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writes:I love, well..have strong feelings for this boy in college. I think he likes me to, but I'm not sure. Plus, he's got a girlfriend, but she lives in Hull and they only see each other once a year! What can I do?Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (7 February 2007):
 You are dreaming about someone who is unobtainable. If he dropped his girl and ran off with you then you would probably get very bored with him. Put another way, he has a girlfriend and if he leaves her for you then you have to realise that he could leave you for someone else. You may like him but try to figure out what you like about him and find someone single and uncomplicated with those traits.
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reader, Nico +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Hi,
If he likes you enough he will split up with his girlfriend, but you can't do nothing as a) it isnt fair on the girlfriend b) it isnt fair on you being in the middle of them two c) it's up to him to decide what he wants to do. Back off and tell him that you like him but you aren't going to be the person in the middle. Also don't get with him straight away if he does split up with her as you will feel like a rebound. Take your time and just wait and see what happens.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 February 2007):
 You can't do anything. He has a girlfriend. Imagine being the girl in Hull and knowing he was cheating on you. It's just not fair on her.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): Well, hun what you should do...is nothing! He's in a relationship and until he's a free, available guy...there's not a whole lot you can do. You could continue being his friend but you do not interfere, dear...just bide your time and see what happens. And when he does become avaialbe...then you make your move. Good Luck.
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