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My ex-boyfriend tried to rape me! What should I do?

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Question - (17 December 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 29 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ECKAHDOTSHIM writes:

hi there

i was wondering if there is anyone out there who can help me out with this

back in august i was almost raped by my ex boyfriend i dumped him excatly for this reason and im now with someone who respects me and loves me

well my ex boyfriend came to see me the other day nobody was in and he tried it again this time he went further than last time

what do i do?

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A female reader, BECKAHDOTSHIM United Kingdom +, writes (29 February 2008):

BECKAHDOTSHIM is verified as being by the original poster of the question

BECKAHDOTSHIM agony auntI didn't report him to police but I reported him to his mother and she has dealt with it by taking him to police, she got me a protection order against him since then he has come nowhere near me me and my current boyfriend can now live our lives and I don't need to feel scared anymore

once again thanks to everyone who told me what to do.

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A female reader, BECKAHDOTSHIM United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2007):

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BECKAHDOTSHIM agony auntit wasnt excatly my idea to let him in my parents let him in before i had the chance to say no

thank you to everyone that has given me some sort of answer it has helped me a lot i dont know what im goin to do yet i still wonder was i an easy target? or did he do this to hurt me

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A female reader, keely-h United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2007):

keely-h agony aunti no you probaly not want to but i agree with all the other agony aunts you should really report him but if you dont want to do that try and ignor him if that doesnt work blank him out your life completly he sounds like a idiot.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntGo to the police and report him before it happens to someone else he is adangerous and i would avoid him at all costs

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

Go to the police, report him for this and do not let hiim get away with it! If he thinks he is getting away with it he will keep coming back to you and things could turn nasty!

You have done nothing wrong and have nothing to be ashamed of here... You will be saving yourself and possibley other girls in the future of this torture!!! Have you told your boyf what happened? I kno its a hard thing to tell anyone?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

Call the police. He is dangerous and will consider your lack of action a green light to carry on. I know it is hard but they have experts who can help you.

He needs to be stopped as the fact he has tried it again tells you that he will not stop. You need to do this to protect yourself but also to protect other people in the future. Who knows where this will lead.

I just noticed your age so also tell your parents and or a responsible adult as soon as possible and i mean TODAY before something happens that you may never recover from.

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

Go to the police, shop him and dont let him get away with it. He has to know that he cannot keep getting away with this kind of thing. You are to be treat with respect. Why even have him near you?

take care

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007):

why did you let him in the house again? call the police, get an protection order against him. For god sake don't let him near you again, your letting in danger

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