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*aining Tears
writes:I am really sad..........i was hangin out with my bf on friday and he was actin just fine.....he was flirtin with me and everything!!!!!!!!!! But then i went free-line skating with my friend and all of the sudden one of his friends come up to me and says that he is breakin up with me cuz im a "whore"? he wouldnt even talk to me!!! what should i do? cuz he was just fine with me on friday???
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 I'm sorry, I understand you must be very sad and it is always good to get an explanation, some sort of closure, to be able to move on. In this case I think you can get all the closure you need only by thinking of what he called you, and he didn't even dare to say it face to face. You don't need to talk to him again, anyone calling you something like that is NOT worth your time and energy.
I said it before and I'll say it again; the coward twat is not good enough for you, not even close. Forget him and have a good time with your friends instead. And don't let anyone call you bad names!
Big *hug* to you!
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reader, Raining Tears +, writes (17 December 2007):
Raining Tears is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx you guys that helps..............but i thinks its to late because he was skipping down the hallway saysing "i broke up with sam" and i want to talk to him but i dont know how? but thanx i really appreciate it!!!!
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reader, Oblivia +, writes (17 December 2007):
What a twat not telling you himself! Not a good sign in a guy, whatever reason he might have for breaking up, to not tell you in person. My advice to you would be to be corageous and walk up to him and tell him face to face what his friend said to you and ask him if it was true. It might be his friend was only messing with you, but if he says it was all true, then ask him how come he couldn't tell you in person, ask him if he is a coward. Then just walk away and never talk to him again, he is not good enough for you!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Just keep your head held high and ignore him. Easier said than done I know, but something is up with this guy. Maybe he wants to break up but doesn't know how, or maybe he's got something on his mind. And instead of coming clean with the truth he's gone on the offensive with nasty words so he can kid himself that it was your fault somehow. And didn't even have the courage to tell you to your face (probably as he knew what he was saying was lies).Do you really want to be associated with a person who treats you like that? Keep your dignity, don't say anything and if he comes around wanting to talk, tell him you've nothing to say to him until he grows up.
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reader, sujoy  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 Hi, Do not believe anybody else if you have good relations with your bf. Go and just have an easy talk with your bf. And if it comes out to be true in future dont let anyone flirt with you only because you consider him your bf. Good relations are those who carry respect for each other. Dont bother about stupid remarks of some idiot guys. May be ur bf is one of those guys.
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