking the silly option of splitting........... Well its one year on and its happened again. I started a new job, was travelling long h... (349 words)

She wants to break up with me and remain friends as there is "no spark" in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

8 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This question may seem long, however i am only including the relevent info because i believe this is a unique situation and need some advice. I am in my mid twenties and i had been dating this lovely lady for a few months. We started off as friends (but i always liked her so i... (382 words)