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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have never been dumped before so why did my ex dump me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone shed some light on this? My ex dumped me just before Christmas after a 3 month relationship. We had been extremely close friends for 9 months (I helped him get over his ex-fiancee who had been lying and cheating on him) but we waited until he was (seeming... (774 words)

Holiday's are hell without my gf...any suggestions??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 1 year now and the last 2 week holiday i went on without her was pure hell. Now another holidsay us rolling around and i really really want to go but i dont want to go through the hell of being apart from her again. Suggestions ?... (53 words)

How do I tell my husband I want a divorce??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a indian lady and in a arranged marriage. In the beginnig my husband showed signs of temper then started to throw things. We have 4 kids and i have no familly support , so i started my own business then he stopped my kids going babysitter so i work less. I am not finacall... (199 words)

Now we have started seeing each other its all about sex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So i've been seeing this guy for nearly two months now. But before that he was my best friend for like 4years. Before we started seeing each other we were on the phone all the time talking about normal teenage stuff. Anyway, now when he calls me it's all about sex. He wants ... (166 words)

My long-distance girlfriend has a problem with my use of porn!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid my long-distance girlfriend of 18 months has a serious issue with my use of porn. I only use it when I am away as a visual aid. When i'm in town we have great sex daily and i am happy with her body. I have a high sex drive and i will masturbate 3-4 times a week w... (141 words)

Am I a bad son and a loser? what about my ex, and this new girl? so many questions - I want your advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

- i'm 24 years old i got dumped 2 weeks before xmas and i thought i would never find anyone like my ex. was always tight downstairs if u get what i mean. now after we split i've been doing some stupid things like driveing a car with no lience or insurance like look for... (667 words)

More 30+ teacher and 17 yr old student problems!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - UPDATE: "Worried about this teacher and my friend. What would a 30 plus year old man, see in a 17 year old girl anyway?" I posted a situation on here the other week: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/worried-about-this-teacher-and-my-friend-what.html (Read to understand th... (149 words)

I fancy a guy 20-years older than me. I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a woman of 33 who works in a bar part-time. I have been divorced after an 8 year marriage for a few months now. My ex-husband turned out to be gay. So these past few months have been about re-discovering myself. I am ready for a relationship but have found myself liking ... (130 words)

Is this kind of conversation appropiate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) - I went out for a drink with my partner and his mate the other evening (we were expecting his other half down the pub later). I assume that the mate feels so relaxed with me he can talk about anything. We were talking about chocolate (because I deal with a chocolate firm and... (461 words)

I want to make the most of Valentines but is it too soon??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Right bit of a problem here. Now as you all know it is soon to be Valentines day and I have never had a bf on this date. Thing is I've recently (last week) got together with one of my close friends who is a good 20years older than me. Now I don't know whether it would be too ... (131 words)

Could I still be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

- Hi, I need some advice, two weeks ago i took the morning after pill for the first time. (im 17). I didn't have any symptoms at the time except a nasty headache. The dr. told me that my next period would be a bit strange and that it should be before my 'usual' next tim... (204 words)

I'm female and straight and so is she. But I have fallen in love with her. Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I am a straight female who has fallen in love with my straight female best friend. I have been struggling with my feelings towards her for some time now and have come to a resolve that I must be attracted to her. We are very close and have a strong connection. I have never ... (153 words)

Do I acceptmy marriage has failed and go to this other man, I have been seeing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6489 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in an impossible situation, not knowing which way to turn. I really need some advice but those closest to me are reluctant to tell me what I should do. I am struggling to choose between 2 men. The first is my husband. We have been together 3 years and married for 1 ... (539 words)

Did he mean actually love as in 'in love' do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 16 and i have a bf and we have been going out for over a month now. today i went round his house and we were sitting on his bed just talking. then we started play fighting and then he was pretendng to strangle me (only pretend! lol). then i said "go on just kill me,... (126 words)

Loved him for 2 years-had sex with him for 1 year...he doesn't want a relationship with me, though! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - right i'm in love with a guy who i have known for nearly two years and we have been sleeping together on and off for about year but i have fallen in love with him but i think he doesn't want a relationship with me... so what do i do? say to him "its all of me or nothing?" or ... (67 words)

Husband left her but he's back on the scene but she says she loves me! What's really happening with this woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

4 February 2007 (M) - Hi to all, seems I need your advice again. One month before Christmas I met someone and it seems I am now in love with her. Here is her story: been married very young with someone that was not treating her very nice (he was abusing her is more suitable). She has two d... (319 words)

Are women more sentimental than men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Are women more sentimantal than men? I feel as though in a relationship there's a big difference between things that women hold dear to them compared to men (eg keeping love letters, presents etc.). Do they just handle it differently? ... (40 words)

He's my ex and we still have sex. But I'm 2nd best to his gf...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - What does my ex boyfriend want from me? How do you distinguish between still having feelings for your ex, and just still being attracted to the things that made you fall for them in the first place? I've been on the fence about my feelings for my ex since we broke up in ... (286 words)

I really like him but I dont want to ruin our friendship as we're so close. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been best friends wiv this lad in my class for quite a while now,and we've gotten quite close lately.recently i hav been having quite strong feelings towards him. we get on realy well and i dont know whether he feels the same way. i dont want to ruin our friendship as ... (64 words)

Why get wedding day nerves??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, Why do people get nervous on there wedding day? it confuses me because before the wedding they the couple are all excited and then on the day they are nervous, why??... (35 words)

How far could we go???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are only teenagers and would like to know how far we could go, we have agreed not to have sex until 14 which is a couple of months?... (32 words)

I feel like I have taken him away from her!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

- hi, Ive just recently started dating this boy, and yesterday we were talkin about past relationships and he told me about the girl he lost his virginity to. He told me he loved her, but while he was goin out with her she died. He didn't go into details because i could see it w... (99 words)

Finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

- I finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. I dont love him anymore and I have feelings for someone else so i told him i didnt want to be with him. Its the only solution i can come to. He has now said to me that if i dont get back... (164 words)

Feel disgusted that I have kissed two guys when drunk and have hurt my bf! What canI do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been very stupid twice.. I have been with boyfriend for 5years, xmas 2004 i was too drunk and kissed a friend, because i was drunk and we'd always been flirty i thought i loved him! we thought we had something special- when really we didnt at all! i told boyfriend t... (169 words)

How can I stop feeling really obsessed with my ex bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up 3 weeks ago and i still really like him but he is already with someone else we were together for 2 years and i'm really hurting, i don't really have anyone to talk to but him and all i want to do is ring him and talk to him, i've text him like 3 times and ... (74 words)

I want to leave my husband but I'm financially strapped. Any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 3 years, but don't know if I love my husband anymore. I keep catching him in lies, and then he promises not to lie to me anymore. This has been a pattern for over 2 years. I have lost all trust in him. The most recent deception is that he spent ... (129 words)

Guy at work admits he likes me but won't me as he doesn't date co-workers. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with some guys from work once a week for a month or two now, a big group of us go, but I have two particular friends who I always thought were gay, who I'm closer to than the rest. The first is most definitely gay, however the second started to become p... (192 words)

Two brother's...I live with one brother and want to be with the other! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had a crush on my boyfriend's brother for as long as I have known my boyfriend which is 7 years. I actually told my brother's boyfriend about 3 years into my current relationship. He told me he liked me too but he was with his girlfriend at the time. He told me that if ... (359 words)

I got angry and told him to leave me alone! Now I'm regretful and want to say how sorry I am...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 months ago now, we were together 8 months, we talked about the future a lot but then we seemed to suddenly not be able to communicate anymore. ive found these 3 months so difficult because i cant understand why i was so angry to him so much, ... (189 words)

We're 13...I need an gift idea for for Valentine's Day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 13(so is he) and i havent got a clue what to get my bf for valentines day. he doesnt like football, or any other sports i dnt think, and i dont think hes the type for luv heart teddy bears, please help!!!! im completely stuck!!! what do i get him???... (55 words)

Thinking of ending my relationship because it's getting too serious. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been going out with someone now for 3 months and it is going quite well but after past relationships i do not want a serious long-term relationship yet and knew this from the moment i met my current partner. it is starting to get serious and i am thinking of finishing it ... (83 words)

Have a guy and a baby but want to have 'fun' with another fellow. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im in love with my bf we been 2getha 3years and av a baby i meet someone and i like him i dont wanna relationship with him just fun am i wrong my bf has cheated on me 3 times ... (40 words)

My ex bf or my current bf....which one do I pick?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im sam and i have been going out with a guy for 8 months now. last night however i kissed my ex boyfriend and i know that he really does like me. the guy im going out with now, i only went out with on the rebound of my ex. I dont know what to do because i do love both my ... (130 words)

Planning to invite this older guy (26) I like to my 17th b'day party...will he feel out of place with my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6497 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

- I'm 17 next week and having a party to celebrate it on friday! I am planing to have many friends their but they are all 16-19... there will be about 25 of them.... thing is im seriously upside down in love with a 26 year old man and i wanna invite him too. i dunno how he feels ... (88 words)

I thought he was joking about dating me so I said no. Now he doesn't like me anymore! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy angel, and he liked me back. He said he would break up with his gf for me! And his friend said do. I want to go out with Angel and I thought it was a joke so i said no and now he doesnt like me anymore! My friend wants to fix it with us how can she do that?... (64 words)

How do I keep it cool??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have just started in a new relationship and i really like this new guy. He has just brought a new house and is spending allot of time on this, which i understand. We have not seen each other other allot over the last few weeks , and i keep getting hot and cold feeling... (134 words)

He cant see me because of his mum and it's driving us crazy!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my bf is 13 almost 14 and weve been going out for a little over a month (we broke up for 5months from an 8month relationship with each other) but any ways....his mom wont let us see each other over the weekends!! and its becoming very hard for both of us because we ... (237 words)

If somebody was raped are they still a virgin??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - If some one was raped and they never has had sex before would they still be a virgin. When you ask poeple that know what has happened then if you try to talk to them they just say what you want to hear so it dosen't upset you and not wat they think i would like to know what you ... (64 words)

How long should I wait until I ask about moving in??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Is nearly 3 months too soon to ask someone how they feel about cohabitation? I really want to ask my boyfriend, as he has to move out of his house soon, and I have my own place. As far as I'm concerned, this guy is the one and I guess there's no set timescale to anything in ... (63 words)

Why do I get these paranoid feelings??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hello I am 16 and have a bf and we have been together for a month. I used to have a bf about a year ago and he didnt want anyone to know we were going out with each other (i can see now that he was obviously ashamed of me for some reason) :( So now i have a new bf i keep th... (122 words)

I just need to escape!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I have quite a big problem. I finished with my ex girlfriend after being with her for just under a year, so i could get with another girl, who i thought i loved. I told this girl i loved her and i have been with her for 2months now. She tells me she loves me all the time,... (114 words)

He doesnt seem interested anymore but I dont want to lose him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a week and already having problems. I am 17 and he is 22 and i think the age gap is making him have second thoughts. His friends are the same age as him and all have younger partners. He just doesn't seem interested in me and i am scared that... (83 words)

What is the 'average' size??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm worried that my penis is too small and just wanted some advice on the average size???... (17 words)

Should I continue my affair??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been maried 15 years. Over the last 5 years my wifes sex drive has been in decline whilst mine has increased. We now have sex very rarely . I practiclly have to beg for sex but she wont give in. I recently made contact with an old friend and one thing led to another ... (119 words)

I have lost everything...please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, My name is Seb and i'm 18. i have been bi curious now since i was 11, which is a long time but i have never done anything homosexual until recently. It has caused a huge amount of problems for me. Firstly, i cant deny my feelings towards men, but to make me feel ... (565 words)

What do I get him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, Me an my bf have been together for a month and we are both 16. Valentines day is coming up! What shall i get him!?! He likes mini's (the cars 'mini'). He has calanders and posters an stuff up in his room cos he just really likes the look of them. He plays the guitar and l... (106 words)

How long does it take for a partner to 'find themselves'??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

- Hello, When in a relationship the one half says they need to find themselves, how long does it take , and how do you find yourself? Do you ever find yourself, then from there find or reconnect with the person that you loved, and the person that you hurt and left hanging by ... (65 words)

He wants to "eat me out" but I'm scared that I smell bad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and he wants to finally "eat me out". I also want him too, but I am really scared that my vagina smells to bad. I wash and clean like every other woman, but I don't understand why it does! Please help!... (52 words)

Should I break up with him to please my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am Russian and Lithuanian and my mother wants me too date/marry only a Russian or Lithuanian, well right now im dating an Irish boy, but my mother doesn't like it at all. What do I do? I really like the boy and he really likes me but my mother keeps getting in the way. Should ... (65 words)

Is it normal to have these imaginary flirtings in your head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) - Is it normal when nobody is around except you and to like pretend there are people and talk and stuff ..in your head or out loud. Like, you can even look over and imagine they are there. Today i kinda did that and kind of imagined hanging out with other guys and talking about ... (121 words)

I want to see her as an innocent princess again... but can't get the explicit stuff she told me about her past out of my head!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

4 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I get over the details my girlfriend has told me about her previous sex life? I've been living with my girlfriend for around 9 months now, there is very strong love and co dependency going on both ways. We have had a rocky relationship to say the least, mostly ci... (493 words)

Should I bite my tongue or should I open up to him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age - I am female in my 40's and have been seeing a guy who is 32 for the past 6 months. (We have known each other over 10 years) We have been best friends for several years and became intimate with each other last year. We spend a lot of time together and he lives next door to ... (129 words)

How can we stop this fighting and love eachother in peace and happiness like the other couples around us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been through so much for almost two years, and we love eachother SO much. It started out when I was going through emotional hell, I am now I have come a long way. I'm now a much more happy, independant person. He has come a long way too. We love ... (262 words)

I'm scared if I try to hold her hand she'll pull away... then everyone will be embarrased!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (?) - i reli lyk dis gurl. she told me on dat she wud luv to get flowers n a card on valentines day as she never has b4. cud this be a hint 4 me? shes reli busy so we never get to meet. ive asked to go movies wid her n she said ye but durin holidays which is in 2weeks. so dats fyn. ... (117 words)

What's this guy up to... he said he left town because the cops were after him then he went quiet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to this guy who i like and he says that he likes me also.He calls me daily,which makes me feel special because I know that he is thinking of me.Well 2 days ago he left me a message telling me that he might not call me because something bad had happen and that ... (138 words)

I have a crush on my cousin...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

4 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on my cousin. He's 3 years older than me but I don't care. He is very sweet and lovely to be with. I don't know what I should do. Can anyone help me?... (37 words)