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writes:My husband says that there is nothing wrong with him but he is never in the mood to have sex. What could be the reasons why a husband is not in the mood to have sex with his wife? To shed some light: he subscribes Playboy, watches porn (rarely according to him), enjoys talking about his very sexual past. He swears that there is nothing wrong with him physically but many things turn him off and promises that things will get better in the future. Things that turn him off: we spend a lot of time together, he sees me daily. Also, it seems to him that all I want is sex (well because that's the only thing that is missing according to me).
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reader, leonard j, Douglas  +, writes (20 December 2007):
Bet that this is true in your sexuality, when it comes to your husband. He can't get an erection prior to vaginal intercourse, or if he does,he cannot keep his erection long enough to bring you to an orgasm, Well, He can thank his early,speedy Jacking-off for that and now he can also thank all of that Porn for his ongoing ED, "Erection-Dysfunction" within your marriage. That's what I call getting screwed without getting screwed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear female reader, trust your intuition like I do mine. I don't know what's going on but one thing I know for sure if a man used to have more sex and now he has less without any explanation it means he is hiding something that he does not want you to know. My husband almost convinced me he had a low sex drive until I saw 2 porn DVDs he ordered for himself online. Until then he never gave me a reason to think he even remotely was interested in porn because I suggested it a few times and he ignored it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): it sounds like he has a porn problem that's warping his sense of what's attractive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): We have a lot in common. My partner is just not interested. He used to be. I cannot say he is interested in porn or whatever,but I do see a glint in his eye sometimes when he is watching someone or talking to someone that is never there with me. I used to be very sexually active, but although I am a young 56 I have not had proper sex for over 3 years. People say companionship is everything but I dont know, I want a man that I can cuddle up to and know that we have satisfied each other!
Please reply and maybe we can help each other.
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