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male
age
36-40,
*aogwan
writes: hey people need some help,ive just got my first gf bin with her for 2months,it is a long distance relationship, shes a really decent girl, i have wanted to get a gf for a long time, and now i have found one i feel that i should be more committed, and i keep getting thoughts about other girls which i dont even know, im really scared about wots happening to me i dont want to lose this girl,ive wanted to be with for a long time, am i just being shallow and stupid, im starting to hate myself now,Help me please!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007): This happened to me. You dont like them. you miss love and the first girl you see you think you like because you dont have love anymore.
hang in there!
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reader, kj0483 +, writes (8 February 2007):
i was in a long distance relationship and there is no way to make it more committed with out making it a 'local' relationship. aside from you moving there or her moving there you can't commit more. just think, if you are not acting on your thoughts, then they are only thoughts. if you act upon them, then you are cheating. maybe this isn't the relationship that you are really looking for and you just like the idea of saying you have a girlfriend. you sound like someone who likes commitment and maybe you should be with someone who is closer to you.
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