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Is this what orgasm feels like?
Q. i was wondering if i had an orgasm. last night my boyfriend was giving me oral and half way during it felt like the room was spinning and my cheeks got hot and i felt like i had to pee and then i got this amazing sensation in my stomach and vagina ...
A. 30 March 2009: Yep.... (read in full...)
Ways for him to last longer?
Q. Hi, Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex and we've discovered that he doesn't last very long at all... I'm talking like, a minute at that [don't get me wrong tis' a wonderful minute]. We've tried with a little foreplay, before...
A. 30 March 2009: Both of you go read in the archives by entering the following phrases in the search field above:
Double M on foreplay
Double M on orgasm
Double M on Kegel exercise
Double M on clitoris
Double M on cunnilingus
And add most any sexual topic. A... (read in full...)
Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?
Q. I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even ...
A. 30 March 2009: Well, I do not think that marijuana would have much effect - more likely an asset. But certainly, there are high blood pressure medications which have been proven to cause erectile dysfunction. Even high-blood pressure alone may affect erection, but ... (read in full...)
4 years into relationship, and I don't think I ever had an orgasm. Help!
Q. i am in a relationships for almost 4 years..we didn't see each other often. when we we're together and we're making love i didn't feel any orgasm since the day we made it until now. i made different strokes or styles but it doesn't worth. i'Neve...
A. 29 March 2009: Following is an expanded version of an opinion I expressed some weeks ago regarding female orgasm, cunnilingus and G-spot massage. Even before intercourse, one or a series of multiple orgasms would be probable if the procedures are applied lovingly ... (read in full...)
Will this stop her from being pregnant?
Q. We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and ...
A. 29 March 2009: If she has correctly been self-administering her birth control, it should be almost totally effective at preventing pregnancy. Additionally, impregnation is least probable soon after and just prior to menstruation. ... (read in full...)
How many positions during sex?
Q. Quick poll/survey/whatever you want to call it: How many positions do you like to go through during sex?...
A. 29 March 2009: Five or six just for starters, excluding oral positions, and including oral, a great session may include as many as 10 or more various positions. Unfortunately, we have no way to illustrate, but advisors may be able to explain with considerable ... (read in full...)
How long do you last for sex?
Q. Heya mates !!! What is the average time for sex? How much do you last for sex? My problem when i 'm having sex i quickly ejaculate. How can i help it? I'm devasted . I 'm NOT enjoying my sex....
A. 22 March 2009: In my opinion, you should spend at least a half-hour with foreplay, such as kissing, hugging and warming your woman before you even think about intercourse. (check writings about foreplay) Women require more stimulation than men to be ready and ... (read in full...)
Using me??Guys?Are they all the same?
Q. About 2 weeks ago I met a guy he was gr8. I liked him I thought he liked me, well I did it. I had sex with him . We never went out on a date, after our first time together he brought up us being together. I was down with it so now he is my ...
A. 22 March 2009: Yes, but everyone who knows someone essentially uses the other for something, whether it be friendship, love, sexual satisfaction, income, labor, shelter, family or other. Sounds that your boyfriend is simply using you for sex. If you enjoy it, so ... (read in full...)
Fingering...
Q. How many fingers should a guy be able to get into a girl's vagina when fingering her? Is it possible she could be too "tight" to even get one in?...
A. 22 March 2009: One or two at first, depending on physical variations. Penetration only temporarily expands a vagina, contrary to some assumptions I have read on this Web site and elsewhere. The vagina simply does not permanently stretch much early in life, at ... (read in full...)
I have a problem about sex...
Q. Hey. I have a problem about sex. Thing is, I'm heterosexual but I have fooled around with a few girls and stuff. Now, lot's of guy's have said I'm good at giving....blowjobs. But I find that I prefer going down on women more, simply for the fact ...
A. 22 March 2009: Perhaps you have an oral fixation, which is fairly common, but you said that you prefer sticking your tongue "into" a vagina, rather than licking or sucking a man. Right? But according to your post, you greatly enjoy sex with a man and feel no ... (read in full...)
Small penis confusion... need guidance asap
Q. okay, so im embarassed to tell my friend so im trusting this website will help me out, im gonna get straight to the question. ive had sex with 2 guys, im guessing both of them were 2-3 inches long erect. after about 5 min of having sex i lite...
A. 20 March 2009: Based on your description, your partners were both well below average. There are other things they could do to please you. In your case, it is possible that you need a man with average or better size for satisfying intercourse purposes. We all ... (read in full...)
Advice needed! How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?
Q. so... I've had this fantasy for a while now. I want to see my girlfriend have sex with other people (guys, girls it don't matter.) How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?...
A. 20 March 2009: Must admit that I agree with "jessica04." If your girl is very sexual and you are both rather adventurous and very open, just ask her if she would enjoy or readily agree with such a scenario. Some girls will do about anything, bless their hearts. ... (read in full...)
I lied that I had sex and now she doesn't trust me
Q. Ok, the other day I did the dumbest thing ever. My girlfriend and I both 18 want to have sex with eachother and we are both virgins. But she asked me if I have been with any other girls and I wanted to seem like a player so I told her ive actually ...
A. 19 March 2009: You have possibly learned something valuable. Women (and girls) usually do not much like hearing about your previous conquests, whether real or fabricated. The situation is difficult if not impossible to reverse, but you might sheepishly admit you ... (read in full...)
Am I in any way to be blamed for whatever is happening to her?
Q. hello everyone....i am scared please help !! me and my girlfriend have had many phone sex chats and masturbate on phone. she rubs her clit with a pen refill. recently she has got irregular periods and strange sensations near her clit area which she ...
A. 18 March 2009: In support of everything "jessica04" contributed - and you are of no blame whatsoever. Her masturbation may have revealed some other possible problem, which is good if it prevents a worsening situation. She probably needs more medical examination. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but I'm doubting and he's still wife the wife
Q. I met a man online. He said he was separated and would be getting a divorce, but soon after we started to get to know each other, he admitted that he was still with her, just wanting a divorce. We continued to talk and he told her that he wanted a ...
A. 18 March 2009: Well, in my opinion, and based on what you said, he may be playing you like a fiddle. Hope I'm wrong in a way, but sure sounds like the typical mistress kind of thing. All that he has told you is what he wants you to believe. And that is all you ... (read in full...)
Pain free & free of charge way to make penis bigger
Q. Hey iam 17 and I have a smal penis and I was jst basicly asking if anyone knows a pain free and free of charge way to enlarge a penis because I have no confidence iam afraid to show my gf and we have been dating for a year So pls someone help...
A. 17 March 2009: Trust the previous female aunties. First, it does not matter, and second, no there is nothing you can do. The so-called penis enlargement pills are a sham. And finally, learn what you can do with your hands, fingers tongue and lips. Read my writings ... (read in full...)
French kissing and oral sex
Q. If a man french kisses does that mean that he will be receptive to oral sex for both female and male. Or does one have anything to do with the other. Also, why would a man want oral sex but doesn't want to give it? If he is born in 1938 would th...
A. 17 March 2009: I think that just about every person in the Western, and much of the Eastern, worlds engage in french kissing. It certainly does not translate into a french kissing man's proclivity toward providing oral sex for a woman (cunnilingus). Some of us ... (read in full...)
I need tips for new sex positions and ideas
Q. My bf and I have sex a lot, but it's usually in the same methods, either he spoons me or i'm on top. That's it. He has a small penis and has trouble with keeping erections, so I try not to vary too much because I'm afraid any changes will mak...
A. 17 March 2009: It is a challenge to describe positions with only words, but I have tried here occasionally for more than a year. Some of my favorite positions probably require above average size, but I'll agree with "jezebel527" that the "sideways" attitude can ... (read in full...)
My husband hits me and I'm not sure what to do
Q. I have a huge issue i have been married now for almost 3 years and im 23years old but my husband just turned 28, he is a cop and i am a student i was with him when he had to go to police academy and stuck by him in thick and thin but im starting to ...
A. 17 March 2009: Our best wishes for you. We know difficult decisions are tough, but best in the long run. You are so very young and will be smarter. You learned something important and will fair better for it, yet still have more to learn during your journey ... (read in full...)
He loved anal stimulation but won't do it again for fear it's 'gay'. What should I say to calm his fears?
Q. My boyfriend and I enjoy taking turns masturbating ourselves while the other stimulates elsewhere. We were doing that a couple of nights ago, he was masturbating while I was massaging his testicles. I started lowering my fingers slightly to his ...
A. 16 March 2009: No, this is not a gay thing, when applied by a woman, but it depends on the purpose. If you are attempting a "prostate rub" to increase the amount of ejaculation fluid and male orgasm intensity, then your intent is well-founded.
The process work... (read in full...)
He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!
Q. Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wa...
A. 16 March 2009: Eliminate the quotation marks.... (read in full...)
The mind or the heart - which one would you choose?
Q. The mind teases the heart! My question is what do you think about the concept of The heart teasing the mind? I think this happens but is probably an illusion and really we should listen to our heart because that is the essence of our true feeli...
A. 16 March 2009: This terminology is misleading. With no apology for being picky, let's just try to understand reality here. The "heart" pumps blood and has no thoughts, so it's all in the mind. There are compartments in the mind, one or more of which correlates to ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!
Q. Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wa...
A. 16 March 2009: First of all, you should never do what you do not want to do. This relationship, you say, has included sex "quite a few times." That's not much, in my opinion. There is nothing wrong with giving blow jobs, but I think the man should first provide ... (read in full...)
Am I incapable of having an orgasm?
Q. I am 20 years old and i dont know if ive ever had an orgasm well i dont think i have my question is what can me and my partner do and how will i kno and pleas dont reply o u'll just kno. ive been with him for 6 years on and off so its not that i ...
A. 15 March 2009: Just not with a man who can make it happen for you. It's a very common problem, unfortunately. ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex. How to make him wait?
Q. I just started seeing this guy about a week ago. He is a sweet guy but he always wants to make out and do other stuff. I told him that I dont have sex without a commitment, as he still hasnt asked me out yet but he keeps pushing for it. Sometimes, ...
A. 15 March 2009: Way, way too early for being so pushy, and better a man never push any woman past her desires. Just a week of aquaintance? You sound closer to age 13 than over 18. Please reconsider this relationship already. ... (read in full...)
Kegel exercises - do they really work?
Q. I'm single and haven't had sex in over six years and when I do, I want to be nice and tight. I started doing kegel exercises last month and would like to know how many I should do a day? I also want to know from those who do them, if they really ...
A. 14 March 2009: At your age, you should not likely be so concerned about any lack of vaginal tightness, especially without penetration the last six years. But of course, Kegel exercises work for both men and women throughout life. Once the pubic muscles are ... (read in full...)
My husband hits me and I'm not sure what to do
Q. I have a huge issue i have been married now for almost 3 years and im 23years old but my husband just turned 28, he is a cop and i am a student i was with him when he had to go to police academy and stuck by him in thick and thin but im starting to ...
A. 14 March 2009: Typical repetitive cycle.... (read in full...)
Help us loose our virginity without the agony!
Q. Im a 30yr old virgin male and in almost 6yr dating with a female virgin. All the time we try to have sex is like passing through hell for both of us, without any penetration, she always complains of hurting and pain. Please advice us what shall we...
A. 13 March 2009: In addition to extended foreplay, consider using a good amount of water-based lubricant the first few times.... (read in full...)
Does the fact that I love giving oral sex make me look bad?
Q. i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it? ...
A. 13 March 2009: In my opinion, you just need to find a guy who also enjoys giving you equivalent pleasure. That is what I have done all my life. In other words, since a younger man, I have deeply loved women who gave me such pleasures.
And I quickly disc... (read in full...)
My boyfriend checks out other women all the time, how can I get him to stop?
Q. my boyf is constantly pointing out the hotness of other women. at first when we met i laughed it off but it's really starting to hurt my feelings. i'm not an especially jealous person, i dont care about him saying some actress is hot or anything but ...
A. 13 March 2009: Just tell him outright. Say, "You know what? I'm really getting sick of you gawking at other girls. Go get her if that's who you want!"
The stand up and walk away. Head for your car or whatever, or prepare to call a cab. If he does not react prop... (read in full...)
How do I gain more sexual stamina?
Q. My girlfriend says it takes me too long to orgasm. The problem is I orgasm when I feel her tightening around me when she is about to orgasm. Thus, I think I need to last a little bit longer. How do I do this?...
A. 13 March 2009: This should actually not be considered a problem, unless it totally prevents her from finishing. You might also consider switching to perform oral on her for her first orgasm, then finish with a possible simultaneous orgasm and her second.... (read in full...)
How do I stop looking at female bodys?
Q. Hey I'm 13 and was wondering if it was normal to stare at a girls body parts every time they been over or aren't bending. I'm not trying to be perverted but I can't help it. Could someone please tell me why I do this or how I can prevent myself from ...
A. 12 March 2009: If you were not attracted to those sweeties you would not be a normal (young) man, or typical older guy for that matter. Look but don't glare.... (read in full...)
My wife says she gets yeast infections when I perform oral sex.
Q. My wife says that when I stimulate her oraly that she gets "yeast infections" or becomes sore? Is there any thing that can be done about the infections or could she be using that as an a excuse to stop me from having oral sex with her??...
A. 12 March 2009: I'll have to much partly agree with "Irish49" on this. It is unusual, I think. Although I'll concede that a vaginal yeast infection can develop as a result of oral sex, the man would have to possess a reasonably major fungal infection himself. Yeast ... (read in full...)
How do I gain more sexual stamina?
Q. My girlfriend says it takes me too long to orgasm. The problem is I orgasm when I feel her tightening around me when she is about to orgasm. Thus, I think I need to last a little bit longer. How do I do this?...
A. 12 March 2009: You can practice Kegel exrecises, which teaches you how to develop groin-area muscles and possibly withhold climax. You can find plenty of information on this Web site using the search field, some of which I contributed. For me personally, it is ... (read in full...)
My husband hits me and I'm not sure what to do
Q. I have a huge issue i have been married now for almost 3 years and im 23years old but my husband just turned 28, he is a cop and i am a student i was with him when he had to go to police academy and stuck by him in thick and thin but im starting to ...
A. 11 March 2009: You simply must get out of that. It will not change or improve.... (read in full...)
I just don't understand why I can't get a boyfriend.
Q. I just don't understand why i can't get a boyfriend, not been big headed but everyone tells me how beautiful Iam and how well i present myself, but the trouble is it's getting me down, no man ever chats me up, is it because i look to what some say ...
A. 11 March 2009: You will have a great boyfriend, hopefully a husband, lover and best friend someday fairly soon. Just be a bit more open and talkative with guys, and not necessarily the "hot" ones. Better to notice intelligent, sensitive and caring young or older ... (read in full...)
Orgasm by fingering possible?
Q. Well to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now and we both lost our virginity and we had sex about five times now and I haven't gave her an orgasm I'm always the one who gums first so I was wondering how do I give her an ...
A. 10 March 2009: Yes, but you can search my input on the topics by using the search field. Start with "DoubleM on G-spot massage" and "DoubleM on clitoris."... (read in full...)
I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.
Q. i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...
A. 10 March 2009: I'll add a bit more. There is no reason that you must swallow all the cum your first time, or several times. Not a good idea. After the porn movie "Deep Throat" was popular about 1970 or so, many girls wanted to try giving head. It was easier for ... (read in full...)
I'm not good at giving bj's!
Q. Okay, so my borfriend and I have been dating almost 4 months now. I really love him, and he really loves me. He wants me to give him blowjobs somtimes. He has a bigger penis (biggest I've had anyway) I'm not very good at giving blowjobs, but the ...
A. 10 March 2009: Both "didda123" and "natasia" offered some great advice, although I'm not too sure about natasia's frequent rest stops. As a man, I can assure you that pauses are fine up to a point, but can be a real disappointment when the cum starts to rise. We ... (read in full...)
Very bumpy textured vaginal wall?
Q. Well, I was never one to touch myself at all and one night i decided to try it, and well because it is sort of embarrassing to ask people in person I was wondering if anyone could tell me if i was supposed to have a very bumpy textured vaginal wall? ...
A. 10 March 2009: Most all of your vaginal wall should feel fairly soft, smooth and slick when aroused - but not necessarily entirely even. Bumpy feeling would not seem unusual, in my experience.
And agreed, two or three inches inside on the front side, you have... (read in full...)
They tell me I'm a fool
Q. I'm 23 yrs old and have been having an affair with my much older marreid boss for 7 months. I first I told myself it was just sex and thought it ws fun and exciting but now Im in love with him. He is 42 and has twin son that are 3 yrs old and he ...
A. 10 March 2009: Truth is, you are a fool. It is not my intent to be disrespectful toward you, but this kind of scenario is going on all the time. Unfaithful married man wants extra sex, so convinces a woman that he loves her and will leave his wife, but rarely is ... (read in full...)
I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.
Q. i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...
A. 9 March 2009: It will possibly taste quite bitter, somewhat like the flavor you would experience chewing an aspirin, I'm told. Yet many women obviously love it, and the flavor varies. I think that men release semen at various rates, depending partly upon the ... (read in full...)
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