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19 October 2007: Long distance relationships. There are so many views on them. Some people think they can't work, that the relationships aren't "real" because you don't see your boyfriend or girlfriend everyday, but that's their opinion. They haven't been...
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Was I an asshole?
Q. One night came home after work and was horny as hell. I ended making love to my girlfriend. She's extremely self-conscious about her breasts because of a birthmark and won't take off her bra for me no matter how I beg. Anyway I couldn't take it ...
A. 19 January 2009: Flowers won't even come close to fixing this shithole you've created. You were a complete and utter ass hole. You don't deserve her after that stunt.... (read in full...)
My partner tried to choke me and I'm wondering if I should give him another chance... he says he'll never do it again.
Q. My partner tried to choke me on one occasion and I am wondering if I should give him another chance. He says he loves me more than anything but he panicked and he's so sorry and says he will never hurt me again. He wants to get married - we were ...
A. 22 February 2008: Honey. Lets be honest. If a man does something once, he'll probably do it again. No man who loves you or wants to marry you would NEVER hurt you. NEVER. That man does not deserve you, and you do not deserve that kind of treatment. You deserve so ... (read in full...)
Why is it that only the ugly guys ask me out?
Q. hiya xxxxxx im 14 and have like a ginger brown hair and i was wonderin if it puts guys off????? i've only had 2 proper boyfriends should i be gettin worried and start to change my appearence!!!!!! the trouble is boys who i no say i'm pretty and ever...
A. 25 October 2007: You are not alone with the ugly guy thing jodie. TRUST ME. It's happened to me plenty of times. Hair color does not put a guy off. Have you not seen people that walk around with purple hair that have boyfriends? Hair has nothing to do with your ... (read in full...)
Do I take a step back, or be persistent?
Q. I have met a girl who for the best part of a year was just eye contact across a pub, after some Dutch courage we ended up having a date in which I cooked for her, we had a great time and stayed up until the early hours of the morning and she was ...
A. 24 October 2007: Ok, well being in an 8 year relationship and then it ending is a HUGE deal. Thats like marriage. She truly does need some time. Can you imagine being in love with someone for 8 years and devoting your time to them and never really discovering who ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on halloween?
Q. Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...
A. 24 October 2007: I wouldn't make a major move on her but it does sound like she tends to like you back from the way she acts. Try to go with the flow on Halloween. Make sure you two are alone if you try to do anything, because if you have people around you then it ... (read in full...)
He's told me he's been talking to a girl at work he finds "hot"... will he cheat??
Q. hiya, i am 21 and my partner is 18 we have a 3 month old baby, everything was fine intill a few nights ago when he came in frm work i knew sumthing was up , i asked and my partner said no everything was fine but i jusr knew so we stared fighting and ...
A. 24 October 2007: It's not you honey. It sounds like something is up. Trust your instincts. If he is cheating on you after having a child then he is a pathetic loser. I would have suggested having a child after getting married to have reassurance that your ... (read in full...)
What should I do at the cinema?
Q. right ive managed to ask this girl out to the cinema but im not shure what film to see or what to do? should put my arm round her or not? plz plz help! is there any films sutable that some one could recomend? and does any one have any hints for impr...
A. 20 October 2007: Good job on asking the girl out! That's awesome. Movie-wise, you should get her opinion, see what she wants to go see and then agree with her. Girls don't usually want to see a gory action film on the first date. You should pay for the date also, ... (read in full...)
I'm 62 and have lost interest in sex. What could be the matter?
Q. I lost interest in sex altogether with my husband or any other male. I am not a lesbian either. I am 62 years old and just lost interest. What's the matter with me. My doctor said this is normal for someone my age....
A. 20 October 2007: Well if the doctor told you it's normal then you should probably listen. I can't exactly tell you why you don't want to be sexually active, but its probably just a phase. Everyone goes through a phase of some type or another. I know I'm probably not ... (read in full...)
Can a long distance relationship work?
Q. Hey Aunts/uncles I have a question. I recently met this guy who i fell for instantly. Trouble is, him being 3 years older he was due to go to uni a week later. He said he wud persue a long distance relationship with me. Im more than happy to d...
A. 20 October 2007: Long distance relationships can work when you put effort into them. I wrote an article about them yesterday. They only really work if you put dedication into them. My boyfriend lives across the country from me. It sounds like you have a very strong ... (read in full...)
I'm in agony because I had my belly-buuton pierced. What could have gone wrong?
Q. Right, I'm a little worried about my belly button piercing which i had done about 6 weeks ago...Just recently i've become in agony with it [in the last two days] I can't even bend over with it and i struggle to sit down. I don't wanna see a doctor ...
A. 20 October 2007: I agree with Dextro. You need to go to the doctor, and you should have been washing around your belly button because it's really important to stay clean. Go get it checked out, it might be infected and you might not know. Good luck.
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I played matchmaker but now it's all gone wrong. What should I do?
Q. I'll start at the beginning.... My friend (Becca) had an intense crush on a guy (Ryan)beginning last October. She's incredibly shy, so I decided I'd help. I arranged a time for them to meet. The more these occured the more Ryan and I talked. ...
A. 20 October 2007: It definitely sounds fishy. No real friend would go behind your back with your boyfriend and not tell you. I've been in this situation before. I found out after a friend asked me if me and my boyfriend had broken up because she went to my friends ... (read in full...)
He can't have a meaningful discussion without disagreeing with me and then breaking off. What do you think of this situation?
Q. my fiance has broken off with me off and on more than 10times this year, and im emotionally stressed out. on top of this, he continues to threaten especially if i comment on something he doent like. once, i asked him if he is having some inte...
A. 20 October 2007: I don't think this is a healthy relationship and you need to get out of it. No one should ever threaten to break off an engagement because they don't like what you say. This aggression is not good, and if he's verbally aggressive it can later ... (read in full...)
I get nervous around him. What can I do?
Q. I cant stop thinking about my friend. Its draining because i like him so much that every little thing he does effects me. Things never used to be like this between us but lately when its just us two i get really nervous and things get really ...
A. 20 October 2007: It sounds like he might like you back too. No boy who would only want to be your friend would get uncomfortable when you drop another guy's name. He probably gets nervous thinking that those boys could possibly mean more to you and that they're ... (read in full...)
My gut says he's cheating but I don't want to believe it
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years is also the father to our 1 year old daughter. Ive always been scared that he would cheat on me. A couple of months back I checked his email and a girl wrote scandoulous things to him saying how she missed sleeping with him ...
A. 19 October 2007: This isn't a good situation. If you ask me I what I would do, I would just kick him to the curb, but you two have a child and you can't really do that. This girl he's keeping secret is no good. You need to tell him off. No man who loves you would ... (read in full...)
How do you take your mind off a friend you have very deep feelings for?
Q. Is there any easyier way to get you mind off of a guy you have really really deep feelings for?? Would another guy make it better? I have tried that but maybe i handled it in a wrong way... Every time i go and hang out with one of my guy frien...
A. 19 October 2007: Hey! Chill out! You like him a lot. Big deal. Why are you trying to get your mind off him? Why can't you like this guy? I don't really know the situation but I'd love to help.
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I'm too shy to start up a conversation. Help!
Q. dear cupid, i need some help, i reli like my next door neighbour, but i hardly ever talk to him and when i do its a simple hello, what can i do to get him talk to me properly, im too shy to go up to him and just start having a random conversa...
A. 19 October 2007: Girl! You have got to break out of the shy mold! You'll never get the boy if you wait for him to come to you. If you want this boy you need to:
A) Make him notice you. Whether its a dramatic haircut that makes you look amazingly cute or even wea... (read in full...)
Am I doing something wrong?
Q. I'm sorry if this is really long but I desperately need some advice. I've just turned 18 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together for just over 8 months now and are madly in love with each other. It would seem from the outside that we have this ...
A. 19 October 2007: Calm down. Just because he can't get an erection means your life is over, and you aren't doing wrong. Its him if you ask me. He might need viagra to help him but otherwise what you've been doing normally gets a guy to have an erection. Bring up the ... (read in full...)
I love him when I don't see him, When I see him, it makes me question if he's the one.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a distant relationship. We only see each other on the weekend. We talk on the phone almost every night. It has been like this for 2 years and our relationship is very steady. I used to love spending time with my boyfrien...
A. 19 October 2007: What bothers you about him? Does it bother you to the point where its irritating? Tell me about it.
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I love him when I don't see him, When I see him, it makes me question if he's the one.
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a distant relationship. We only see each other on the weekend. We talk on the phone almost every night. It has been like this for 2 years and our relationship is very steady. I used to love spending time with my boyfrien...
A. 19 October 2007: I know what you're going through, except I don't get to see my boyfriend very often. But what you should try to work on first is your communications with him. If you want it to be successful and fulfilling you need to learn how to communicate ... (read in full...)
I haven't started my period yet - could I be pregnant?
Q. hi i dont know if i am pregnant because i havent started my period i start on the 11th my period dont come late . i had my period last month on the 11th then 2 weeks later i start bleeding again but light just for 2 days..im start getting tired mo...
A. 19 October 2007: You need to go get a test. If you're having unprotected sex and not using the pill then you're in trouble. The least you can do is use a condom. Good luck.
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Was I being totally selfish and clingy and was it too much to ask of him to hold me a few minutes? He said he was tired from work and didn't feel like it; I felt rejected.
Q. Hey all, I am in a bit of a dilema, Me and my fiance' have been together for 2 and half years. We met on the computer and a little over a year later I moved to be with him. About a month and half ago I found out he had a one night stand with his ...
A. 19 October 2007: A) What you asked for was not clingy or selfish in any way whatsoever. Do not feel like you did something wrong. And its right to feel rejected. He's your fiance. He should be glad you even want to be with him.
B) Everyone has bad days. He was j... (read in full...)
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