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*_lynn2488
writes:My boyfriend says he works too hard to try to get an orgasm when we have sex. Basically, he thinks I'm boring in bed. What can I do to keep his interest?
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reader, I Waited For The One  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 can i be honest?
i used to think my ex was boring in bed because we did it miss style over and over and over again.
i told her the day she lefted me it was like shaggin a bag of spuds because that how i used 2 look at it.
i think you sould try what the others say spice things up.
try new positions. try dressing up. and if it all falls call him boring in bed and see what he says to that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): If he says he has to work too hard, then he wants to be lazy. Try taking the lead and getting on top and making him your love slave, he has to do what you want when you want it, men love intstructions, like put it here, touch me there, like that, and so on.....so be bold and see if that is what he is talking about....don't feel bad, he isn't accurate when he says you are boring. Most men want a woman who is natural in bed, he may just have gotten use to a woman who likes to be unnatural and put on a performance. Do this for him once, and maybe he will get back to work, damn it.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 It's a bit harsh of him to come out and say this although obviously you want to change your sexual style to please him. Ask him to help you, show you how he's like things done differently, but remember that you don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with.
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reader, mel_22 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 This must be hard for you, I would suggest spicing things up, it all depends on what you and you're partner are into but you could take control have confidence in what you're doing too a man always finds it a turn-on when the women knows what there doing and if all else fails dress up sexy give things a try, I'm sure you have him in the palm of you're hands!! Good Luck :)
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