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I was sexually abused, now my period is late, could I be pregnant?

Q.   I was sexually abused last month, the guy didnt wear a condom 2 days later i got my period right on time for 6 days normal flow. This month its 3 days late already, could i be pregnant? ...

A.   7 July 2010: Hi there !!! I'm sorry because of what happened , any way as a doctor i'd tell you its unlikely that you are pregnant if you had your period after the intercourse, also the gush of your last period well wash the semen out !! Though the sperms c... (read in full...)

Could this be cancer or am I pregnant? Help!

Q.   Hello all! I need YOUR help and adivce desperately...Okay, so a little over two weeks ago, I noticed a small bump on my cervix and ignored it. The next day, I had sex with my boyfriend and about two days later, noticed the bump was gone. At that ...

A.   21 June 2010: Hi there !!! As a Doctor , i would advice you to go to your Gynecologist !! No worries its unlikely to be a cancer and impossible to be pregnancy because 1st of all pregnancy doesn't cause this bleeding unless if it was associated with pain either ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel this happy?

Q.   I'm 19 and I just had a general question. I have been good friends with my now current boyfriend for a few years. We have been dating for almost a month. I have never smiled so much in life, I feel like I'm glowing from the inside out and whenever I ...

A.   3 May 2010: Enjoy it !!! The best thing that can happen to a human is being in love !! And its more amazing when this love is actually with a friend. the same thing happened with me about 4 years ago !!! And we still so happy and we are engaged and our wedding ... (read in full...)

G/f cheating? No sex, says I make her skin crawl

Q.   I live with my girlfriend, but is she having an affair? Weve not had sex for nearly 16 months now, she used to sleep naked in bed but now wears shorts and t-shirt, we argue a lot, she goes out 4 nights a week even for just an hour sometimes, she ...

A.   23 April 2010: Yes !!!... (read in full...)

Sex before marriage?

Q.   do you believe in sex before marriage?...

A.   14 April 2010: No i don't !! BUT it is a personal opinion !!! Ask ur self one question !!! why GOD make it forbidden before marriage !!!... (read in full...)

Is 'text only' considered cheating?

Q.   is online sex consider as cheating on your husband if its done by only txt chating and no pictures and cam is used, no personal information is shared also ?...

A.   13 April 2010: YES it is !!!... (read in full...)

Can guys feel if they have released pre-cum?

Q.   Last night i may have done something stupid. I was in the car with my ex-boyfriend who I often hook up with, we were fooling around and he really wanted to have sex. It was quite cramped and he didnt have a condom on so I kept saying no initially. ...

A.   12 April 2010: Yes !! Or at least i do !!!... (read in full...)

Why am I sleeping with my boyfriend's Dad?

Q.   Hi. I really need some advice here. I've gotten myself into a bad situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile (we are both 18), and when I first met his parents there was a spark between his father and I. Now here we are six months later, ...

A.   4 April 2010: You totally ruined all your chances with your boyfriend who you LOVE !! Do you have any idea how much that 'll hurt him, also can you imagine how YOU caused alot of extensive damage to his relationship with his father ?!!! Also the relationship ... (read in full...)

I feel like I married a pimp!

Q.   Before my husband and i were married we were out one evening drinking and i picked up a woman mostly to please my husband. We ended going back to her hotel and even as drunk as I was I was very uncomfortable when I saw him touching her and I ran ...

A.   4 April 2010: The only thing i can say is END THIS RELATIONSHIP !! Look for somebody who would love you !!! Probably there are alot of them... (read in full...)

How do I stop carrying on with my best friend/FWB when I don't want a relationship with him?

Q.   My FWB and I are like soulmates. We get along so well together and live together and make each other very happy. We've been content being "just friends" and although I'm pretty sure he would like an official bf/gf relationship with me, he doesn't ...

A.   4 April 2010: All what i can say is , give it a chance !!! The best relationship i've ever had which is becoming margie is with my best friend !! Friends with chemistry is one of the most amazing things that can ever happen to you !!! And you two sounds like that ... (read in full...)

Could it be possible for my girlfriend to be absolutely unable to reach orgasm?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, we have both enjoyed great sex, and have done it 50+ times. The problem is that no matter what I do, she won't orgasm. We love each other very much to the point that we would both die for each other. I ha...

A.   25 March 2010: Well, i can't really help u with the orgasm issue coz i'm still virgin, but i can tell u one thing, if u both happy and madly in love DO NOT even think about breaking up because of this !! I know what love means and i think its bigger than this idea ... (read in full...)

I leant on my lower tummy, do you think my baby is OK?

Q.   Hi I'm 11 weeks pregnant and i stupidly leant on my lower tummy trying to close a window with my feet in the air. I am not a light girl but being healthy now cos of the pregnancy, mind i should have worked on being healthy before but what's done ...

A.   22 March 2010: Hey there!!! How is it going ? I was just wondering if you and your baby are okay ? What happened ? Have you went to your doctor ? Wish you all the best and good luck... (read in full...)

Ohhhhh brother!!!

Q.   So, a couple of weeks ago, me, my best friend named kate, and her boyfriend named Chad were at her house just talking, laughing, and watching tv, and she went into the kitchen for a snack and me and him kind of clicked, because we started talking ...

A.   20 March 2010: Hi there !! I'm not writing here to give you any sort of lectures !!! But if you really care about your friend you just should take out that idea of your head !! You have to choose between the guy who seems playing or your best friend who seems so ... (read in full...)

I leant on my lower tummy, do you think my baby is OK?

Q.   Hi I'm 11 weeks pregnant and i stupidly leant on my lower tummy trying to close a window with my feet in the air. I am not a light girl but being healthy now cos of the pregnancy, mind i should have worked on being healthy before but what's done ...

A.   24 February 2010: Hi there, don't worry about that, there is alot of protection mechanisms god have made for us, for example the fetus is surrounded by something called amniotic fluid which will help to reduce any trauma or pressure, also the muscular layer of the ... (read in full...)

What's the general opinion on virginity

Q.   Okay so here's a question for you guys. What do u feel about virgins? Does it turn u off or does the thought of having sex with a virgin excite guys?? I'm 19,5 still a virgin...so i'd like to know...

A.   22 January 2010: Me and my fiance are both virginis, we are so in love and we won't have sex till we are married !! And i am really happy with that. What i'm trying to say is, imagine you found the right person after you have lost your v-card, wouldn't you... (read in full...)

Can anyone shed any light on this infection? Is it bacterial or a yeast infection?

Q.   Hi and thanks to all reply to me =) Today I went to get a pap smear and when I got home I had a message on my answering machine from the doctors office telling me to call them back and so I did and they told me I have a vaginal infection and I co...

A.   20 January 2010: Well yeast infections in matter of fact are more common than bacterial infections !!! So just don't worry and as i understood that you are pregnant, infections are very common with pregnancy !! Just don't worry and belive me if there was any thin... (read in full...)

Has anyone been in a situation where you are best friends for years and eventually you do become a couple? I am really hoping that will be the case for us!

Q.   I'm 26 (male) and my best friend (same age, female) who I've known since school days suffers from low self esteem. There's too many details to go into, but basically her family are split up and she says she never felt wanted and no one ever cared ...

A.   6 January 2010: I was very close friend to my fiance for 6 years before we start dating, honestly that was the best thing ever !! I've been through relationships but none of them felt like this one, wish you good luck and belive me being in love with a friend is ... (read in full...)

How do I make him see I'm worth risking our friendship?

Q.   I'm a seventeen year old girl. I'm a junior in High School and I've never been in an serious relationship, and honestly I've never been that intrested in anyone. Until a month ago. We've always been in similar circles, but we weren't friends. He's ...

A.   28 December 2009: I think u should talk to him honestly about what u think 'that u it worth taking the risk of ur friendship' Coz i know how does it feel falling in love with a friend !!! Just wake it clear, be brave and don't worry !!! Hope i've helped... (read in full...)

Is is "better" to be a close friend to someone, or a love interest?

Q.   Is is "better" to be a close friend to someone, or a love interest? Assuming the person sees these two things as mutually exclusive... And is there a way to transfer from one to the other?...

A.   25 December 2009: I strongly agree with CARINGGUY !!!... (read in full...)

Was it wrong of me to get him a gift?

Q.   Yesterday I gave my crush a Christmas gift that he loved. Maybe I didn’t give it to him but he got it because I gave it to his cousin and my best friend g. He thanked me by texting right after he got it. He said that it was a good surprise. I told ...

A.   25 December 2009: Sure its normal to get jealous, BUT be take care this might put you in troubles, so you have to control this feeling and yes i think you should talk to him about how you feel, at least you can know how he feels !!! Wish you all the best and good ... (read in full...)

I'm female and in love with my teacher

Q.   hi there im girl . i have a problem very big problem . i dont like boys and i hate that, so i just fill in love with girls , and other problem (now i fill in love with my teacher every day i love her more) im so upset for my self so please any on...

A.   25 December 2009: Yes, you aren't in love, you are just attracted to her or like her so much, you are a bit young to love some one and even if you did its not mature and you'll find out that all your feelings was an illusion !!! Don't do any thing you might regret ... (read in full...)

It was from sex to cuddling, is this progress?

Q.   Ive been having sex with this guy a few times and he is a really good friend... its kind of a big deal that we have crossed that line... The first couple of times it was just about the sex...but last weekend when we had sex, it was slow, sweet and ...

A.   24 December 2009: Well, i think this is a real progress, wish you all the best and believe me that one of the best things in this world is FALLING in love with a friend !!!... (read in full...)

Confusion about masturbation

Q.   Well, im a 16 male and i masturbate quite a lot maybe evan 3 - 5 times a day and its kind of like a habbit to me, for some reason im getting really horny really easily but then sometimes when im horny i wont get an erection but i will masturbate ...

A.   24 December 2009: well young man, thats a big number of times per day BUT i think every 1 of us have been in this place before, you have to consider decreasing this number .. cheer up its normal , don't worry !!! contact me for any help, hope I've answered you... (read in full...)

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