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male
age
36-40,
*lton
writes:iam a guy who is 22 yrs in love with a girl aged 19.The problem is i recently found out that she does not at any time call me but instead she calls her ex-boyfriend as i found a text message she wrote to her exboyfriend using my phone and this has stressed me out since i love this girl very much.What should i do?should i leave her for she has hurt my feelings very much.I need your advice before i do something that i will regret
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 I am really trying to figure out this trend of poor relationship ethics and respect. when you go to work, or out to a nice dinner or a meeting, you dress accordingly, act with professional behavior that meets the requirements of the setting you go into. Why when it comes to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, it's not approached with the same dignity and respect as in other situations?
I would confront her on the issues, and let her know how this bothers you. Just a word of advise here. Don't get together with someone who recently left a relationship. They bring their remainder emotional attachment to the other person into the relationship with you. All too often men and women are played as the middle person for someone to have fun with as they make their decision as to who they really want to be with. Avoid those situations.
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