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writes:i was with a guy for 7months and i was very happy he told me that he had a friend /girl m8t that he had prevousely been haveing sex with her but said 2 one an other that if they find someone else it would stop.anyway so i accepted his honesty and he told me she had been dateing someone and she new i was with him but he would say to me im going to see her and i let him as i wanted to trust him.then the last month of our relationship he stoped getting in contact with her said she need to move on beacause i said to him i didnt like the fact he still seeing her as a m8t how could they stay friends when they had been sleeping with eachother.he sent me a text one night pissed saying that he stayed at hers so i told him its over and the next day he was upset on the phone asking me 2 take him back and nothink had happend so i did so he stopt all contact with her we had talked about moveing in 2gether and everythink then about 3 weeks after i got a phone call off him he was crying saying im sorry i love you i slept with her that night i sent you a text and shes pregnent i was so shocked but kept calm didnt shout or cry so i said we could work thu it and would try then he would come around 2 mine talking about her and how he doesnt want her to have the child and that hes so sorry 4 what he had done and keot saying to me do u really think we can work thu this i said we would try but if she has the child i dont think i could cope .a few days passed and he got a text off her saying shes bleeding 4 2 days he said to me she might of had a misscarge so hes going to take her 2 hospital in the next 2days i thought if someone was pregnent and they was bleeding they would go hospital asap .so the next couple of day i had a phone call off him saying hes at hers and shes had a misscarage so i text him and said its over because i didnt want 2 w8t 4 him 2 say we was getting back 2gether as we discussed we wouldnt until he found out if she was haveing it or not.he sent me a text the next day saying hi hope u r ok just wanted 2say this has 2 be the right desision ill miss u lots but im not gonna hound u with calls or text deep down im not ready 4 a relationship and i will not be getting with her.i sense that one of them is not telling the truth about the pregnancy or the misscarage.i was just woundering what people think about this as i do still care 4 him and has anyone else been thu anythink like this
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (18 December 2007):
Girl the guy has no iota in him that understand the word love.He seperates love from sex.He's really just looking for a fuck mate and he's also feeling guilty about his lover.He's trying to play with your emotions.You made the right decision.Move on and take care.
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reader, leonard j, Douglas  +, writes (18 December 2007):
I think that you need to look at love,his not your's, as us men see sex and love in the same light. And our so call love, or call it lust, can change when another skirt comes along. Sorry but I don't see that you got much going for you.
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