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writes:Ok, I am very confused about a situation regarding my ex. We broke up after 3 months together around 9 months ago. We hadn't spoken, even though we study the same degree, and have the same friends. A few days ago, I got an email from him, explaining he hadnt talked to me because he still has feelings, and he wanted to try again. I sent him an email back with no response. yesterday, we were both at a party, and my friend went to talk to him and I came up in conversation. He said he never sent that email, and it was a prank by someone. He then said he ddidn't like me like that anymore, and we were mates. I'm confused because we've barely spoken to each other. I then went up and asked him and he denied it again, gave me a hug and walked away. As I left the party, I walked past him and he just gave me a look and he looked a little sad?I probably made it worse, sending him a drunnken text message after explaining I was glad we were on what he calls good terms, but then the email made me think.I wanted to vent, so thanksWhat do you suppose his feelings are?thanks guys!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): hi it seems mabe there are two possibilitys here either he sent the email when he was at a low or missing you its easy to do sometimes we can get caught up in emotions and memories and it leads us to contact the person we were conected to or still may have feelings towards. he may say he didnt send the email because he is now a bit more clear headed and realised he shouldnt of sent it and is trying to forget it but feels for you still hence the hug as a kind of yeh i did send it but i regrettte it and he mmisses you or it could of bene someone else thats ent the email and thats why hes said he never sent it the hug can meain many things but it is quite possible he misses you hence the sad look it might be why he is finding it difficult to talk to you mabe you should try to ask him if he can talk to you and discuss it
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (17 December 2007):
 I believe he is just trying to hide the feelings he still has for you. I believe the first step into trying to avoid our inner feelings for someone is DENIAL and by the looks of it, he's already been there. Since you didnt respond back to his text about the both of you giving it another try, he must've took it as if theres no point in trying, therefore he denied the fact he sent the text just so that he prevents his own self-embarrassment. It seems pretty obvious he does has feelings for you although im not quite sure what your feelings are towards him. Maybe you should talk to him and clear this whole situation out. I dont see why you both cant be friends. Good luck!
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