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writes:Hey iam 17 and I have a smal penis and I was jst basicly asking if anyone knows a pain free and free of charge way to enlarge a penis because I have no confidence iam afraid to show my gf and we have been dating for a yearSo pls someone help
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (17 March 2009):
 I don't know of any way to enlarge a penis except for surgery, sorry. But what you can enlarge is your self-esteem. Please read this article which tries to explain a woman's perspective on the importance (or lack of importance) of penis size.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/on-penis-size-debunking-the-myths.html
For many women, penis size has very little to do with a woman's sexual pleasure or satisfaction in the bedroom. The thing that is important is what is attached to the penis, and that is you, the whole of you. THAT is what a woman is enamored with, not the size of a penis.
I'll bet you're just fine. You might have been watching porn where the men are all enormous and comparing yourself to them. That's a mistake, it's like women comparing themselves to supermodels who are 6 feet tall and who weigh 108 pounds. Enormous penises and ultra-tall, ultra-slender women are an extremely rare thing. Most people are average in size. And most women like 'average'. Average is good, and can be great if the man has a desire to please his lover.
Take care!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 March 2009):
 Trust the previous female aunties. First, it does not matter, and second, no there is nothing you can do. The so-called penis enlargement pills are a sham. And finally, learn what you can do with your hands, fingers tongue and lips. Read my writings in the archives.
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reader, CandyCakes +, writes (17 March 2009):
There is nothing that will change your penis size for real. Pumps work in the short term, but don't actually change anything...
Really, you need to come to terms with it. Firstly, most men mis-assume that all girls want to take a 10 inch dick. The average vagina isn't more than 4 or 5 inches deep. Likely what you think is TOO SMALL some girl will find just right.
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