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female
age
36-40,
*adgurlie04
writes:It's a long story but he has sent me mixed messages for a long time. I figure he is not into me because of his inability to be direct and he now has a gf. six months ago when my bf and me took a break and I told him I think I liked him HE DID NOTHING so I'm sorry but a month later I figured he did not care. Besides he's says he is getting married as soon as he graduates which is SATURDAY(although they are not engaged yet he says she wants to marry him and he her)but he could have said this because I said I am planning to marry my bf in a year still and although he claims it doesn't bother him he gets really jealous and sometimes asks me if I am still going to marry my bf when the subject comes up even when a day before I said I was.Now he wants to be friends which is what I want since he was a positive influence on me. Although he wants to be friends he said when I was talking about another male friend of mine men and women can't just be friends unless he is taken and as soon as he isn't he is looking for the woman to be with him or introduce him to other women. He then shut up bc he realized he put his foot in his mouth.He seems really upset we'll never see each other since "there is no reason for me to drive five hours to visit him". I call him because he lives with my bf, but it's weird. He never calls me but claims he misses talking to me and seeing me. He is upset I can't see him before he moves. He also told me to add his brother on myspace which i did and I noticed his gf of over a year now isn't added to his brother's page at all. What the Freak is his issue? Does he like me?He tried to kiss me once when we got tipsy which is why I am so confused.
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reader, ladycharm  +, writes (19 December 2007):
 it sound to me that this guy is in it for the chase i think that you should concentrate on the relationship your in and if you dont love who your with then find someone new good luck
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