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He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom! Should I be worried?

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Question - (7 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He wants to have anal intercourse with no condom, but I'm worried that it will be gross for him! We've done it with a condom, and it was really clean, but I've heard of 'pimp shitz' or something where stuff gets forced up into his penis. But I don'tunderstand because if he cums while he's in me, wouldn't that mean there's no 'pimp shitz'? Help! I'm worried it'll be too yucky and he'll get grossed out!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007):

i have had anal sex without a condom with my girlfriend, it would be stupid of me to recommend it, but for us it was fine. just make sure u are 'empty and clean'(sorry cant think of a better way to say it) there are enema kits around for home use.

id just say use lots of lube and careful positions. it doesnt sound like u need persuading but in my exparience it can be great for girls.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all your help!

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A male reader, agony_uncle_r United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2007):

its seriously not recomended to have anal without a condom.

theres an awful lot of bacteria in your anus and that can leave you not having sex for quite a while and worse.

but if you still decide to go ahead with it, i suggest you give your anus a good clean befor hand and he gives his penis a very good clean after and by no means does he take it out and put it back in the 'normal' hole.. that kind of infection is something you can do without.

but if your ever unsure about anything, the moral of the story is never to do it until you are sure.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (7 February 2007):

Yos agony auntI recommend using a condom. Not only because of the mess (and yes sometimes it can be very messy), but also because anal sex is by far the easiest way to catch something nasty. There are lots of different bacteria that live in there, a condom is a good way to stop them getting spread to places they shouldn't be.

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A female reader, vina_101 United Kingdom +, writes (7 February 2007):

vina_101 agony auntI have never ever heard of 'pimp shitz!' So I cannot advise you on that side of things. All I know is if you don't want to do it without a condom and if you are not comfortable doing it without a condom then simply don't do it. If you don't want it to be gross then do it the way you've always done it, the clean way and the safe way. You say you think he'll find it gross but have you tried asking him so that you know for sure? Maybe it won't bother him at all, maybe he'll actually like it.

Hopefully someone on this website knows what 'pimp shitz' is and hopefully they can tell you what you need to know.

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