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writes:i am in this relationship for 2 yrs not engage but do have a sex life i think my partner is loosing it for me.nAlways talking about how good i was even though he is my first i am not a pro. Is it really true that sex can bring people closer in love or is he just pretending just to get sex with me.pls hepl.I am in trouble
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007):
Yes , sex can make people feel closer to one another, however this can actually cause problems rather than solutions in relationships that have issues. Couples can fall in to behaviours where sex masks a real problem, or sex is always used to resolve an argument. Perhaps good at the time, but the problems remain and eventually get worse. This is why it is good if people in a relationship do not start having sex straight away. They need to be able to address and fix any problems without having the intimacy of sex to cloud their judgement.
Your question didn't make much sense to me, but if you are having problems in your relationship then communication can fix them, not sex.
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Did you mean to post DO NOT HAVE A SEX LIFE? If that is the case, yes most intimate relationships develop into a sexual one. And, yes you do feel closer with your mate (usually). You share passion and intimacy with each other on another level, beyond conversation and friendship. What's important is that you are ready for the next level. Don't feel pressured.
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reader, asheyjader +, writes (7 February 2007):
I honestly think that in mycase because we are in love sex brought us closer. But unless you think there is a possibility that he is cheating, I have never heard of a guy being with a girl for 2 years just for sex. I think if it was just sex he would be over it by now.
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