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I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.
Q. i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...
A. 10 March 2009: I'll add a bit more. There is no reason that you must swallow all the cum your first time, or several times. Not a good idea. After the porn movie "Deep Throat" was popular about 1970 or so, many girls wanted to try giving head. It was easier for ... (read in full...)
They tell me I'm a fool
Q. I'm 23 yrs old and have been having an affair with my much older marreid boss for 7 months. I first I told myself it was just sex and thought it ws fun and exciting but now Im in love with him. He is 42 and has twin son that are 3 yrs old and he ...
A. 10 March 2009: Truth is, you are a fool. It is not my intent to be disrespectful toward you, but this kind of scenario is going on all the time. Unfaithful married man wants extra sex, so convinces a woman that he loves her and will leave his wife, but rarely is ... (read in full...)
I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.
Q. i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into ...
A. 9 March 2009: It will possibly taste quite bitter, somewhat like the flavor you would experience chewing an aspirin, I'm told. Yet many women obviously love it, and the flavor varies. I think that men release semen at various rates, depending partly upon the ... (read in full...)
He refuses to go down on me
Q. I am just wondering why my boyfriend won't go down on me anymore. We haveo nly been together about 4 months and I keep myself well groomed. THe most it ever gets to down there is a little stubbly which he has commented he likes because it "tickles" ...
A. 9 March 2009: Many women enjoy giving head, as you have indicated, but if oral satisfaction becomes very one-sided, it is simply not fair. In my opinion, it is extremely selfish of a man to enjoy oral satisfaction provided by his mate without returning the favor. ... (read in full...)
What do I do with his "boys" while giving a blowjob?
Q. how do i suck my bfs testicles during a blowjob? ive never done it before so im a little nervous as far as what to do with them. do i lick them? suck them? and my bf says he enjoys the blowjobs i give a lot but i want to make them more enjoyable. ...
A. 9 March 2009: Well, you cannot do everything at once. The technique is to vary your actions during the course of a great blow job. Yes, lick and gently suck his balls, but apply most of your attention to the tip and shaft of his erection. As he approaches orgasm, ... (read in full...)
Am I completely hopeless?
Q. Dear fellow readers, I'm 24 years old and am well aware that at my age I should be confident in my youth to find dates but adult enough to have relationships. Well, I haven't had a serious relationship for over 4 years, and that wasn't such a si...
A. 8 March 2009: In my opinion, you need to consult a gyno to determine the problem. The situation you described is not usual. ... (read in full...)
Will masturbation affect my health in the future?
Q. Will masturbation affect the future or health of a boy who is 18...
A. 8 March 2009: In order to clarify my opinion on this topic, masturbation typically requires some degree of stimulus, especially for men. In my youth, which was a good long time ago, access to any kind of naughty photography was quite limited. My recollection ... (read in full...)
Will masturbation affect my health in the future?
Q. Will masturbation affect the future or health of a boy who is 18...
A. 8 March 2009: No problem with the masturbation, but too much porn will possibly screw you up.... (read in full...)
I'm only 21 and I have lost the passion for sex in my relationship.
Q. I am a 21 year-old female who has lost the passion for sex in my relationship. My fiance wants it all the time, and is beginning to feel rejected. If I am not in the mood it's no fun for either of us, so what should I do?...
A. 8 March 2009: Simple question: Does your fiance please you to sexual orgasms?... (read in full...)
Is this sex or not?
Q. ther is a story im really ntrested in finding out. My boyfriend of 6years who of recent i have sared my first kiss claims he had half-sex. He said he only inserted his penis halfway into his ex girlfriend, which was his first and only sexual ...
A. 7 March 2009: This posting doesn't make much sense. You and boyfriend are apparently about 20-years-old, have been together six years, so that would be since you were both about 14. Yet you only recently first kissed. If he had his so-called "half-sex," which as ... (read in full...)
Why no oral sex from him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years and he's only given me oral sex 2 times. The first time wasnt until 2 years into our relationship and he finally said he wanted to do it. Before that he used to think it was gross, ...
A. 7 March 2009: The porn is likely a good part of the problem, but I think that your boyfriend is very selfish. If you have spreading or somewhat oversized labia, this should not be such a concern for you, and should not be a turnoff for either of you. Personally, ... (read in full...)
Why is it more of a turn on if the girl swallows?
Q. I supose this is a question for the guys/men - Why is it better for a girl to swallow? I was told its very sexy and if the girl that does that for you is amazing. Why? Is it sort of an 'acceptance' thing? And if she spits, is it a 're...
A. 7 March 2009: In my opinion, oral sex between a heterosexual pair is and should always be mutual and entirely consensual. The truth is that the experience and satisfaction for both genders can be extraordinary with experience and knowledge. While oral sex ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to be kinky in our sexual relationship.... But I absolutely hate it.
Q. Hi, I love my boyfriend very much and I've been with him for about a year and a half. We have an absolutely great relationship... except for when it comes to sex (for me anyways). We first started having sex taking it slow. That kind of stuff turns ...
A. 7 March 2009: In my opinion, the communication idea is fine, but as "Honeypie" suggested, you two may simply be sexually incompatible. Men his age and older rarely if ever change. His fantasies are likely porn-inspired, which is terrible, and unless that is the ... (read in full...)
She's very shy when it comes to anything sexual
Q. hi, Ive been seeing a girl for over 2 months now and been going out with each other 3 weeks now! the problem im having is that she is very shy when it come to anything sexual! when were alone i.e my room kissing, i would rub her leg and move my ...
A. 6 March 2009: As some others suggested, it would be a good idea to "back off." It kind of signals to her that you are not pushy, for one thing, and better yet that you are willing to let her make the call when the time is right. It also provides a subtle hint ... (read in full...)
What is the average size for a Mexican's penis?
Q. ummm i was wondering what the average penis size for a mexican was? because my hubby is a mexican. it isnt big but not to small....
A. 5 March 2009: Although I have never cared or been much concerned about this supposed worldwide average regarding size, I think that it has been calculated more like 5-1/2" erect, and that perhaps leaves me very fortunate and a little proud if true. But why are ... (read in full...)
Too tight for sex!
Q. I'm 18 and the other night I was going to have sex with my boyfriend. We were foreplaying before and he got two fingers in me then once we were actually going to have sex he couldn't get in me. It would be my first time and I told me best friend ...
A. 3 March 2009: The advice from "questionablegrl" is excellent, and indeed, this situation is a very good thing rather than "something wrong." But adequate lubrication, preferably water-based, will help immensely along with relaxation. It is likely that natural ... (read in full...)
Was this experience an orgasm?
Q. last night my boyfriend went down on me and after a few minutes i got an amazing feeling! my vagina felt like it was pumping my legs and hips went all funny and all i wanted to do was scream, my breathing got heavier and i couldn't stop squeezing my ...
A. 2 March 2009: You had an orgasm, and they will get better and better.... (read in full...)
Why don't men want sweet, nice, educated and bad? What's up with this?
Q. Let me ask you this... even though an age old question, why is it that men don't always like the nice, sweet, educated women (even though we too have our bad girl side... wink!). Do they perceive us as weak and not tantalizing enough or what? Aren't ...
A. 1 March 2009: There are plenty of nice guys, which you will find once you stop noticing only the "hot" guys.... (read in full...)
Hubby visiting porn sites..I don't want to keep having this fight!
Q. Three months ago, I found out my husband was visiting a ton of porn sites. I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, however, I do have a problem with him viewing live webcams, and registering for accounts on websites that appear to be sex ...
A. 1 March 2009: With children, this is an extremely important situation. In my opinion, the first step is counseling. The emphasis has to be preservation of the family unit, plus restoration of the sexual relationship. Porn, although I appreciate it occasionally, ... (read in full...)
I am afraid to perform fellatio, can there arise any problems from this?
Q. i am afraid to kiss my boyfriend's penis or suck the fluid off him but he wants me to do that. is that safe is there no problem in sucking? is there a problem that can arise in the future from this?...
A. 28 February 2009: As others have mentioned, it is totally safe providing he is clean, healthy and disease-free. The content of sperm and semen is actually nourishing and non-fattening, as widely noted online and in literature, but I agree that you should indulge him ... (read in full...)
How can I last longer? It's driving me insane!!!
Q. There is a huge problem. For the past couple of weeks, every time my girlfriend and I have sex, I don't last... at all. I last maybe a couple minutes, and then bam. This never used to happen up until pretty recently, and I feel like there's nothing ...
A. 28 February 2009: The anonymous male reader is correct - older men tend to last much longer, although other problems may develop eventually. You're apparently at the age when your hormones are so powerful, you are super horny. The masturbation technique may work, or ... (read in full...)
When will sex feel good?
Q. I have had sex with my boyfriend twice, the first time like a lot of virgins it was hard and I didn't really expect to climax because he couldn't get it into far anyway. The second time was a lot easier but even though we were at it for about an ...
A. 27 February 2009: Yes, young lady, it is unfortunately quite normal. Young males anywhere in the world typically have no idea at all how to bring a girlfriend to or through a sexual climax. It is estimated that most men never learn how, based on surveys with women. ... (read in full...)
I'm never "in the mood" after I masturbate. Is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I think I've been masturbating for 3-4 years now. Yeah I enjoy it and it really feels good, but after I masturbate I'm always, always not in the mood any more, I would think that I'd be able to savour the moment after ...
A. 26 February 2009: Yes, your reaction is perfectly normal, even including a kind of guilty or shameful feeling afterwards. Even as a much older man today, I first strongly resist the urge, simply because I have always believed that sexual gratification should be ... (read in full...)
Sex is a curse not a blessing
Q. I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a ...
A. 26 February 2009: You become horny because your body is preprogrammed to do so, and that is because you are of prime child-bearing age. It is nature's way, and the driving factors are hormones produced by your body, several of which are telling you that time has ... (read in full...)
How do 40-45 year old men keep up with much younger women in sex?
Q. If man's sex drive drops after 40-45, than how can they keep up with 20 years younger girls? Is this because their old wife does not turn them on , but the fresh young woman does? Is this an ago thing, or ist biological? I keep hearing about gu...
A. 25 February 2009: At age 60, I have as much sex drive as ever. Admittedly, due to a heart attack five years ago, I have somewhat less stamina. But generally, if experienced, creative and willing, a man at any age can please a woman of any age. Many younger women in ... (read in full...)
What sexual position do women enjoy the most?
Q. Simple one really...what are a woman's favourite sex positions that satisfy her the most? I think my girlfriend is getting bored of missionary... ...
A. 25 February 2009: Ditto. Women are different, yet there are just a certain number of the more popular positions for intercourse. I think that woman-on-top is a definite favorite for many women in the U.S. I'm less sure about the U.K. and Europe.
We sometimes call... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.
Q. Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...
A. 24 February 2009: Superb information from Tisha !... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to feel anything during oral sex?
Q. My ex boyfriend liked to go down on me a lot but I couldnt really feel anything from it. I mean, its not that I couldnt orgasm, I didnt feel ANY pleasure whatsoever and I can only orgasm through masturbation. He is the only one I have ever been with ...
A. 24 February 2009: Well, you say that he is your "ex boyfriend." Maybe the next guy will know what he is doing down there. I strongly suspect that the ex did not.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate.
Q. Okay, This is a pretty weird question, I'm going crazy though. My boyfriend is in his 20's and when he orgasms he doesn't ejaculate. I know this is possible because of all the crap I've read on the internet. It's not that big of a problem right now ...
A. 24 February 2009: Well, have you asked him about this? Apparently, or you would not have said that he has "Never ejaculated . . . his whole life." I would think that he knows the reason. Ask, then you can decide whether he is the mate for you.... (read in full...)
Happy man in his 40's--what should his sex drive be?
Q. If a man in his 40s is healthy and happy then what should his sex drive / libido be like?...
A. 24 February 2009: In my opinion, the sex drive should remain quite healthy through the 40s and 50s - even through the 60s. Maybe not quite as robust as in the 20s and 30s, but still plenty enthusiastic. But certain medical and potential psychological conditions can ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy, how can I approach a guy?
Q. Hi. I never had a boyfriend. I really want one but I'm too shy to do so. I get to shy to even talk to my crush. How can I approach a guy? ...
A. 23 February 2009: All you have to do is look directly into his eyes and smile. Then say "Hi." After that it is all up to him.... (read in full...)
I think I'm sterile and have questions
Q. I am 19 years old. I know I am young but my boyfriend and I who have been together on and off. Have sex regularly sometimes twice a day. He almost always cums inside of me. Not saying that we want a baby so young or nothings its just we know how ...
A. 22 February 2009: Please, your doctor is certainly on the right path, and you are too young to be concerned about lack of fertility. You simply are NOT doing anything wrong.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to make our sex life fantastic and have an orgasm with him?
Q. I am in a wonderful relationship with a man I really, really adore. I am happy in every respect of the relationship, except the sexual side. I'm not really sure what the problem is. It's quite complicated so I'll try to explain it as best I can. I...
A. 22 February 2009: Well, masturbating yourself is fine but no solution to the issues you expressed. The clear and only solution is for your mate to educate himself about female sexuality and the physical aspects of making love. I've been explaining these things, ... (read in full...)
Different ways to please my partner?
Q. right I really need some help. Everything I do sexually to pleasure my girlfriend doesn't work. It has worked for other girls but it doesn't with her. i've gone down on her, fingered her, had sex with her, she says she can feel it but she doesnt ...
A. 22 February 2009: The "anonymous" reader posting below definitely has the right idea, and writes well too ! "Tisha-1" always provides good suggestions. All the previous suggestions and thoughts are very well put, but I would add that to become a great lover as a man, ... (read in full...)
How can I get my guy to make me have a great orgasm
Q. how can my boyfriend make me have a great orgasm...be very detailed I need every little detail...i always have to play a part in cumming but I want him to make me do it on my own while havin the penis inside me.or something better?.....tell me ...
A. 21 February 2009: Oops. Orgasm was misspelled in the previous posting, but it still takes you to a number of writings if entered into the search field. At least two other topics you could read about are:
Double M on the clitoral complex
Double M on female masturba... (read in full...)
How can I get my guy to make me have a great orgasm
Q. how can my boyfriend make me have a great orgasm...be very detailed I need every little detail...i always have to play a part in cumming but I want him to make me do it on my own while havin the penis inside me.or something better?.....tell me ...
A. 21 February 2009: This is a good question, but I do not have time tonight to again delve into the phases of the answer to which I've already contributed. My suggestion, if you are interested, is to enter the following phrases in the search field at the top of any ... (read in full...)
Should I surprise him and give him a BJ while we're out?!?
Q. Ok, so tonight I'm going out to the movies with my boyfriend. He called me late last night at work to tell me he was feeling soooo horny! I thought it was cute. And I didn't let him know, but I wanted him so bad!! We haven't had sex just yet. And ...
A. 20 February 2009: Well, I agree with everybody else so far, including "acd719." And after thoughtful consideration, my answer from Texas is, "Yep!"... (read in full...)
Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?
Q. Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard wo...
A. 19 February 2009: Surprise sexual activity of any kind with his girl is always a turn-on!... (read in full...)
Lack of oral stimulation!
Q. dear cupid, my fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and have 2 kids. i love him to pieces,but, i cant get him to give me any oral stimulation.hes only done it 3 times since we have been together and i have not given him any any oral ...
A. 17 February 2009: It may sound crass, but welcome to the world in which most women live where their mates often become complacent and unwilling or unable to provide sexual satisfaction for wives. Some call it familiarity, whereby the relationship has lost some or ... (read in full...)
Sexual advice needed please.
Q. Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex. I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what the...
A. 16 February 2009: You are very unlikely to cause any hurt, but you would be very wise to restrict your sexual activity to things like hand jobs at most for now. It serves the purpose of relieving a boyfriend's sexual tension, if you wish to do that. You would be ... (read in full...)
Do women actually enjoy anal?
Q. Hey do women enjoy anal? Also if me and my gf were to try it what should I do to make it as enjoyable as possible? As far as lubes, toys, and technique. Thanks....
A. 16 February 2009: Some do, because there are sensitive and potentially pleasurable nerve endings there, but to my knowledge, a majority of women do not really enjoy such penetration. It is very risky in some respects, including to their future health and yours as ... (read in full...)
Is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when I give him a handjob?
Q. is it bad that my boyfriend doesn't finger me when i give him a handjob? he did it a few times in the beginning of our relationship and seemed pretty into it but for weeks now whenever we do anything sexual it's really one-sided and i don't really ...
A. 16 February 2009: Well, despite all the perceived love that you think is involved, what exactly do you not understand about being used by a selfish and self-centered boyfriend?... (read in full...)
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