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writes:Hi im a 15 year old girl. My boyfreind recently told me he cant ejaculate! I'm not sure whether this is just down to him not having developed enough yet or whether he has a problem. He is quite immature for his age in physical terms so im wondering whether he is just a late developer. I know for a fact that he does get erections and until recently i thought he masturbeted everyday but now im not so sure. I dont know whether i should talk to him about his problems or not. I want to give him a helping hand (If u get what i mean) but i dont know whether it would be too embaressing and whether i should just let him deal with it on his own?
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (7 February 2007):
 this must be hard for you! i mean all the stress of you G.C.S.E'S but if your boyfriend told you this he may want help. i would leav it for now and if he says anything more about the topic you will know weather you should try and have a chat for him. What ever you do dont let him make you do any thing your not ready for and if he is immature then is he worth what your thinking about doing? hope this helps xx
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reader, honeyross +, writes (7 February 2007):
 A boy's developing manhood is quite a sensitive issue, and discussion about it may make him feel embarrassed.
Is he having an orgasm but without the semen? Lots of semen is only produced when a boy is a bit older. So - ejaculation and orgasm are different things.
If he's not having an orgasm - it may be that it's quite painful at his age and so he might not feel comfortable doing it when he's with you.
If he isn't having a climax, I can understand that you want him to enjoy sex with you, but you should maybe let him feel relaxed around you sexually, rather than bringing up this difficult topic.
After some time, when he's not pressured, he might be able to climax - with or without lots of semen.
Good luck!
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