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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my shower.... When i have showers, i can give myself the biggest orgasms ever. Is it wrong? i have been with partners that get me to reach orgasm before and that was amazing but this... its like the world has exploded inside me, when i come out the shower i feel shaky, yet calm and relaxed. I dont tell people its my little secret but is it bad? This is really an experience that i dont think i can stop. its addictive. I mean men get orgasms from 10 minutes of sex but its so much harder for women. i've NEVER experienced anything like this, but is it wrong? Should i stop?
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reader, ezy.p  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 go girl! and seriously, think of the meditation side of it, you disappear off the planet when you are in that state of ecstasy! you are emotionally and spiritually recharged after it and it is a natural release of energy and chemistry that is very healthy for your mind and body you help balance chemistry and hormones, its like taking a tropical palm tree holiday everyday! but the flight back is can seem fast!follow your natural pattern your body tells you when it's time to release sexually!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): No you shouldnt stop I do it and it feels so good and it is addictive
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): It is normal to have orgasms@healthy so just enjoy the pleasure@get to know your body so you can tell the man what you like and to give you pleasure first before he gets his and be confident in yourself and your body and just enjoy this natural pleasure that women should not feel guilty about enjoying. Maybe men get insecure as women know what we want now and how to achieve it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): You said word for word my same secret and problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): No way. I do it all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): keep coming girl. im addicted i find it hard to stand up in the shower when i ejaculate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): my girlfriend does. she seems very similar to you in all respects actually. i can make her come quickly too.
think of it this way, doesnt reflect badly on me about my girlfriend in the shower, because its a different thing, just like when i feel like goin solo. i do my job well and thats all that matters. its the same for ur boyfriend.
guys masturbate, girls can too. id even say it was healthy and good for a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2007): I'm just wondering Ms. 18-21 Anon, what made you think it was wrong in the first place?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Lucky girl!! And you get to take a shower everyday! Even twice a day!! Fabulous! It's not wrong and you shouldn't stop. You've found pretty much the best sex toy EVER and it's right in your bathroom! Love it!
And hey, maybe you could even have sex with your boyfriend in the shower, if you feel like involving him. But, if you don't want to - hey... it's YOUR shower.
Enjoy yourself and go get in the shower!
xxIndia
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reader, Blue Rat +, writes (7 February 2007):
Why on earth should you stop? You're doing absolutely no harm, and nothing wrong whatsoever, and it sounds like you're having a fantastic time! Carry on enjoying yourself, girl!
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reader, JulietteElise +, writes (7 February 2007):
 Of course it isn't wrong silly! Sexuality is an important part of being human, and perfectly healthy. Mannnnnny women masterbate when bathing (in fact most females probably have!) so your're deff. not the only one. :0) Many "adult" iteams are sold to be waterproof, or specificaly for the shower/bath in fact! Also, i've read that many females have experienced there first orgasms while useing one of those pulseing shower heads (also has diffrent water streangths and spray features).
When you are older and with a partner you really love and trust, you should share with them this "secret" and enjoy it together as part of both of yours sex life. It's probably because you are able to easily relax, and enjoy in peace your own sexuality, that you are able to get such a great orgasm, without the pressure of haveing to "proform," and so forth. However, you not show a partner how to please you, how you liked to be touched, etc? It's true that during sex men orgasm while many women don't, but this is because our "pleasure spots" are diffrent, so don't be ashamed or shy about telling him how to please you! most guys love being told what to do and see you go into a wild orgasm!
In the meantime though, enjoy! Despite that society may seem to view masterbation (and sexuality) as some horrible taboo, it's extremly natural and everyone has had it as part of their human expereince. God would not have given this ability and desire to us if it was wrong (in regard to masterbation), and masterbateing is healthy for ones body as well as self esteem. As said, you aren't alone in this "secret" at all, so don't worry. :0)
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reader, Krazy Kat +, writes (7 February 2007):
I don't think that it is bad, if your happy and safe whats the problem??? Have you tried introducing this a part of foreplay, it may work!!!
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2007): lol dont be crazy! dont stop. you obviously like it and soooo many people do that in the shower. theres nothing wrong with what your doing at all.
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