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writes:I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years i have been unfaithful to her twice with the same person who call my girlfriend and told her every thing we did .she forgive me but after 5 months she says cannot forget and trust me. we are still friend.I did a stupid thing and i will never do it again.i was unfaithful because i stupid twice .I know she still loves me but she wants to be friends.I have changed and i would not be unfaithful to her again. I want a life with her.How do i get her trust me as a friend ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): I also agree with Richard, only time will tell, if you have changed. Tell her that you want to be faithful and that to be a little more patient with you. I wish you the best of luck and it's a good thing that you see your own faults, it;s the first step to making it right, just by admitting that you were wrong. But now the hard work comes in where you have to make the big effort to change.Good luck Budddy !
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): Unfortunately mate, you probably can't.Even if you do get back together, tucked away in some corner of her conscious will be your infidelity. You need to question if you want a relationship that has an elephant in the room.IMO, the best thing that you can do by her is to simply be a friend. Put no pressure on her and let her take any steps toward reconciliation.I think though you will most likely need to chalk it up to experience and with lessons learnt, find a new person to love.
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (17 December 2007):
 You prove you have changed by showing you have changed and not by saying you have changed. Words are easy. Your only chance is by demonstrating you have changed day after day, week after week, month after month, and maybe year after year. If you truly want her you'll do this. If you don't, you won't. And there's no guarantee of success.
Good luck
Richard
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