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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

For 3 years I have lied to him about my age and surname! Should I tell him the truth?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - can someone help me? Not only have i lied about my age, i lied about my name.. i'm so ashamed of this... so can someone please help me!? Well i met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17 turning 18, he asked me how old i was and i told him that i was 18 (since it was only 2 ... (263 words)

Should I confront my cheating girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been suspecting that my girl has been cheating but i didnt have proof. Two days ago I finally caught her with some guy, who was her ex boyfriend, leaving her apartment but she didnt see me. No wonder, the night before she did not pick up my calls. She has been calling me ... (109 words)

I haven't had a period since January 2006 - does this mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I was suppose to get my period during February, but its the end of the month and i still don't have it. I mostly get it every other month. My last menstrual period was last January of 2006. Does this mean i'm pregnant? ... (43 words)

I feel I have to read his emails/texts because he was hiding his contact with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is long! I have been with my BF for 3 years. He makes me feel so special and treats me so well. Everyone says they can see how much we love each other. That's why I'm confused.. After a year he was acting a bit dodgy when getting txts. I asked who he was texting... (703 words)

I am in love but keep pushing him away because I was cheated on in the past. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had issues the past few years with letting people in. I am in love right now with someone, but I keep pushing him away. It's like I don't want him to love me back. I think this is due to my past of being cheated on. How can I fix this?... (57 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating with my ex-best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my GF is cheating on me with my best friend. Him and I aren't friends anymore because he did something to her when they were alone in his apartment so i stopped talking to him. I just want to know how i can find out if she really is cheating on me?... (54 words)

I'm 12 and just lost my virginity, now I'm really regreting it!

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - omg....I am 12 and I lost my virginity this year. I love my bf...i do but, now I'm regreting wat i did. I feel like a slut now! I promised i would "save" myself until I got married! But i have just been wanting to do "it". I just wanted to see wat it would be like....i never ... (221 words)

I get a nasty rash everytime I shave my pubic area! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Everytime I shave my pubic area I come out in a rash that looks really horrible. I don't want to wax, I want to shave but is there anything I can do that will stop me coming out in a rash? Such as a cream or a certain razor? Only whenever I go on holiday I have to cover it up ... (107 words)

I'm a lesbian and love my GF but can't stop thinking about an old female friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Before i meet my gf of 8 years i was really close to a female friend. Looking back (perhaps through rose tinted glasses) i can remember times when things got a little heated, such as the time she came out the shower with nothing on, knowing full well i was still in the hotel ... (200 words)

Hey everyone! What sort of compliments do women like to get? I need to know so I can charm the ladies in conversation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi! i wanted to know what knid of compliments women like and can anyone give me some ideas of stuff to come up with in conversation with this girl i like?... (31 words)

He is right for me in everyway but I don't want to have sex with him! Will this come in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have the most wonderful male friend who is right for me in everyway. I know he would love to take things further but for me, there is no sexual spark which is very important to me. Does it come in time or this destined to be only friends? I would love to take things further ... (69 words)

Should I get back in contact with my ex even though we have so many differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age - Dear Cupid: I'm about two months out of a relationship with my girfriend of 1 1/2 years. We have tremendous differences---she wants kids (I don't blame her getting that pressing urge at our age, 42), I don't--I'm a homebody, she's not, she likes to travel, I have a dog I ado... (355 words)

I really like him, trouble is...he has a girlfriend. Do you think he'll leave her for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a crush on this boy when I was 16 and he was 17. We kissed a few times and then he graduated and moved away. I graduated the next year and moved away to go to college. In college I met a great man and we dated for 3 1/2 years. We moved back to my hometown and I ran ... (260 words)

My mum doesn't like our age gap but I want to spend the rest of my life with this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a pickle! I'm 21 and my fiance is 35. My mum dosent like it because of the age difference. What can i do or say to help her change her mind? I love him and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I've been with him since i was 13 but she dosent like ... (67 words)

I like him and he and I (along with one of his female friends) were all having a laugh, messing about and it was really fun. But do you think he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hey everyone! well today the guy i liked, we were in a big group doing our home wrok...i was sitting beside him and looking on his copybook, so then his very close friend(girl) wants to take a look at his work so he tries to cover it jolkingly.. so i removerd his hand offa his ... (182 words)

I bought her some Valentines gifts but things didn't work out between us and now I don't know what to do with all these gifts. Any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I bought some gifts for my valentine. on the day we disagreed and I have given up on her love because it looks like she will never express her love to me. the question is what do I do with the presents. I cannot return them as the store wont accept them back. I have considered ... (99 words)

He quickly let go of my hand when he saw her coming. Do you think he's ashamed of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 16 and my bf is to. i have been wiv him for roughly 2 months. we go 2 the same school and today we were walking down the corridor with r arms round eachother as usual and we saw one of his teachers walking down the corridor up ahead. and my bf said 'oh no its miss whi... (160 words)

After the pill, my period has become very light. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on the pill for about a year and then stopped for a few months. I started taking it at the start of my period. Now my period is very light. I dont know whether this is normal or whether I am pregnant?... (44 words)

I want this guy to like me but he sees me as just a friend. How do I get him to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy but he says that were too good of mates to do any thing, what should i do to try and get him?? ive liked this guy for ages on and off and lately weve become really good mates. and for that reason he wont think about me more than a friend. but if he did t... (129 words)

My girlfriend likes submissive men but ditched me because I was TOO submissive... How can I be more confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. For a time it seemed things were going well, but she ended it, and after a bit of time she told me why. She likes submissive guys (not just in the bedroom) but she said I was too submissive for a relationship. That I wasn't aggressive ... (107 words)

I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All my friends have boyfriends and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant get a boyfriend and i was wondering if anyone has any tips on trying to get one? ive only ever had one boyfriend and that was ages ago and even then he only went out with me so i would do loads of stuff with him. but the worst thing is all my mates have boyfrien... (131 words)

He's going to a bike rally and I don't think its really the place to go if you're in a relationship. I'm really not ok with this, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6280 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i told my b/f i am not ok with him going to a bike rally for a week with what goes on..women walking around barely naked acting pervocatively at night, dancing on bars naked sometimes, flashing..it just doesnt seem like the place to go if married or in a relationship..he then ... (159 words)

Is it time I moved on? I don't feel the same for him and it makes no sense to continue our relationship. Can anyone else relate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I move on? I've been with my partner for over 4 years. We don't live together and have no children together. I've been very confused over my feelings for him over the last 8 months. I don't find him attractive anymore, we don't share the same interests and I'm not ... (129 words)

I need to get rid of my double chin. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is their any way to get rid of double chin or to lose that chubness you have on the face. i am not able to take a picture and the last one i took, i asked people and they said i look chubby. plzzz can someone help mee how to lose this fatnes... (95 words)

I'm gay and my boyfriend moved in with me... But he's sooo lazy and has a large dog which is running riot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. Last year he left everything, moved 120 miles, took a new job and moved in with me. Since moving in he has done nothing to help with keeping the house or paying bills unless I specifically ask. If I question him he says ... (198 words)

I'm a gay woman. How do I meet other straight-acting-gay-chicks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a woman who primarily enjoys the company of women (e.g., I'm gay). However, I often find that I am not typically attracted to "gay" women. Usually, I am always into women who identify as "straight" or who have "bi-tendencies." It's difficult to have long-term relationships ... (87 words)

Friday we fought, Saturday we had great make-up-sex, Tuesday I got dumped... Why?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) age 41-50 - been with my boyfriend for 3 years nearly, we went out friday and had a fight. saturday we were absolutely fine and had the best sex all day long. sunday night and monday he started to act distant and now hes ended it on tuesday, we live together but i just left when he sent ... (132 words)

Do you think I have any chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i realy like a boy in my year at school i have liked him for a few months almost a year a go everyone started to smoke yesterday i started to sell fags i dont smoke i think it is horrible the boy who i like smokes and i sell him fags since i have he has been very nice to me and ... (113 words)

I keep comparing myself to his girlfriend which makes me feel even worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I really like this guy, but he has a girlfriend, who I think is more attractive than me. I'm quite jealous/envious of her and I really don't like to feel like this, even though I don't know her. I compare myself to her, which in honesty, makes me feel even worse. Can... (62 words)

Parts of my life really get me down, any tips on how to make me feel better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

- Hello, parts of my life is really getting me down at the minute and i'm just wondering if you've got any tips to try and help me feel a bit better about everything. I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now, yet he only pays me attention when he's feeling lonely or bored... (305 words)

Is it possible to become addicted to Drama?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

- I think I'm addicted to being obsessed and unhappy. Everything in my life has to become a big issue and I can't seem to stop it now. Even minor things seem to become huge with me, I don't know whether it's habit or the adrenaline rush of drama in my life? It could be something ... (159 words)

Should I tell her I've slept with someone else since we've been apart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-girl friend wants to get back together with me after spending nearly a year apart. We had had a long term relationship (over ten years) but ran into problems sexually - I have a very high sex drive where she, for a number of reasons, didn't have one (or at least it died ... (209 words)

Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know what everyone thinks ... (62 words)

What Are These Itchy Bumps?!?!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) age 51-59 - I know this is not a love question but I have asked everyone and nobody knows so maybe one of u can answer this for me. every time this year that I lay in the tanning bed about 2 hrs later my body brakes out in little red itchy bumps what could this be? please help!... (56 words)

My Mom Guilt Trips Me For Staying With My BF Over The Weekends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

- My mother is driving me crazy. I have a boyfriend of 2 yrs but I still live at home. My boyfriend lives 2 hrs drive away from me and I get to see him only during the weekends. He has a 6 yrs old daughter which only come stays with him every second weekend. Therefore, he comes ... (299 words)

I Was Controlling, But I Am Willing To Change!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - things were fine with my boyfriend for a year or so, however a particular situation ended up being very hard for me and i became depressed. i mean seriously depressed not just bummed. i had negative thoughts constantly and i started being an idiot to live with, i started ... (513 words)

What is this clear liquid from my sore breasts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I had my last child thirteen years ago and my breast milk stopped a while after. I was then sterilised. But today my breast had a little clear liquid come out when i was checing for lumps. They are sore too and have become larger. Can you help ... (48 words)

Im really worried hes a cross dresser!! and dont know how to approach him about it!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 months, it has been great and he is a very caring and fun guy, we fell in love and he is moving in with me next month. I was very excited about this until I one day I discovered whilst looking up an item of furniture he was selling on ... (272 words)

Have I got enough best friends and is it normal ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6413 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

- I have to ask if the type of friendship I have is ideal. I have 5 best friends who I would go on holiday with. Apart from one of them who is a girl. After that, I have several friends who I'm good friends with and would go to their parties, but not close enough to meet up with ... (104 words)

He's 27, I'm 18! What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen for someone older then me. I'm not yet sure if he feels the same but I will know soon...he's 27 and i'm 18..do you think this is too much of an age gap?... (35 words)

I am in love with my Boyfriend and My girlfriend! I want to keep both, What should I do!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and had a sexual relationship with an older gay man since i was 17 when i fell in love. up till then i have always just fancied girls, and though i had the odd one night stand (girls) in the 5 years. i have always been in love and happy with our relationship, and it was ... (328 words)

My ex-fiance of 3 years still keeps in contact even though she is engaged to someone else, is she just playing me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

- Hi all, I am 39, and have been broken up with my ex-fiancee for the past 3 years. We have both kept in contact during that time, even while dating others. She is living with someone and engaged. Yet, still, she will see me, spend time at lunch, occasionally get together etc... (211 words)

I'm a male and afraid to lose my virginity, I seem to think that people who lose their virginity before marrige are not good people. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am a guy alright. But i wonder why does it discomfort me when someone is looking at me or makes eye contact, i feel shy, when they look at me I think they were probably thinking about having sex with me. That sounds absurd but i am extremely conscious about this in a public ... (168 words)

I spent 6 months getting over her, then saw her again and now im back at square one! Please help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I'm currently still undergoing the getting over the ex-gf phase. It's been 6 months now since she left me, and during these six months i've been trying really hard to get over her. I've been going to the gym everyday, going out with friends and learning musical intruments ... (225 words)

I Absolutely Adore Older Women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, this is going to be very short, I am so attacted to mature womens, (aged 45-55), I am only 37, is this normal? should I be worry? I am not saying I don't like the younger age, but they just don't do it for me the same. please advice Thanks ... (59 words)

My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6443 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. Well just deserts, as I ... (150 words)

Do I cut his cell phone off or let him keep paying for it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when me and my ex boyfriend were together-i added him a cell phone line to my account.we broke up 2 months later.he pays his part of the bill on time every month still like he sussposed to. the thing is i just found out that he cheated on me with ALOT of girls when we were ... (94 words)

Im in love with my ex ex again... he wants to make a go of it would this be wise!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6454 days ago

28 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all My ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, but kept saying that he loves me a lo... (286 words)

Found my wife kissing her best friend! It bothers me, should I discuss it or ignore it!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age - Found my wife kissing her best friend,did'nt overreact but feel quite insecure,married for 23 yrs although I suspected that she might have done this before or gone further.Love my wife and kids,what should I do,discuss it or ignore it.It was put down to both being drunk.... (47 words)

Needing to talk to others that are in a 3 way relationship!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a gay relationship for 18 years(since the age of 16). We are very happy and committed and loyal. 3 years ago, a younger man entered our lives and turned it upside down. We both fell in love with him and fought desperately for it not to happen. 3 years later we ... (97 words)