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writes:hi i just wanted some advice. i have been friends with a girl for about 15 years now, since we were in primary school. in school we had a few problems as she often talked behind my back or turned other friends against me...just silly childish stuff really. after we left school we seemed to get on better, and she told me i was her closest friend etc, and we used to do alot fo stuff together, like go cinema, pub, shopping etc. However, in the last year or so, shes been very distant, only contacting me when she wants to go out clubbing and no one else is available, and arranges to meet me at a certain time, but doesnt turn up then texts me later and says sorry and that she bumped into someone she knew or some sort of excuse.As well as this, my fiance doesnt like her and she doesnt like him, which could be something to do with it, but i told her i wouldn't just ditch her because im in a long term relationship. i try contacting her and make a huge effort to stay in contact but she just doesnt seem interested.... should i just give up on this friendship?thanks
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Giving up on the friendship is a bit extreme, but don't put as much into it as you have been because she doesn't seem to value it. Stay in touch, but maybe less frequently. Who knows, things might change in the future and you might bcome closer again.
Richard
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