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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is wrong with me? Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - hi i no i am young i no i am inexperianced i am told this so often i want to take on the world at times others i want to hide away where no one would ever find me eversince my gcses (i got mainly cs when i could of got bs because i didn't revise) i have had a major setback i ... (431 words)

Why don't I know of this "box address" he has? I've been with him for 3 years yet he's never mentioned this to me! Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- hi, the other day i came across a envelope in my bf's desk, i was not snooping i was originally looking for something else, i noticed on this envelope it was addressed to my bf but not to our home address it was to a private box, this seemed strange to me because he had never ... (195 words)

I know we have no future together and I have broken it off with him but HOW do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 40yrs old and for the past 2.5yrs I have been seeing a married man whose 38, has 3 kids (10,13,17 - there abouts)and from what he has told me, happy in his marriage. This is an area that he really doesn't talk about nor wishes to discuss. We met at a cook-off (he is in a ... (846 words)

What exactly did he mean be saying he was "flattered" and do you think he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i asked a man out and he said he is really flattered, and yes he is sure we will go for a drink when a certain situation is over in a couple of months could you please explain what flattered means and do you think that he likes me that way ? thanks... (54 words)

Can someone tell me what exactly IS "high maintenance?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- Is it a good thing or bad thing that a bloke thinks your 'high matenance'? and what does it mean exactly?... (21 words)

Should I text him back or wait for him to text me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all i recently wrote asking what to do about how i want more from my friend with benifits , so anyway i told him how i want more , and he said how he dont see me just as a shag and wants more too , he even asked me if we should be more like boyfriend and girlfiend now ... (113 words)

Why is he so apathetic towards marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having some trouble trying to process or make peace with a differing opinion on marriage between my boyfriend and me. We have been together for about 2.5 years now and the relationship has always been strong, less my self doubt with the marriage issue. We have never ... (874 words)

Am I falling for this guy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I am a 28 yr old female,married and have a 5 yr old son. One of my coworkers who is an extremly good looking guy started emailing me and i started emailing him back as a joke but didn't realize when things got serious and we actually started liking each other.We ha... (159 words)

We aren't actually together but he lied to me! Should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well im "seeing" this boy from school. Well, I'm not actually seeing him but i meet up with him sometimes and we have a cuddle and that but he has a gf! I feel really bad and a total fool. I met him today and he told me he had 2 go home early so i caught the bus just b4... (143 words)

He was sleeping with people behind my back now he logs onto dating websites! What should I do!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years, and last year he told me he had been sleeping with people behind my back. After a period of time of not being together he told me he had been stupid and wanted me back. So i got back together with him. A couple ... (113 words)

I just want to be myself around him but I don't think he wants that!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine who I like as more than a friend seemed to like me back but said that he wanted to wait to sleep together. Before I met him I slept with one of his friends and he told me in the weekend that this puts him off wanting to sleep with me. I asked him why he kept ... (309 words)

My partner of 10 years has chosen alcohol over me and our daughter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am living with my partner for the last 5 yrs. We are in a relationship for nearly 10 years we have one girl who is 6. Our relationship has hit rock bottom cause he has choosen drink before me too many times. What i would like to know is the house we are living in is his l... (89 words)

He still logs on to the dating service even though we are together now! Should I mention to him that I know or leave it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been with a man I met online for about seven months. I love him and he's told me he loves me. Everything seems fine - except... I know he still logs on and talks to people on the dating site we met on. He doesn't talk about it and I only know because I snooped. I know ... (99 words)

I'm 38 and just can't seem to get a date with a woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 38, tall, smart appearance, go training at the gym, good sense of humour, considerate, though a little shy i am very well respected. I don't seem to have a problem getting to know women and seem to know probably more than most guys!! They all think i'm a nice person. ... (257 words)

I'm 18 - how do I tell my mum about my 36 year old divoriced boyfriend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a very sticky situation, i am nearly 18, and i really fancied this older person who is 36, he had a wife, and they were happily married until December, when she dumped him for a 56 yr old! Me and her husband went out for a work do, and got very drunk, and he took me off ... (155 words)

My BF is away for work and is writing me explicit pornographic letters but we haven't had sex yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - BF writing me explicit porn. I'm in a new relationship, like 6-7 months now, but he's in the service far away, so we write to each other. Lately he's started giving me really, really detailed information about the size of his penis, how he is when he has sex, etc., and h... (175 words)

I have fallen in love with a taken man! What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have fallen in love with a taken man. He is definitely flirting back with me, and I am sure he is attracted to me on some level. He kissed me one night when we were both drunk at a pub. I would really like for something to happen between us, but I'm not sure if I am jus... (104 words)

Can we reclaim the feelings we had at the beginning of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I feel I have fallen out of love with my girlfriend, but don't know whether to stay in the relationship to see if those old feelings will come back to me. We have been together for two years, and initially I broke up with the girlfriend that I was happily living with at the t... (487 words)

My friend and I kiss and everytime he gets an erection! What does this mean?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- Dear cupid, i see a good friend of mine quite regularly and its more like friends with benifits really coz we kiss and stuff like that, but every time we kiss or even hug he gets a full on erection! what does this mean? is it normal for guys to do that? ( were both 16) im j... (66 words)

We are going to lose our virginity together and I need tips!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6510 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been "dating" for about 4 months and we were good friends before we started "dating". I love him, I really really do. I want to give him my virginity, he is also a virgin. My question is; i know sex will hurt and the best thing is to be relaxed, but i ... (98 words)

I'm 86 and very in love but she still has contact with her ex-lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age - I am 86 years of age and desperately in love with a lady of 50. She attended a college for the disabled in her youth and made a large circle of friends there who still meet regularly for a social get together. One member of this group is a male with whom my lady had an intimate ... (156 words)

How do I know if I have had an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- How do you know if you have orgasmed? I've had sex a good few times but i dont think i have ever properly orgasamed. How do you know? What's supposed to happen and how long is it supposed to last? xxx... (41 words)

My mother is making me choose between my BF and my family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother doesn't like my boyfriend and is making me choose between him and my family. I am 25 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for 3 months and know that we have a future together. We love each other very much, but just because my mother doesn't think he's the ... (91 words)

My GF moved to go to Uni and now she has broken up with me! Should I move on or hold on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years recently broke up with me saying that she wasn't sure if she was ready for the next step. We've been apart the last 5 months while I've been at university. She said she wanted to use our remaining time apart (3 1/2 months) to see if she was making ... (127 words)

He has cheated on me throughout our relationship and now I'm really nasty to him and I don't want to be anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. Throughout our relationship he has cheated on me which has caused me to act and feel nasty. I am very nasty and now our relationship has gone dry. We hardly have sex anymore and there is no love shown. We use to be great together but ... (70 words)

Together 7 years but all we do is fight and I'm ready to end it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 24 years old, and i am in an almost 7 year relationship with my 21 year old boyfriend. We fight everyday about everything. We dont have sex anymore, and we sleep opposite in bed and hen we do sleep in the same bed, we are comfortable with calling each other every name you ... (222 words)

My childhood friend and I kissed, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a really close friends who I have known all my life because our parents are friends and we always used to go on holiday together, me and my friend dont go anymore as we are old enough to go with our own mates. Ive always thought of him as my brother and he's quite ... (173 words)

He puts his friends before me and doesnt appreciate me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 year and I have noticed that he doesn't appreciate me in anyway, he places his friends before me always, the worst thing is that he puts me down in public, but he always maintains that he is joking, but I no he's not. He keeps... (94 words)

Is there any way I can help her relax??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf have been going out for 4 months now offically but we've liked each other for years. We've been best friends most of our lives and are completely comfortable with each other and talking about personal thing. We are both virgins and have decided we are both ready ... (142 words)

How do you 'get off' with somebody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I just wanna know, how do you "get off" with someone, I get really nervous, and I dunno what to do or how to make a move :( Please help!... (30 words)

Can i make her like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just wanted to know what I should do, before we get started I'm 14 ok? Well I recently been on a school trip to Spain, I met this girl and we've become good friends, I know she doesn't fancy me (for want of a better term) but I think I've fallen for her, I just want some ... (75 words)

Going out of my mind over my workmate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am totally going out of my mind for this guy i work with, who is 30. I have been working there since the summer and am not a permanent member of staff. At first i thought he diden't like me, then something happened, he started acting differently around me. We started ... (178 words)

No sex with my 'friend with benefits'...what does this mean??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy have been together in a manner of speaking for a year. We slept with each other to start with and then became friends with benefits. Now Im confused and I think he is too because in the last 2 weeks. I have seen him a fair few times and none of those times ha... (88 words)

Did she just use me for attention and love??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - We work together. She was a good friend whom I had feelings for. She already has a guy and so turned down my overtures. But later, I found out that she has this flirtatious streak in her where she loves getting attention from guys. So I told her off. And I cut away from her ... (351 words)

Have I scared him off already??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. We instantly clicked. He was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. I was kinda acting less interest... (208 words)

How can I help my bf communicate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age - Hello I was wondering if you could shed some light on this situation. Many of my friends have been in relationships where they have got really close to a guy and fallen in love. Only to find for whatever reason (maybe failed past relationships and fear of getting hurt again) ... (243 words)

I need help getting my homesick and bored bf to agree to do stuff.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend moved across country to be with me (I didn't ask him to, he made the decision on his own). We've now been living together a little under a year. I work full time and take a full load at college, so I don't get to spend as much time with him as we'd both like. ... (263 words)

Would it be bad if i started something with my teacher??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm 17 and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher at school...he was my bio teacher when i was a sophomore, and now I'm a senior. He always talks to me still and he makes it obvious that he goes out of his way to do it. When we walk down the halls my friends notice h... (171 words)

My girlfriend stopped liking sex, out of the blue!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok heres my problem.. about a year or so ago my girlfriend just stopped liking sex out of nowhere, and not just intercourse either, at the same time she stopped liking giving and/or receiving oral sex and weve talked about it and neither of us know why, since then weve tried ... (257 words)

My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex... I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and he shook his head and looked a... (128 words)

How do I go about seeing my soul mate??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age - Earlier I asked for advice on whether I should see my soul mate after twenty years! I tried to explain why I NEED to do this in detail ...... I have considered all your advice. And thank you so much for taking the trouble to help me! Because I really need advice about this ... ... (300 words)

He said a kiss doesnt always mean a relationship...but does he like me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am really confused.. i've known this guys since i was in middle school.. he's one of my seniors' brother. We didn't really know each other, but i heard a lot about him (he was sorta popular). These last couple weeks, we talked a lot online, he called me alomost evry night, he ... (122 words)

Does my teacher desire me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is my teacher attracted to me and does she like me the way she reacts to me? I'm a 17 year old female high school student, people find me attractive and as well as teachers. I have these teachers that are females; math and a english teacher. They are around their late 20s. One... (305 words)

It hurts like being stabbed when I orgasm... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - For about 3 or 4 years, when I have an orgasm, its extremely painful and I don't know why. I've talked to my gynecologist but she says nothing is wrong with me. This still bothers me because I want to be able to understand why I have this pain. The pain is also relatively ... (127 words)

For some reason I seem to still be a virgin. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

18 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 23 years old, soon to be 24. I have just finished university. I don't think Im THAT bad looking, but for some reason I seem to still be a virgin. I know that I"m supposed to wait for the right person and all this, but I fear that there is no right girl or anybody out there ... (70 words)

So, girls--is anal sex pleasurable for the female? Is there a lot of pain?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - So, um, girls...is anal sex any fun? I am considering having anal sex with my boyfriend sometime in future, depending on whether or not he can get me drunk enough to do it. I'd like to know if the female experiences any pleasure - I've heard that it can be pleasurable and ... (120 words)

I'll be staying at his parents house for 2 weeks! I'm nervous about it...any tips to help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've made plans to go see my LD boyfriend, and I'm going to be staying with him for 2 weeks. Here's the thing. His plans to buy a new apartment fell through, so he's had to move back in with his parents for a short while. Nothing permanent, but he's going to be living there ... (294 words)

I have a bf but I really like my male housemate! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid, i have a boyfriend and i am at university. however i have recently become attracted to my housemate George, when we're out we dance together and he makes me laugh, i get on with him like i used to do with my boyfriend. others in my house have said that there's ... (81 words)

I see my bf just as a friend..should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - He obviously is in love me my bf. He is kind obsessed with me sometimes I feel. He is a flirt, and stuff and it doesnt bother me what so ever. I broke up with him after 2 month then after 3 got back together. When he hugs me and kisses e I am happy and at other times. Other ... (89 words)

I just want him to show some interest in things, is this so wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone...I'm starting to feel dissatisfied with my relationship with my boyfriend. He's very nice and loving and all that, but that's about it. There are no special days, doing nothing that makes me feel special or anything that takes my breath away. For valentine's day, ... (274 words)

My fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I dont know what to do, just after xmas my fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554 hits i felt totally disgusted he showed no real remorse !just said he was proud of me !! I also found out that he had a e-mail account that he ... (137 words)

I have an embarrassing question... is my penis normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (M) age 30-35 - hi i have an embarrasing issue, recently i have been watching pornography and have seem that my penis is diffrent. the top of mine is like floopy skin but on the videos it is hard is this normal? ... (39 words)

I've asked a girl out and told her to take her friend but I don't know who I can take to be with her friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (?) - there's this girl i really like. she's shy and really hard to talk to. i asked her last year and she said she's dont wanna be in relationship right now. since than we have progressed so much. we talk everyday on msn for at least an hour, we dont talk in school much though. i ... (154 words)

I am very insecure about my bf's past love relationships! Is this the norm..do others feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - i'm insecure over my b/f's past and i get jealous thinking about girls he spent time with, slept with, had fun with..I have been with him for almost 2 years and i still get like this..he has given me cards that in it have written things such as "more love than we have ever been ... (170 words)

I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's best friend!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6517 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year we live together with our kids 2 are mine the other 3 his.after about 3 months of going out i met his mate i instantly felt attracted to him but thought it would fizzle out so ignored my feelings.its now been over a year and my ... (185 words)

I'm 17, he's 57 and married! Do you think he's using me or will he ever leave his wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 17 and i have been going with a 57 year old married man for 6 months. We really love each other to bits, but i feel that he is never going to leave his wife for me! He says all the time that he wishes he doesnt have to leave me when hes going home and that he wants to be ... (108 words)

He's 16, I'm 18. Is it okay to have a relationship with him even although he's my best friend's brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

18 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've liked this guy for a while now and I finally told my best friend about it. She thought it would be a good idea to get my crush and me some time together. So we went out and we came out to each other saying that we liked each other. We kissed, we held hands and what not and ... (130 words)