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writes:okay, so there is this guy and I love him more than anything in the world.Well he broke up with me for another girl, and i really want him back.He tells me that he still loves me and he wants to be with me...but he stays with her.I dont know what to do!I need help!!!Will he come back to me?
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reader, Maurice  +, writes (20 December 2007):
Here is a case whereby you left this man to go knowing very well you still needed him. The love that you are claiming that you have to him imagine he can get it from the other lady. There is one thing that you have to know that you'll never know the value of what you have unless you loose it. Now you can see the value of that guy who is now with another lady. you can make him to come back to you by providing what you provided to him the 1st time he met you. not only providing but try to maintain him coz still he says that he loves you. If he comes back and sees what made him to hook the other lady, believe me you not see him again. the earlier the better b4 he goes 2 far. Make him back by now when it's never late. Maurice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): You need to show him what he is missing and you do that by showing him that you are continuing on with life with or without him. The more you wait around for him the longer the process and the least respect you get for him. You are basically telling him that it is ok to walk over you and that no matter what he does or who he choses to be with you will still be waiting around for him. Show that you will not have 'doormat' scribbled on your forehead any more. Get out there dress nicely, smell nice go out with your friends and go on dates. At present you are not his and show him that you are not gonna wait for him. If he wants to be with YOU he'd better try harder to get YOU not the other way around. You do not NEED him you just desire him. good luck!
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