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writes:I am in need of some advice...actually am relieved to have come across this site to find people are in similar situations...makes me feel so much better to know that I am not alone in this. I am happily married to the love of my life but more recently have found myself attracted to a co-worker. We have always been close friends at work and used to sit beside eachother. I have changed roles in the company and now sit across the office so we have been emailing more frequently. The emails have become very sexual and flirtatious and have basically crossed the line...but I am enjoying it...I think it's the flirtation I miss...it gives me a rush...the other night I was working late and he came by my desk...he left and then called me shortly after to make small talk...I felt like he wanted to say more...when we are around eachother at work it's normal...but now he's been texting my phone also...I actually look forward to hearing from him and think about him often...I will not cheat and can't even believe I am writing this...what do I do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): Congratulations! You are already having an emotional affair, which, as studies show, will hurt your wife more than the physical affair that will follow.Is it fun to hurt someone you 'Love." She will find out you know. Some woman will stay and work through the pain...others won't.So...are you ready to say goodbye to your wife if/when she finds out she say's she wants out? Is it? was it worth it?
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 Hi . Are you groomimg this guy for betrayal or is he grooming you? Imagine the day that it all blows up when the "love of your life" confronts you. Maybe you don't think this will happen. To some it does, to some it doesn't.
Or perhaps a different scenario. All the time you are flirting with this other guy it is taking your attention away from your main relationship. Maybe that new girl at your man's work is catching his attention. You're so wrapped up in your flirting you didn't notice a few little signs before it all went wrong.
If you post again in six months time, what will you be asking?
Richard
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