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*eelie
writes:hii live in kings lynn i have been depressed since my son has been born and me partner doesnt understand that im sad all the time i wonted to move to cumbria where i no that i will be happy but he wont go with me. we had a big fight last night he said if i go he will take me to court but he doesnt do a lot for my son i do everything i havent spent one night with out him i dont get to go out with out him or time to myself the only time i did was in cumbria but he doesnt understand that he thinks of me as the baddy i try to tell how i feel but he think i can make it go away but he wont listen . what should i do whats best for me and my son?
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reader, keelie +, writes (17 December 2007):
keelie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for ur help!im not alway sure why im upset alot of the time, he is working and he does let me go out he doesnt fell like a boyfriend anymore. i wont to move because the only time i was happy was when i was up in cumbria with friends and family he doesnt wont to move back because of his job and he think the town is crap he doesnt understand how i feel with my depression he just tells me im being stupid and i can just get over it just like that. i have tryed being happy where i am for 11 months buthe doest get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Hi honey,
Does this guy force you to stay in your house coz if he does you need to call the cops girl. why did he say he would take you to court? there is nothin stoping you leaving him and these days i think its usually a joint custody but i think that because of long distances the courts can rule in the fathers favour because he is their 'natural' guardian. if he is abusive or out of work then that will help you, but as you are the one moving away then that might not help because it is a change in the childs surroundings.
can you tell me more about why you are upset and why you want to go to this place and why he wont?
i hope this all makes sense to ya; im still a law student so my info might not be 100% accurate! i think the important thing is - can you be happy with him, is he a good father (it dont sound like it) and do you love him?
Chriss
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