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*tephaniewoolum
writes:I started dating my bestfriend 3 years ago. Now he has broken up with me and is now after only 3 months being apart is going out with someone else. But he still wants to hang out and he knows that it hurts me for him to be dating someone else. Im still in love with him...I know im only 16 but Everyone knew I was in love with him.. What do i do? How am i suppose to get ouver him. Reply to this Question
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reader, I Waited For The One  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 wow your ex dating someone else 3 months after you split.
babe sorry 2 say but he moved on time for u to do the same.
i know u was 2gether 3 years and it seems like longer but you now have to look at the bigger picture.
i think your ex boyfriend doesn't respect u as a friend if he want to rub it in is face that he as a new girl
my advice.
just try to be nice 2 is new girl it will drive him insane because i think hes out to make u jealous as mad. and if u show him your not bothrered it will hurt him more.
me & my ex went threw hell & back in 15 months engagement , misscarriages , fights the works and 2 months after us splitting she was trying to move on and it keep's failin i'm moveing on now new girl. and i thought i would never meet anyone ever again because i'm a picky person.
and look at me i'm more happy now than i was before and these people on ere proved me all wrong when they said it would happen and u can be even happier with a new guy.
so go and find the guy of your dream he may be just around the corner.
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reader, mel_22 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Hey honey this must be so hard for you as your ex has obviously moved on, and it may seem obvious to say but you need to do the same you are a young girl and you should be having the time of you're life! It is hard to have fun at first because he will be on your mind most of the time but go out with your mates and do normal 16 year old things!! You should just think of it that you have your freedom back your only young once live everday like its your last so you dont look back when your too old to do it and think If only...... I hope I have helped you and that you will be able to have some fun I know it will take time but you need to force yourself to do it things wont get better unless you help yourself have fun you need to get out away from him cut all ties!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): thats the same case as me but my boyfriend started going out with this itha gal after a week or so n he was just tryin to make me jealous he doesnt understand my feelings how he hurts me or anything but i know that i still love him n i m scared of my parents n i really dunno wot to do either
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): A lot of space. Turn away and dont speak to him but let him know its so that you dont get hurt and much later when you are ready you'll feel much better and be able to spend time with him. Just remember you're not obligated to see him and if after all that time you decide you dont want to be friends after all, all you have to do is forget about him and carry on which is easy as time goes on. A year ago I was in the EXACT situation as you. It all blew up in my face because my ex wanted me around all the time after and I couldnt handle it due to how bad things got. Trying to be friends after a break up is a risky bussiness, rarley seems successful. Your age doesnt matter, I'm in my twenties and it hurt like hell. But trust me when I say it was so much better breaking off contact. Do it before something bad happens then you'll later be in the perfect position to make that friendship decison. I didnt do that and it just got worse. Time makes thing easy and you're still very young so after this you'll be fine.
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (7 February 2007):
 hey you
i know it seems like the world has fallen down but it hasent! you know get a boyfriend show him what a sexy butiful woman you are! so go out there 3 months is a long time why dont you arrange to meet up with a group of friends let him come with his new girlfriend and you come with your new boyffriend and let him see how over him you are and if that fails is he what you really need?
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