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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Finally got together with my online girl and found out she likes to do cocaine! I am hurt..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been dating a 34 year old girl for about 11 months now. We met online and really hit it off, till one day 7 months into the relationship I discovered that she was using cocaine before our lovemaking. She told me it was so she could be more esentrik. The problem is ... (150 words)

I'm dating a married man and I am sick of living with the lies! Advice appreciated!

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 24 and I've been dating a 36 yr old married man for two years. He has three small kids. I love him so much and I know he loves me, but the more I love him the more it hurts every time he leaves me for the night. I know this is wrong, but I don't think I'll ever find ... (122 words)

I have a good friend I really like...but I can't tell if he is gay like me? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 17 and Im A Gay male Theres this kid i like hes also 17 but I'm just really confused whether he's gay or not mayb bi....i just cant tell i dont want to do anything stupid and make a mistake and lose him as a friend(that all i have of him so far his friendship)i have ... (275 words)

I'm 33 but my fiancee is having 2nd thoughts about me, due to my temper tantrums and immature behaviours! Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - please can someone help me im due to get married in sept of this year and my lovely fiancee, has just told me that the spark has gone and that its my fault for being childish, ie tantrums, and i dont seem to act my age, dont get me wrong i am trying but its hard to leave behind ... (116 words)

Should I meet this 16 year old girl who says I am a stunner, even though I know I'm not! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6490 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

- i'm very worried about the girl i'm about to meet. i'm 24 year old i've just come out of a 15 months r-ship and now i'm bored and want a new r-ship. i went on this website called " faceparty " and this girl aged 16 has gotten my msn and is now wanting to meet me i will no... (391 words)

I'm 13 and my bf asked if he could take my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - im 13 n still a virgin. i've been goin out with my boyfriend for awhile. one day i was on the fone with him n he just asked if i as a virgin. of course i said yes. then i asked if he was on he said no.i said oh ok, cuz it didnt really bother me. so then he asked me if i would ... (94 words)

I can't ask him for a date as I'm scared of rejection...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy and he knows but says to my best friends that we are just friends but he told his friend that he wants to go out with me i can't ask him because i really scared i will get rejected, i don't know what to do or if he likes me or not... (57 words)

Do I apologize to her for an incident that happened a year ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey need very desperate help! last year i used to like this guy we were in the same bus. and there was a girl the same grade i was inthe same bus aswell. well one day my sis took photos of the girl's friend, and she wanted to look at them so she takes the cam from my sis and ... (225 words)

He feels inadequate and can't get past the fact I had sex with another man! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a guy (Dave) 2 years ago. I had three serious relationships prior to Dave, while he didn't really have any. Dave and I were, however, both virgins when we met. He and I had a very off-and-on relationship, but we always enjoyed each other's company. He had a ... (294 words)

He's just split up with his gf...should I tell him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend, who lives in Bath and i live in Cardiff. we've become so close that we tell each other everything, but now i think i love him, and i think he loves me too, but hes just split up with his girlfriend, shud i tell him how i feel?... (52 words)

He's with her but says he wants to be with me! I am hurting, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 17 years now and I have been happy with him up until the last year and and half don't get me wrong I love him, But we spend all our time at his place in his bedroom that's the way it has always been I go every where with him but he never comes ... (419 words)

I need tips on sex...how do I "ride" my bf? (me on top)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for a while now but everytime we have sex it is always missionary because i dont know how to 'ride' him(me on top). i have tried in the past but i seem to always do it wrong and stop then we go bk to missionary. could someone give me some tip... (96 words)

How can I get his attention when this other girl, is always taking it away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy in my circle of friends that I can’t help but think of a lot. We are just semi newly acquainted friends. I see him checking me out. I purposely wear cute clothes so he can notice me and it works. We’ve gotten to the stage (kind of) where we touch arms when we ... (156 words)

I'm sick of him saying he worships me but treating me like s**t. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

- My lad's being really off with me lately then saying to my friends that I'm the one being off with him and tells them he worships me and loves me more than anything and never wants to lose me etc...but today he was in a right mood and took it out on me then made it out to be ... (185 words)

How can I get boys to notice me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 14 , i'm not popular but i'm still not a geek or anything. i think im pretty looking but i havnt had a boyfriend in a year and it's really starting to get to me. i think it's because i'm not popular and none of the boys notice me and to be honest i havnt gt many fri... (104 words)

Some other guy is with the girl I like. I want to put on a mask and beat him up! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i really really really like this girl and she said she liked me but now shes goin out wif this other guy and i actually hate him. i want to beat him up and im on the verge of putting on a mask and absolutly kicking his face in. but i know i shouldnt but im going to if i don... (81 words)

My best friend does everything I do and then some - then acts as if she's better than me! What gives and how do I cope??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Can someone help me cope with my copycat better than you attitude best friend? I love her and yes at times to death, but why does she ALWAYS compete with me??? I thought it was flattering in school, then I got married, she got married. I had a baby, she had a baby, we bough... (124 words)

She lied to me about her past, seems to be living a double life, and ended up giving me an STD! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl for 4 years. the first year was great but then i started noticing she would avoid and hide issues of her past relationships. Anyway to make a long story short, (after 3 years of me drilling her with questions and gettin nowhere) she calls me up and ... (403 words)

He said that I should be the one to buy our house, this way he can walk away if something should happen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age - I have been dating a guy for almost 2 yrs and he wants me to move in with him at one of his rentals,I suggest getting married and buying a house of our own,but he thinks that is foolish since he allready has one that he likes cause it is in the country.He says if we get a place ... (117 words)

I don't have the guts to let my guard down around guys so I have a chance to get a bf! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a problem, and it's me. I'm a girl, above 20 years of age and I've never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. Guys find me attractive, and pay me wonderful compliments, but, I have this tendancy to keep a certain distance from them and if they try to get close, I... (142 words)

My ex is going to show the girl he likes - the same girl who hates me - a humiliating video of me! I feel used and empty.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

- My ex from over a year ago but thing still happen with us. Before he didnt want to speek 2 me but me, him and his friend went in his house and he was calling me as usuall and then smeared water on my face and it made me bang my head and I ran in his living room on the sofa ... (306 words)

How do I orgasm during sex w/out touching myself? And how do I tell him I faked it??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When ever i have sex i never climax.If i do it is because i touched myself but i never get one if i leave it up to my partner being inside of me. What's wrong with me? Is this normal? i want to be able to do this without touching myself but how do i do that? I also faked i... (89 words)

I had a terrible cramp and discovered I was covered in blood! I'm not on my period!! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm freaked out about this!! Last Monday morning I was walking from the car to work when I suddenly got this terrible cramp in my stomach, when I got to work I went to the ladies where I discovered that my jeans and under clothes were covered in blood!! Now I know it wa... (123 words)

It irriates me that my gf made abig deal of not knowing when my driving test was! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend got offended because I didn't tell her when my driving test was and she nosed around my house until she found it, which was on my mums private notice board. I was hoping too not tell anyone about it apart from mum but she found out the date. It has irritated me so ... (69 words)

Re: sex She said that girls are the only ones who give, to a man it means nothing too him. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year and we both love each other and are committed. However I find her a bit one sided most of the time and today she said that when we had sex, she gave me somthing and I didn't give her anything. She feels that girls are the ... (79 words)

He said he loved me and then I discovered the text messages on his phone! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (?) age 41-50 - Hello to all.. I have a problem at the moment which is literally breaking my heart and my world. Ok.. the short version coz im sure you dont have all day! I broke up with my ex b/f (after 4yrs) Nov last year but we didnt spend any time apart, kept seeing eachother but living a... (527 words)

I've had unprotected sex and I'm certain that I'm pregnant. But the tests say I'm not! Huh??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Everytime my boyfriend and I had sex last month, it was unprotected and he did ejaculate inside of me everytime. Now I'm 3 almost 4 days late. I'm almost positive that I'm pregnant. I hava already taken 2 pregnancy tests which both came out negative, but it might have been to ... (76 words)

When I lost my viginity I bled a little. But now every time I have sex I bleed a lot afterwards. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - when i lost my virginity i bled a tiny bit, but since then i have had sex about 7 times (quite reguarly, like 2-3times a week) but i have bled more after each time. im not talking like a dot of blood, but alot - alot more than when i lost my virginity. is this because sex is ... (84 words)

Is it normal for women to feel absolutely nothing during intercourse, or is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know most women don't orgasm through intercourse alone but is it normal not to feel anything at all??? When I am with someone, I get really turned on by foreplay and everything but as soon as he enters me and we start having sex, I don't feel anything at all. Even aft... (130 words)

I love Dave but I'm having Steve's baby! I know I can't have them both but I can't choose! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

2 February 2007 (F) - hi,im in such a confused state! i will start from the begining..in 2004 i got with a lad called David who was 18 (i was 21),we were fine 4 a while until i got pregnant and he said he couldn't handle it so finished with me,subsequently i had a miscarriage and got on with my life ... (202 words)

I'm cheating on my boyfriend with a married man. I feel guilty so should I stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of six years moved thousands of miles away a half a year ago to pursue a teaching career. In the first two years we were together, we knew we were done with dating other people and had an understanding that we'd eventually get married. But then he moved... (123 words)

I fancy the sister of my friend's wife. How can I show her that I'm interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I really fancy my best friends wifes sister not sure how she feels. I am 38 and she is 34, I was married for 10yrs and didn't really know her since seperating i have grown a close friendship wiv her. I have been out with her as mates a few times and we regulary go out as a ... (126 words)

He said he's not ready for a long term relationship so does that mean it's over between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - for the past week my relationship with my boyfriend seems to getting worse. he just seemed to be really distant. last night he picked me up after work. and i asked him what was wrong and he said he has been thinking about us. and said he just came out of a 2 year relationship ... (149 words)

Does my boyfriend really love me? What do think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

2 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - on our way home suddenly i kept silent and just don't want to speak with my boyfriend,he keeps on asking me what's wrong but i stayed silent with no reasons at all but I just don't want to speak with him. He respected my silence with no further questions asked, then i thought ... (197 words)

I feel like I have to nag her for any kind of intimacy... We've gone from 10 times a week to once a week, if that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 14 months. We live together and are completely commited to eachother. In beginning, as in most relationshiops, we had a very intense sex life. However, During the first six months, we had gone from having sex about 10 times a week to ... (336 words)

Do I tell him how I feel and work it out as good friends and rational adults? Is it possible? What if he feels the same about me? Will I be the worst kind of home wreker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in love with a friend - my partner in our small business. I can't quite figure out his fellings for me. He just got fake-married for legalization issues. He is a very kind and great friend, but he didn't told me about the marriedge at all for six months and we t... (329 words)

Why does he treat me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i was with my childs father for 10 years really 3 because he spent 7 in jail. i left him when he cheated on me like 4 times and i thought he would relize what he lost but it backfired on me he dont care not only that he disrespect me lets his girlfriend watch my child and when ... (127 words)

Would he always see me as the ugly duckling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

- Ok so I used to like this guy in highschool- and unfortuantely the word got out and he found out.. I havent seen him in a few years.. I look entirely different and now have emotional intelligence and experience here in college... But..If I happen to run into him one of these ... (124 words)

How do I steer clear of lust and find love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

- How do I steer clear of lust and find love? Every relationship I have had has never felt real- mostly becuase I would find my self head over heels for someone and he guy would pretend all along that he "cared" and then I would figure it out and It woudl feel wrong.. I find it ... (163 words)

Would you leave this guy alone with your child even if he is the father? My lawyer is telling me in 3 months it will be ordered by a judge that he can get unsupervised visits. She is only 6 months old now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

2 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - Would you leave this guy alone with your child even if he is the father? My lawyer is telling me in 3 months it will be ordered by a judge that he can get unsupervised visits. She is only 6 months old now. He: Asked me to have an abortion (near end of 1st trimester) duri... (1027 words)

She has real committal issues and I often feel as though she is actively trying to sabotage the relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 35 yr old male and have been dating a 45 yr old lady for almost a yr. I have never been married and she has been divorced twice with two children ages 20 and 21. Mostly, we have a wonderful connection and a lot of intamacy. We both declare to love each other. The problem ... (189 words)

How can I tell her that I think of her more as a sister, than of a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so to spit it out first im bisexual and the chic im talking about in this is also bisexual anyways this girl likes me alot. shes always walking with me flirting with me and always trying to convince me my girlfriend isnt good for me. i like this girl but not this wa... (88 words)

Guys make me itch. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - this might sound completely ridiculous....but is it possible to get hives (itchiness) because you cant stop thinking about a guy? i know he likes me, but im very weird about relationship stuff, to be honest. it all freaks me out...im 21 and never had a boyfriend, but have been ... (83 words)

How can i get over him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - HELLO!!!! U c im 13 years old and ive gone trough allot!! First my last 2 ex Chris and Kevin were much older and only wanted sex!!! i never gave it to them so they dumped me!! Then i told my homeboy that i loved i was Bi he stoped talking to me!!!!!!!!!!!How can i get over h... (62 words)

Do I confront him, or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - kk this is a very long versoin of my other question but it has more detail and might come up with more advice Okay me and my boyfriend started dating in October of 06. I thought I had no chance with him because first time he came over he was all over my friend and they ... (1087 words)

Is he flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy, who is so cute, since last year and still do.we were friends last year,but now he doesn't talk to me.He always blushes when he sees me,looks at me but looks away when I see him,and some times pokes me! Is he flirting with me?... (48 words)

Anal sex hurt like hell for me--is it supposed to hurt the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is anal supposed to hurt the first time? First few times? I tried it with my bf and it was the most painful thing I'd ever experienced!!! Is this normal? We used a condom that was heavily lubed, but it still killed! Is this normal?... (45 words)

She knows how I feel for her but she has a bf. Should I just remain friends with her or back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

2 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a close female friend, who I've known for a few years. I think we know each other very well, we've always been pretty open with each other to the point that when I started to feel that she could be more than a friend I felt comfortable that I could tell her without ... (197 words)

Should I just move on even though it going to be very hard, or should I just call my ex and tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my boyfriend broke up like 2 weeks ago because we didnt really talk anymore cause he was always busy working, and i cant seem to get him out of my mind no matter how hard i try. I want to get back with him, but im scared to cause he cheated on me but i like him sooo ... (143 words)

My bf believed his ex wife, when she accused me of abusing the kids! Now he doesn't trust me! Advice, please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

2 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf has 2 kids and i have 1 he is 14 years older than me and his ex wife is causing trouble 4 us the most recent thing she has said is she has accused me of being a child abuser i love his 2 kids and would neva do any thing 2 harm them in any way he knows that but still ... (81 words)