I'm wondering if he cheated. Can a guy feel himself have sex if he is drunk?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going together for over 3 years, and i recently just found out that he went to a party and got extremely drunk and says he doesn't remember or know if he had sex or not. I was wondering if a guy could feel himself ...
A. 9 March 2008: boy i dont know, dont let others tell you what to do were just giving our suggestions to you,,we dont know him like you do! seems like hes got lame excuses but we wernt there. you need to follow your feelings if he seems to be a shitbag then lose ... (read in full...)
I think it's a bit out of reach but should I tell him how I feel anyway??
Q. Ok so here’s the deal. I’m gay/bi (still trying to figure that part out but at least I do like guys) So I kind of know this guy lets call him Ken and I meet him a few weeks ago at the pub, he knows my best mate, and we played darts had a few pints ...
A. 8 March 2008: he needs to not worry about his friend hes gay and eventually that will come out! so its now or later if his friend is his friend hell be there for him if not then screw him, hes not worth it. i say try and go for it whats the worst thatll happen ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if he cheated. Can a guy feel himself have sex if he is drunk?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going together for over 3 years, and i recently just found out that he went to a party and got extremely drunk and says he doesn't remember or know if he had sex or not. I was wondering if a guy could feel himself ...
A. 6 March 2008: sounds like hes definatly guilty!!!! yes alcohol desensitizes your sexual pleasure, but believe me he remembers unless he blacked out but at that point he would have been worthless sexually.....good luck hunny,,,byby ... (read in full...)
How can I break it too him easily to try not to be sarcastic around my friends without him getting annoyed with me?
Q. Hey guys just a quick question and any help would be appreciated. I've started dating a new guy for the past month and everything is great between us so far. I'm not falling head over heels for him as I did with my ex and things are moving much ...
A. 6 March 2008: so what if your friends dont like him? as long as you do and anyways,,,, it's true when did death become cute?... (read in full...)
Girlfriend or her sister?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, we have had our good times and our bad, like most couples, recently we argue all day. this has been happening for 6 months. I love her family to bits and I consider them my own, she has a brother ag...
A. 6 March 2008: there sisters,, so in the end your probably going to made out to be a jerk if you know what i mean? Shell go out with you and then her sister will get upset shell feel bad because after all its her sister and shell dump you then thell make up,,,seen ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of or camouflage these stretchmarks on my shoulders?
Q. This isn't a relationship question but Ii need a bit of advice. I'm in year 11 at school, I'm 15 and I have my school leavers prom coming up in May. Well as you do to a prom, I have to wear a dress which I'm not really bothered about but most o...
A. 2 March 2008: you could use simple cover-up that you use for your face works the same way! wont make it invisible but will help out!... (read in full...)
I brush him off when he wants sex, so now he's watching porn and hiding it from me, what should I do?
Q. (This is my fake anonymous account. I am Female) I caught my fiance masturbating in the basement while watching porn over the internet. I pretended I didn't see him as he scrambled to cover his tracks. He minimized everything in his desktop and ...
A. 28 February 2008: Sorry not his fault!! why are you brushing him off? Do you like being ignored by the person who claims they love you? That is not a good feeling. Your lucky hes not out cheating on you, if porn is your only issue especially since your not paying him ... (read in full...)
She caught me watching porn, but we don't have sex anymore, so whose fault is this?
Q. My live-in partner caught me watching porn and wacking off. She ofcourse pretended as though she didn't see anything. I don't like her trying to sneak up on me and it ticks me off because she's never allowed me to have sex with her for years no...
A. 28 February 2008: She dont want you .....but yet gets mad when you watch porn? what does she expect you to do? You have needs,,,,you should not AT ALL feel bad or ashamed! No one goes years without sex because of a bacterial infection, maybe a week but not years, ... (read in full...)
My dad's ex is blackmailing me into bringing my mates round for sex...what can I do??
Q. This is serious whether you want to believe it or not. I'm having sex with my dads exgirlfriend but now she is demanding for me to bring my friends round to fuck her or she'll tell my dad and it would really be bad for me and my dads relation...
A. 26 February 2008: Dude come on! is this real? If it is,,,why the hell would you do that to your dad?... (read in full...)
He doesn't look at me during sex...any ideas why??
Q. My boyfriend is very passionate during foreplay but when we have sex he stares off into the distance with his eye's open. I know men are visually stimulated but he isn't looking at me... he gets a kind of glossed over look like he's not there. Any ...
A. 26 February 2008: yeah sounds like hes fantasizing,,,but so what there is nothing wrong with it! Men are about visual things and if hes been with you a while then hey maybe hes thinking of .well who knows a victoria secret super model! but try not to take offense to ... (read in full...)
He accuses me of flaunting myself...what can I do??
Q. I have a boyfriend. He loves me and i love him. Sometimes :O). Most of the time he is nice and easy to get along with, but, there are two things in our life that upset him deeply to the point where he shuts me out and doesn't speak to me for days on ...
A. 26 February 2008: Damm girl ,,,,different people have different beliefs BUT ive never heard of such odd behavior! your boyfriend seems to be taking his obsessions to an unhealthy level. There is no need to call you or your son a perv! I walk around my house in a ... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can deal with a yeast infection without medicine??
Q. ok well i think i might have yeast infection but i dont wont to tell my dad. What are some ways i can get rid of it without a doctors medicine??....
A. 26 February 2008: The best way is to see your physician.......BUT, there is an old fashion method if you want to try.... first get some PLAIN(must be plain)no colors,no flavors, just PLAIN, yogurt and dunk a tampon into the yogurt and place inside yourself as you ... (read in full...)
Could he love her and love me but can't choose? Help me understand this guy!.
Q. i have been seeing this man for 22 months now. everyone turned their back on him even his girlfriend she put him out of their house. he moved in with me 3 months ago i was by his side the whole time i met his family,friends and he told them that i ...
A. 26 February 2008: Sorry thats awfull! You were there for him when he was down now he splits. You also say he looks healthy now, was he doing drugs? He obviously does not care for you in the same manner you care for him. Dont allow him to take advantage of your ... (read in full...)
What do I do, I love her so much but she doesn't love me...
Q. OK, this is a lil long but stick with it, this is so hard for me to write, OK,I started to really like this girl in college, we got on really well and we're close very quickly, we would talk for hours everyday about anything, and I told her I lik...
A. 26 February 2008: You will find that someone in time. You deserve to be loved back as much as you love that person. Dont settle for less. Have faith. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Does masturbation change the shape of the vagina?
Q. 2 virgins, one masturbates and other doesnt is there any difference in their pussy shape?...
A. 25 February 2008: No!... (read in full...)
I cheated. What should I do now?
Q. i have been with my man for 3 years and things are great we are getting married in a few months but recently i had it off my ex, help since we split 6 years ago we have remained good friends and now this what to do?...
A. 25 February 2008: Marriage in three months? but just slept with your ex? hunny get real your not ready to get married!!! people lets not sugar coat it. What your doing to your fiance is not fair let him go and go get your wild side out of your system. ... (read in full...)
What do I do, I love her so much but she doesn't love me...
Q. OK, this is a lil long but stick with it, this is so hard for me to write, OK,I started to really like this girl in college, we got on really well and we're close very quickly, we would talk for hours everyday about anything, and I told her I lik...
A. 25 February 2008: All I can say to you is "life is to short to love someone who doesnt love you back". ... (read in full...)
Is he doing this to make me jealous or just being friendly?
Q. I began dating a guy in May, last year. Overall, the relationship was good but we did have our ups and downs. We decided in October that we'd break it off temporily to make us stronger but during this break i had sexual contact with guy from work ...
A. 25 February 2008: If he is contacting you, then he IS holding on to you! What you need to do is next time he contacts you tell him straight out that he either needs to try to work things out with you or to stop all contact with you for good. See its like he dont want ... (read in full...)
I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?
Q. Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But ...
A. 25 February 2008: Well you wernt exclusive so maybe she lied because she didnt wanna hurt you. Maybe she figured why tell him only to make him upset? If this behavior has stopped then you should put it behind you. If you are exclusive now and questioning her about ... (read in full...)
Why was she embarassed at the prospect of all her bush being seen through panties but not about the many hairs curling from under her panties?
Q. A few weeks ago I took some professional photos of a beautiful Caribbean girl with very large breasts. I had asked her to put on underwear that was slightly transparent. She refused to put it on because of the panties being a bit see-through. I ...
A. 25 February 2008: Why you putting so much thought into a girl you dont even know? Really who cares why she didnt want to show her bush ,,,this question is silly,,, maybe she was unaware of the flyaway hairs that were sticking out of the sides!!!!... (read in full...)
Do we really belong with each other?
Q. My present boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and I am questioning your relationship. I have had 2 miscarriages. Do we really belong with each other....
A. 25 February 2008: Well you dont really go into details .....but if your basing ending your relationship on the fact that youve had to miscarriages, that makes no sense to me it is neither one of your faults! This is just the way it goes sometimes, although it is sad ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me and I can't get rid of the anger I feel towards him.
Q. hi my boyfriend cheated on me and i know he is sincerley sory and i want to forgive, though i try i just can't seem to get rid of this anger i feel towards him, even though i know he is sorry and has told me he regrets it cant explain why he did it ...
A. 23 February 2008: Sounds like you havent forgiven,,,,and maybe you shouldnt so easily. Things as complicated as cheating sometimes takes a long time to work through. Dont make it so easy for him,,,,but if you trully want to forgive him then you really need to let him ... (read in full...)
Why is he doing this? I would love to think he's in love with me...
Q. Dear All, I am a 25 yr old girl and I have a unique problem. There is a celebrity i was crazy about [like most of u are about celebs] and was quite active on his fan sites [esp de ones he frequented passively]. Now, before i joined the for...
A. 23 February 2008: Sounds like a waste of your time,,,what you think he will marry you and run away with you? Give me a break...he never even met you! Sounds like a game player,,,you pissed him off now hes paying you back. Move on.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and he's quite big, will it hurt?
Q. Hi. I am a virgin. My boyfriend is a big guy. Will his penis be big too? What will sex for the first time feel like? I am scared I will do something wrong. Any advice? ...
A. 18 February 2008: Not all big men have large penis. Most likely it will be uncomfortable your first time even if hes not huge but youll get throught it and good luck!... (read in full...)
I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?
Q. I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...
A. 18 February 2008: Is he giving a once over or is he staring hard? Theres a difference. Giving a once over I think is normal all men look when it turns into there neck bending and twisting to see your front and back and then continues to watch you walk away well thats ... (read in full...)
Have any of you liked your friends man?
Q. Have any of you liked a guy that your friends with for like afew months and not been able to stop thinking about him and when your with him always looking at him, but then when your on your own and you start to think what it would be like to be with ...
A. 18 February 2008: Dont go there your friend should mean more to you than that. Its ok to be attracted to another but dont cross that line when it comes to your friends it just dont seem right especially if shes a good friend. I know two cousins who dated the same guy ... (read in full...)
My main problem is that she refuses to give me a blow job and she won't let me finish in her mouth...
Q. Ok, for starters I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now, and I like to think I've been a good boyfriend. I do everything to make my relationship work, for example I clean the house every day after I get home from work and on my days ...
A. 18 February 2008: hi, im a female and i need to agree with you, it does seem like theres so much more going on here, the fact she turns her head away from your kiss and never says she loves you first to me doesnt seem like shes that into you, dont get me wrong i'm ... (read in full...)
I like my friends best friend. Am I gay??
Q. Hey I have a problem, im 15 and I like this gurl that is my friends bestfriend. Shes a girl and I have feelings for her, the thing is I am not attracted to girl I just feel as if I realate to her and I think shes really sweet. But I want to know ...
A. 18 February 2008: Only you know if your gay no one can tell you yes or no, its not that simple. And dont worry about being gay, lots of people are, like the old saying goes......"to each his own". good luck to you and remember love you for you sweetie.... (read in full...)
His cheating was not... cheating, as we had decided we didn't have an exclusive relation. After I found out I went angry, will he contact me again?
Q. I recently found out the man I've been sleeping with for 3 yrs was sleeping with another women. We weren't BR/GF we were FWB. Needless to say when I found out I blew upa nd said very hateful things to him. I apologised afterwards and have left ...
A. 18 February 2008: wow im sorry but advice of the others was pretty harsh!! Sometimes we get in situations that "get outta hand", it doesn't make you a bad person. sometimes we can't help our feelings or stop them, women especially. Men (not all) seem to have an ... (read in full...)
Are all women bisexual?
Q. just wondering... are all women bisexual?...
A. 16 February 2008: Are you kiddin me? Of course not! hell I love everyhting about men the way they smell, look, talk ,walk, kiss etc. etc. There is nothing wrong with being bi but why would you think all woman are? ... (read in full...)
Torn between two great guys...what can I do??
Q. Where to start... My now husband and I have been together for a very long time, since I was 14... I'm 21 now... we have been married for almost 4 years now, and have two beautiful children that are my life. I don't really know what happened...
A. 16 February 2008: Your gambling either way, with the husband he might go back to his old ways and the new guy well im sure he has his own set of problems that will spring up eventually. No one is perfect! Almost sounds like mr. right is gonna turn out to be a rebound ... (read in full...)
He can't orgasm and I feel like it must be me...please help.
Q. Hi, Last year I went through a really really bad, stressful separation from my partner of almost 6 years. I vowed never to have a man in my life again, but once I got back on my feet, I thought it time to start dating again. I am 45 years old, wit...
A. 16 February 2008: Listen so many things could be the problem, doesnt mean your it! How old is he? Is he on any meds? Is he nervous? So many things could contribute to this. One way to look at it is if he found you HIDEOUS then he wouldnt be lying on the side of you ... (read in full...)
Is this man worth my time?
Q. I am in a almost 2yr realationship. My partner has taken a 2wk trip with his ex since I have been with him. He shortly after that broke up with me to go back to her. After he tried that for awhile he came back to me, relizing that she was not ...
A. 16 February 2008: Im pretty good for giving people the benefit of the doubt, but in this case im sorry he does not AT ALL seem worth your time! How about you leave him for a change of pace see how he likes it. I know its hard but you really need to have a little self ... (read in full...)
Falling in love with a much younger woman...what to do?
Q. Hello all. I'm seeking advice on a very heart wrenching problem I'm trying to sort out. I'm a 36 year old man who works with a 23 year old woman. Both her and I are in exclusive dating relationships but not married. I think it's safe to say that ...
A. 16 February 2008: To be completly honest with you, Its great that you didnt cheat, but on the other hand, you need to let your girlfriend go....if feelings are there for this other woman. Its not fair to do to your current girlfriend. Just beware sometimes the grass ... (read in full...)
I don't wanna be in love!!! Pleasssse help!!
Q. There's this one guy that I like a lot but he's what people would consider a dork but he's really nice and hilarious. All my friends give me weird looks whenever they see him. You don't understand how many times I've tried to give up on him!!! I ...
A. 13 February 2008: oh hunny one day your gonna wish that nice guy was in your life trust me! your friends sound,,,sorry but like a bunch of snobs! if you like him then go out with him if your "friends" dont approve and accept it then they wernt your friends to begin ... (read in full...)
Was I out of order to tell my partner not to flirt with women on the internet?
Q. Please can someone help me you see I don't know if I was in the wrong with my partner or not so heres the story... I've been with my partner coming up 7 years, we've got kids together and I would say we have a happy, caring and loving relation...
A. 13 February 2008: You wrong ? I think not ,,,harmless flirting is one thing but giving a phone number,,,,crossing the line,,,give em hell....... (read in full...)
Valentines day gift!
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year, and i have no clue what to get him for valentines day and its in 2 days. I know I waited untill the last minuet but i was tring to find a great gift, but my plan back fired today! I really ...
A. 13 February 2008: most men love cologne! Or buy a colts blanket (throw)! As long as you bought it im sure hell like it,,,,hurry up times running out! good luck
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Shall I carry on seeing him and break my parent's hearts or break his??
Q. Dear all, I would be so grateful to anyone who reads this, i appreciate I am one of many letters on this forum, but your advice would not just help me but anyone else in my situation. Thank you in advance for taking your time to read this.......
A. 10 February 2008: Wow, seems that either way you look at it SOMEONE is gonna get hurt! My opinion is that if you trully love this man TRULLY then you should be with him. your parents are in love, are they not? Love doesnt come along easily some people go a lifetime ... (read in full...)
Should he be so flirty with her?
Q. I’ve a question, what would you think about the following situation? Ok I was looking at some past chat logs on my bf's computer (I wouldn’t normally, just I really don’t trust the girl he was talking to). My bf isn’t naturally very flirty yet he f...
A. 8 February 2008: Is this upsetting to you? Everyone is different some people are okay with flirting(or even more) via email, and some people consider it cheating. I guees I would be bothered by that behavior, but then again, most people do flirt and as long as he ... (read in full...)
What are all these spots around my pubic area?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I just wanted to ask for some advice. I don't shave down there but it's always sore and has red spots everywhere down there and sometimes they even bleed. What do you think it is? ...
A. 8 February 2008: have you brought this to your parents attention yet? You should not be afraid to do so, it could be a few things there is no way to tell you unless it is seen by a medical doctor, Are you sexually active? Does it itch? if yes to both of these could ... (read in full...)
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