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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I break up with my girlfriend and go out with this other girl instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got this new girlfriend about a week ago but i like this other girl who has been showing signs of interest in me. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend and see if it'll work out with the other girl. What should i do?... (49 words)

I have a fantasy about girl's feet but I don't want to tell any of my friends in case they laugh.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i realy like girls feet, i have fantises of smelling them, licking them, and sucking there toes. i want to tell people so i can go out with the girls that don't mind but i am to scared to tell because i think that every body will find out and laugh. what should i do... (55 words)

What do you do when your husband does not see the bigger picture?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - whre do i go from here , im with my husband 13 years and since having twins 16 months ago life has become hard work ,im not complaining but i miss 1on 1 with my husband talking and just holding each other he thinks im just nagging .. i am only 27 and i cant live the rest of my ... (78 words)

I have a boyfriend but I've always wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl but I'm not a lesbian.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend but i think its strange because ive always wonderd what it was like to kiss a girl. i am a big fan of christina aguilera and have weird thoughts about things i would like to do with her but im not a lesbian i dont get it, help me please... (55 words)

I really like this man but I need support just now more than a man. How can I go there and NOT look attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been separated from my husband for a year and we are filing for divorce this month. It was terrible, traumatic, both of us did terrible things to each other and I have had post traumatic stress problems for this whole year. So much so, in fact, that I have isolated ... (817 words)

I think he's interested in me but I'm not 100 per cent sure, there's 20 years between us, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 20 year old female who works at a grocery store and attends college full time. Over the last four years or so, I've developed a friendship with an older man who is a customer. We've talked about everything from cars(we both love muscle/classic cars) to our families to ... (395 words)

I'm 13 years old and male and going on my first date! Any advice? I'm so nervous!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, i need help, i'm 15 and haven't ever been out with a girl. But i'm going on date with this girl whos dead fit and 13 years old, but i'm really nervous. Any advice to give me please? I'm so nervous that my hand was shaking when i asked her out... Please help me, any ... (63 words)

He spent $80 sending me flowers and he's my mate! Do you think he has romantic feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, On Valentine's Day, one of my good guy friends had a dozen Roses and a bear delivered to my house. This was a complete surprise and very sweet of him definitely, but I didn't think of it as a romantic gesture so much as a friendly thing. Well I was at his house t... (131 words)

I'm 38 weeks pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has cheated with my best mate!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 38 weeks pregnant, 19 years old and my partner has been cheating on me with my 'best mate' he's moving out on monday but I hurt like mad, I know I'm stupid but I still love him, how can I get over him? Please help! ... (46 words)

My boyfriend is really depressed, how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help...it's about my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a half a year, and he's depressed. I'm trying my hardest to make him feel better but I really don't know what I should do. Ok, he's adopted and the only blood relative that he had clos... (412 words)

I don't know if he fancies me or not... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this lad in my class and resently he text me saying LY and dont dont no if he fancys me or not please help and quick... (29 words)

He came home with a lovebite on his neck but said his mates pinned him down and said explain that one to your wife! Do I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Has my partner cheated? HI all, well my partner went to his mates last night, they all had a drink and he stayed over. He didnt come home till 5pm the next day and he has a love bite on his neck. He has never given me reason to think he has cheated in the past, but i feel con... (207 words)

I've agreed to stay with her but I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner recently cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. she said it meant nothing and she was drunk, at first she denied it and when confronted with overwhelming evidence she still tried to lie about it. Yes the cheating hurt but so did the lying. I have agreed to carry on our ... (67 words)

An update about my recent problem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6503 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Thank you for your advice and this is just an update and not another issue. I found a more indirect way to cure my curiosity I Myspace him. I found out that he has a girlfriend named Monique and yes she is black. He said that he loved her on his myspace page so it sounds ... (372 words)

Do YOU think he's cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - quite a few times ive suspected my partner of cheating on me, having read messages on his mobile phone, but when ive asked him about it he says hes not doing anything and these girls are just his friends. today i was supposed to be meeting him at pub to meet a new friend of ... (179 words)

Me, my husband and his mother! 3's a crowd, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - M e and my husband have not really had a sex life sence we had our baby but more and more i am realizing it is becuase be live with his mother and step father i hate it her it is driving me crazy...... but every time i even atempt to talk to my husband he tell she he dont care ... (102 words)

My friend and I like the same boy but I would be heartbroken if they got together, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a boy but my friend does to but i think he likes my friend and i would be heartbroken if they got together what shall i do?... (29 words)

He told me he loved me but I broke up with him, now I miss him and want him back but he won't answer my texts, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i started seen a lad over a month ago but recently finished it with him because he told me he loved me but i didnt feel the same way but now i miss him and want him back but he doesnt reply to my texts now im scared iv lost him for good.... (53 words)

I'm 16 and want to move in with my boyfriend but my mum won't let me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and want to move out with my boyfriend he has his own place, but my mum wont let me move out. If i go is there anything legal she can do about it if i just go? I really don't no what to do. Please help!... (48 words)

Life is getting me down just now what with exams and my love life, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i dont knnow what to do anymore im so stressed out with revsion and exams at school and to top it all of i just a lost a real nice guy, basically theres this really cute guy who i met via a friend and we been chatting and stuff and he seems so nice i have even seen... (161 words)

I bled for 3 days after losing my virginity, is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

- well i am 17 and last week i lost my virginity to a guy i knew 2 days!! i dont regret it one bit! the problem is i bled for like 3 days straight and then started my periods 2 days later is this unusual?? also he cant make me cum.. he can play with me all day and it just dose... (87 words)

I've missed FIVE periods now... could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke. I tried to get the morning after pill at two chemists, but couldn't get it for this reason: I haven't had a period since early september, for no particular reason, which isn't pregnancy, as I did 3 pregnancy tests ... (132 words)

My tatoos have little bumps in them which have just appeared, is this normal or is it just me being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering, I have 2 tattoos one that i had done 1st June 06 and the other in July 05. Are they meant to pop up slightly like little bumps or is it just me ?? ta ... (41 words)

How can I delete my screen name?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - *Attention* I the poster of the diet and massage, and cleaning, Thank you too everyone who has answerd my question. How can I delete my screen name any advice! aurv vouir!! ... (45 words)

We have been together 10 years and have children together but he won't marry me and I'm so upset about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been together nearly 10 years, have had our ups and downs, a few kids but he refuses to get married. He knows it means a lot to me. I don't even want a big do. Just him and me, to commit to each other. The years have just flown by, raising the family but I feel he ... (124 words)

My partner had an affair, we have 3 kids together and I just can't get over it, I feel his mom planned it all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend had an affair a year ago..We have just started our 9th yr together and have 3 beautiful children.To say i was shocked and devestated would be an understatement. The woman he was with was an ex..she stayed best buds with his mom. I never realised just how close. NOW ... (283 words)

Should I give her an ultimatum or just stick it out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Im a single guy and would like some advice. On 04/12/06 I started chatting with a girl nearby in a chat room. Anyway we hit it off instantly and after a couple of weeks she asked to meet me. However I still haven’t met here. Every time we come close something happens ... (296 words)

I just found out a friend of mines "came" on my towel in secret. Does anyone else have any similar, awful experiences like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A 'friend' came on my towel in secret... I suspect a 'friend' of mine from cuming on my bathroom towel while possobly smelling my knickers (the laundry basket is in the bathroom) ..I discovered a cum stain on the towel the day after he'd been round for the evening! We're m... (105 words)

Has anyone ever married their High School sweetheart or someone from the same school they went to? Just curious!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

- Do quite a lot of people end up marrying their high school sweetheart, or, someone from the same high school that they went to?... (24 words)

What is the correct way to do a facial massage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me the correct way to a to do a facial massage? hey this site is great!! ... (26 words)

My male friend just broke up with his girlfriend, I'm confused as to whether he wants to go out with me, what do you think? And if so, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. My best Male friend broke up with his girlfriend and on IM he said he wnated to "get back out there." Then he put "you" an put a * next to it. I realy like him and I donno if he asked me out or not. It's been weeks since weve talked about it and I am wondering if ... (102 words)

I just saw my ex a week ago, he's gorgeous and I want him back.... he has a girlfriend though. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

- i about a week ago i saw one of my exs who i had a miscarriage with. But i wanted out and now i have seen him i really love he and want him back, i would do anything. the past couple of nites i havent been able to sleep and i cant get him out of my head. but he realised that i ... (176 words)

I am 12 weeks pregnant and my partner wants me one minute then ignores me the next. I'm so confused, why is he acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am currently 12 weeks pregnant i am 19 years old i have known the father for 6 years now of which he is 23 and we have been in a realtionship for the past 4 months, when i found out i was pregnant we were both so excited, my hormones started getting the better of me and i ... (208 words)

Why can I not get a date? I'm told I'm pretty but I won't "put it about!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have boy troubles! Well I don't want to sound concieted but I at least get told I'm pretty or beautiful by strangers everyday. I was nominated for most beautiful in high school and I won miss personality plus. I was in the 10% of my class n I have a 4.0. I hear guys ... (156 words)

Where can my husband and I go for a weekend away from the kids? we need time alone if you know what i mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Where can my husband and I go for a weekend away from the kids? we need time alone if you know what i mean?... (24 words)

Can a relationship with a young person with hardly any baggage and a man ten years older with a lot of baggage be healthy and equal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and work as a substance abuse/mental health case manager. I have been drawn to the helping profession not because I have a history of abuse/mental illness/addiction/abandonment, but rather because I am passionate about helping people heal. After working at ... (494 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend, how can I regain his trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my boyfriend, how can i regain his trust? Me and my boyfriend have been together a year in April. When met in a bar, and this night we didnt realised we liked one another until our friends talked together. But before we knew this (or started dating) this gir... (628 words)

Should I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

My girlfriend tells me she's 16, her mates tell me she's only 14, I'm 24. She never wants to see me and always has excuses, her mates tell me she's cheating on me, I don't know what to believe! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

- I'm 24 Years old i'm dateing a 16 year old girlfriend who i never see. the problem, i never see my new girlfriend but i have a big heart to dump her for not seeing me. i kind of blame myself for us not seeing each over. v-day i lost the car i was driveing around. by the co... (355 words)

My husband is texting a woman constantly, is he cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - if my husband puts some womans phone number on his phone under a false name and delets all txts he sends and recieves but only from her, and clears his call register twice in as many days is he cheating? several times i have asked him if he is seeing some-one but he says he'... (143 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to stop sponging off me all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 29 yrs old and my boyfriend depends totally on me for finanances yet he has a job i have confronted him many times but he still does it how do i tell him that this hurts me very much and i cant take it anymore i feel that the only reason that he is with me is because i ... (82 words)

I never be able to stick to a diet, I'm always hungry. Any tips or advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I start my diet next week as I don't want to start on monday again through to monday 1 week. I am fed up of starting in monday and do weight watchers work they leave me hungry I don't go to a weight watchers club nor do I want too. Can't afford it. Any tips on diet food ... (61 words)

I'm really shy when talking to guys, how can I be more outgoing and talk to them easier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey All, I'm quite shy when meeting, or wanting to meet new people. My problem is that I don't know what to talk about. I'm fine when I know a bit about the person and I have some idea of what they're interested in, but when it comes to the initial part of a conversation I... (131 words)

One minute he likes me, the next he's horrible to me, what's he playing at?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

- Im a teen and this boy who i have liked for about a year and a half who i was together with for a few months but still did things with afterwards, treats me horrible sometimes and we will do things and a week later or something he will not want to do things with me and he goes ... (147 words)

We're both friends, we slept together recently but she doesn't want to get involved in case it ruins what we already have.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hiya i am really stuck, i am 19 years old and have fallen for this girl who is 16 years old, we met each other through our mates at a house party. weve known each other for a week now, last night i saw her again and ended up in bed together, a few days ago we both said we ... (137 words)

I'm in love with my mate's girlfriend, now he's caught on and I haven't been able to get in touch with either of them for 3 days! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! I am in love with my mates girlfriend, we have been talking for over year now and i really have fallen for her. She was going to split up with him, but before that happend he found out something is on. After that happend i havent been able to get in touch with her or him. ... (74 words)

Why do girls always laugh for silly reasons and why are they so emotional? It really pisses me off sometimes, why are they like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't like girls who cannot control their emotions. Especially those who keep laughing for silly reasons and get overwhelmed easily. It just pisses me off to be with someone who only likes to have fun and has nothing serious. But i don't understand how to react in front of ... (59 words)

He's going away for army training for 6 months, what will I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love this lad but tomorrow morning he is going in for his 6 months army training only 4 days ago he said he loves me too but since then it seems different and we arent together what can i do???? please answer!!!... (43 words)

I'm seeing my boyfriend Saturday night and I know he wants to finger me, any tips or advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - On saturday night i'm seeing my boyfriend, and i no he like wants to finger me. I've been fingered before, but i really really like this boy. Are there any tips or advice anyone can give me? Boys and Girls x... (42 words)

She's in a relationship...should I wait for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I met this amazing girl who is currently been in a relationship for 2 years. I really like this girl, and I have told her how I feel about her, and that I would wait for her. She told me that she cant reciprocate my feelings because she IS in a relationship. But she also ... (86 words)

I want him back and now after his booty call the other night, I am feeling more desperate than ever. Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Two weeks ago my partner and I broke up. We have been struggling for a few months now and just couldn't seem to get it sorted. The biggest prob was my inability to tell him what i want. I have now gotten over that and understand it is essential. I want him back but he says... (108 words)

She's just a friend but lately...she's been offering more lip than cheek, when we kiss! What's happening with this woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a very good female friend who I see weekly. We are both married. A couple of months back I went to see her at her home and when we greeted she got more of my lips than my cheek. I dismissed it as simply a kiss between friends. Recently I lost my job and she has been very ... (208 words)

My male cousin tries to get as physically close to me as possible. Is this intentional?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I am 25 and share a deep emotional connection with one of my male cousins, that i didn't ever before in my life. However, when we go out on bike and i am sitting on his back, he tries to get his as* close to my pen*s as much as he can and this i can say is intentional. Is he ... (146 words)

I mad that my bf was upset, simply because I didn't give him oral! What should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - okay, i am so angry right now because my boyfriend seems to be mad at me because i didnt want to give him oral tonight at his house. it was kinda late and i had to leave so i could get home at a decent time but he wanted me to stay and kept kissing me and stuff. he fingered me ... (210 words)

I want to put ON some weight! Anyone any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi just after some advise on diets i don't want to lose weight i want to gain it im 18 run and out eat any fatty and have hovered around the same weight for about 2 years i am 6.2 foot and weigh 9.4 stone i just want to get up to about 10 maybe a bit above can any one tell me ... (68 words)

He has another woman but I want him. What's wrong with that??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6511 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age - In reply to your answer, I just want the man back, not because he has another woman. I had feelings for him when he didn't have another woman. Its my heart that I'm thinking of and I believe we could work this time. What's wrong with trying to get him back before too much ... (58 words)

Is it normal still to have feelings for your first love, even when you're married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old and have been married for 3 years. I love my husband very much and never want to be without him, but I am feeling very guilty and confused. I recently ran into my high school boyfriend/first love and found myself thinking about him alot after seeing him. I ... (140 words)

After puking in my car, my ex told me 'he loved me' but was drunk! I want him back..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i split with ex 10mths ago and have slept with him twice. I saw him 2nights ago when there was a leaving party. I didn't drink. I spoke to him and said i was sick of the way he treated me. I was better than him and I won't ever let anyone treat me like that again. He kept ... (112 words)

I can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation but what guy is going to sit there for ages doing that until I cum? I'm still a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im a 16 yo virgin. im worried when i get round to having sex it will do nothing 4 me as when i pleasure myself in the place the penis would go it really doesnt feel all that good?! the only thing that gets me 2 orgasm is a lot of play on the clitoral area. this cant be good ... (79 words)

How can I keep my jealousy under control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

24 February 2007 (M)

- i need help. i get jealous pretty easily when my girlfriend talks to other men. I confess, it all started with my last gf who i didn't go out with for long, but she cheated on me anyway but broke up with me before things got serious (as far as I know). Anyway, every time she ... (92 words)

Is it okay to give a gift card to someone instead of an actual gift?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6506 days ago

24 February 2007 (F)

- Hi..I wanted to ask if giving a gift card instead of an actual gift is considered good form. Because, in my opinion, it is very impersonal and shows that you couldn't be bothered enough to take the time to put some thought into getting the person something you think they might ... (135 words)