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writes:ummmHi.so, im kinda confused about my sexuality.I think I might be bisexual.And if that's the case, i like a girl i know.It seems like she's always flirting with me.She told me she is not bisexual, though.But Im thinking she's confused like me, or maybe she's a lesbian (which I did not ask)So, first I want to ask how exactly can I tell if I am bisexual?And, If I am, should I go for her?
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reader, Marcus 29  +, writes (30 December 2007):
Hey I'm having the same issues so don't feel bad. I am at the point now that I've got to be myself. My wife enjoys it both ways and I'm coming to terms with that. I have decided to let her know I too want to go both ways, she says that is good and hopes I can show her what we do, as she has performed in front of me. Let yourself go and be yourself, don't be to assertive but let her know how you feel. You maybe surprised. :)
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reader, aim  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 In my case, I knew i was bi because i know i like women and men too. And i accepted it. But of course i had to explore and understand myself more towards liking men so that indeed, i'd know if i am bi. And turns out, i am bi!
but really, you dont have to care really about the labels of being straight, gay, or bi. Like the other ladies's below me who have posted pieces of advice, JUST ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL IT. DON'T SHUT THE FEELING OFF. :) You'd know you're bi if you fall in love with this girl (butterflies in yer tummy!) just the same way you would with a guy. :)
Hope i was able to help. Take care.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Hun if she flirts back then that should be a sign she likes you, all you can do is try and see what happens be sensitive to her feelings though cause liek you said she might be confused too. If shes a close friend then talk to her, even say your comfused she might agree she is too.
Its worth a shot hun, message me if you need more advice :) x
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reader, starfairy +, writes (18 December 2007):
 I wouldn't fret over labels and what to define yourself as.
Whatever you feel, just feel it.
Bring up the topic of same sex sexual curiosity with this friend. Tell her you've been bi curious for a while, see what she says.
She might be shy or less open to bringing up these topics.
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