I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!
Q. I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and ...
A. 24 November 2009: Thanks for the update!... (read in full...)
I need to get over these feelings for my best friend's husband!
Q. I write this in tears. I have fallen head over heals in love with my friends husband. YES I KNOW THIS IS WRONG and HORRIBLE in everyway. I REALLY do love my friend. She is like a sister to both my husband and I. I've been married about 15 years and ...
A. 23 November 2009: I've read all the other posts and I do think there is great advice below. SO I won't make this long.
I agree with Code Warrior about flirting with your husband at home and public, this will make you remember why you fell in love with him and marr... (read in full...)
For the men out there: Does seeing images of half naked men make you feel insecure? How does it affect your self-esteem?
Q. For the guys only: A lot of women write on this site that thier significant other views porn and it makes them feel insecure as the porn stars are well endowed with fake boobs. In addition, the women write they are inundated by the media with i...
A. 23 November 2009: For me, when i'm watching a movie like 300 or a movie with brad pitt in his hay-day, (something of that sort) and they have the abs going on and they're all muscular, it actually motivotes me to get myself in shape. I go to the gym often but i get ... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 20 November 2009: I think the anonymous female who wrote below me is a little harsh. You're young and in a very experimental stage! You need to find out what you want.--strontiumdog brought up a good point. Is this the person you want to be? does it make you happy? ... (read in full...)
Am I a slut?
Q. Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...
A. 20 November 2009: HA! sounds like a wicked cool friday night! Up until that sentence I was thinking "she's not so bad"... I'm not calling you a slut but that was a slutty thing to do. I'm not just saying that just because you're a girl either. If a guy did that it ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to think sex is disgusting?
Q. I am 33 yrs old and could care less if I had sex again!! It's gross, and disgusting I have to be drunk to have sex with my husband. Is that normal, and how do you think I should handle it?...
A. 20 November 2009: I feel bad for your husband! and no, it is not normal at all.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by 'give it some time'?
Q. What does it mean if a guy says "Give it some time we"ll work stuff out either way"? I am going through rough time very stressed, I caused a fight with my boyfriend and said some mean and hurtful things to him and broke up. I have apologiz...
A. 20 November 2009: It means right now he wants to take a step back to assess this relationship and think about what he wants. He doesn't want to break up right now, but he doesn't want to rush back into anything either. I would try to give him some space, and make him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.
Q. i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...
A. 20 November 2009: All i had to read was the title and your age to know you are way to young. grow up first!... (read in full...)
How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?
Q. hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...
A. 20 November 2009: I agree with msfrankie when she says that resisting something and putting some control in your life is a good thing. But with that in mind I would not try to stop watching completely, try to wean yourself off of it. If you stop and go cold turkey ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my professor.
Q. I'm in love with my professor. That first of all is the fact. I am now a graduating student in college, and this semester, he is not my teacher anymore. He was my teacher last semester, and I didn't feel this way. We only smile at each other when we ...
A. 20 November 2009: hey, wild idea here. Just gonna go ahead and throw it out there. Try saying something more than 'Hi'. How about a nice ice breaker? Ask him what he is currently teaching his students? Ask him what he does outside of work with out seeming creepy. ... (read in full...)
I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?
Q. Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time ...
A. 19 November 2009: "but I can't get this man out of my head. It's gotten to the point where I know if he was to ever hint at us being more than just friends I wouldn't be able to hold back."
That's why i think you have to cut off all ties, and I don't think it's too... (read in full...)
I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?
Q. Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time ...
A. 19 November 2009: I agree to the first response that you should not be married, but if you are serious about making this marriage work you have to cut off ties with the professor completely. Or atleast working with him and being a student assistant if that causes you ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried by my boyfriend calling other girls "darling"?
Q. my bf all ways calls other girls darling and stuff like that what should i think of that...
A. 19 November 2009: I don't think you have anything to worry about there. I do that sort of thing all the time. ... (read in full...)
I don't love my girlfriend, how do I go about breaking up with her?
Q. Hi, I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really loves me but I do not. She studies in my other class "B". And her friends study in my class "A". And I am really good friends with them. I am so terrified at breaking her heart ...
A. 16 November 2009: Listen to Paul Simon- 50 ways to leave your lover... (read in full...)
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