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writes: Why does my mum and sister feel happy with my downfall. Ive always been a naive character but recently broke up from my husband and father of my children. When we were happy together my family always seemed jealous, never came to visit me or share any happy moments with me. However, when we broke up they came to comfort me and find out all the grimmy details. They seem to be acting as though they are sad and angry for me but I know they are just lapping it all up. My parents divorced, my sisters are both single parents and I tried to change the cycle which didnt work as in the end he left me too. My other sister who has been married for 13 years is under stress by them both too and they are now saying wait until he leaves you, you put your mans family over ours ect. Im fed up with them all. I DO miss my ex and HIS family and our family circle. I hate being around negative people such as my family. Im dreading christmas and I dont know what to do. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Im sorry to hear about your predicament, you should keep in otuch with your husbands family as the children are their relatives aswell. they seem nicer than your own family. just put your familys behaviour down to jealousy and dont get too involved with them, they'll only bring you down. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Some families are never happier when there is doom and gloom around. Family misery they seem to thrive on. I wouldnt get them to into your life if they are going to respond like this. I have a cousin just the same so i pushed her right into the back ground. They probably were jealous when things were going good. Just dont tell them stuff and let them revel in their own misery. You are bound to miss his family, that happens unfortunately. Can you not keep in touch with some of them. Just keep positive happy people around you.
take care
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