Does this sound like a healthy relationship?
Q. Hey everyone. I'll try to keep this as concise as possible. I was working on a photography project in Mexico when I met my girlfriend. I met her dancing - it was very romantic and intense. The relationship started almost immediately. I s...
A. 6 June 2010: Star signs have nothing to do with anything.
Unless you totally believe in that load of crap.
I'm a cancer and my boyfriends an Aries, we're supposed to be two different people, and I'm supposed to fall in love with Taurus or something.
To the wh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not paying attention to me
Q. Hey guys! :) Alright.. My boyfriend is NOT paying any attention to me and it pisses me off! On facebook he NEVER replies to my posts and never posts anything to me but he has the time to comment on his friends' He never initiates a call.. Its a...
A. 6 June 2010: If he's only 17, he's not going to care about some girl, constantly bugging him to talk to her.
Tbh, he's probably started eyeing girls off at his new school.
The truth hurts, Iknow, but I'd move on personally.... (read in full...)
Is 7 months too long to wait to have sex?
Q. I've been going out with a girl for 7 months now and we havent had sex. Is this normal because it seems every other couple around us is. And it makes be almost frustrated that we aren't, and wonder whether im in a strong relationship, i dont know ...
A. 20 March 2010: Stop, Stop, Stop. Think about it for a second. You're only concidering sex, because everyone else is? That's almost like peer pressure.
Stop comparing your relationship to everyone else, and focus on the amazing girl, who always wants to be in your... (read in full...)
What do I do here... as her friend?
Q. Okay my best friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 18 and they have been dating for like two years now their relationship is great but when they went to italy together he wanted to have sex with her I told her to not do it but he keeps insisting that ...
A. 20 March 2010: Unless of course, you're like most people these days, and have recreational sex, which is totally alright, and maybe you're not going to be married. @ The person below me.
But to your friend, she's only a child, and yes she may be having all thes... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my school's resource officer! How can I tell if he feels the same?
Q. how can u tell if someone likes if even though they are not aloudd to be attracted to you? im basically inlove and im positve i am with my schools resource officer.. i use to think it was jus comfort i was feeling but i KNO i love him..the problem...
A. 3 March 2010: He's also 30 odd, and you're still a teenager. Slow down, calm down, and don't lay a hand on him. It's concidered pedophillia, if you do anything with him. He might not be "looking at your butt" and you're just simply being too self absorbed.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my basketball coach!
Q. Okay well, im on the girls basketball team and theres a problem. My coach is young and the cutest guy ever. He's like a father figure to all of us, hes the nicest guy there is.. Whenever were hungry he tells us to stop by his room no matter when and ...
A. 3 March 2010: Look at Celine Dion, she got a father figure as a husband.
Sure a lot of people didn't agree with it, but it happend.
And well, it's natural.
Do you have problems with your "at home" life?
But, you need to concentrate on your basketball, beca... (read in full...)
Does the fact that he constantly checks up on me via Facebook mean anything?
Q. What if you found out the guy/girl you like, has been constantly viewing your profile on facebook with profile checker, they were in your top 10, what would you think of this?...
A. 3 March 2010: Well, honestly. I check up on people on facebook constantly, that aren't family.
Yeah I know, dorky but still it's a good way to catch up.
But, he may just think of you as someone he cares about, and not be into you, or he's checking up because ... (read in full...)
Creepy Cousin
Q. Well when I was about 5 or 6, my teenage cousin raped me, not molested. He actually penetrated me. Anyways 2day is my 16th bday and my cousin and I have the same bday. So his mom called and told me happy bday then she gave the phone to him. As he ...
A. 29 December 2009: So I'm guessing you didn't tell your parents?
Would they believe you now, if you did tell them? All I have to say is, I have sort of the same problem, my cousin's are a little bit creepy, and tad bit perverted, but I quickly told them to back off ... (read in full...)
We won't be getting back together and it hurts
Q. Well, ok... I am in love with someone and I never felt this way about anyone in my life. We broke up and we are still really good friends but we have talks. We still love eachother and still tell eachother we love them. My only problem is that we ...
A. 29 December 2009: If you wish for him to be happy, then help him but don't over do it, and don't back off, because otherwise he's going to kick you out of his life, you can still be his friend, no one is stopping you from doing that, but some times these things ... (read in full...)
How Can I Break Them Up?
Q. The guy I have like 4ever is dating some freshmen (we are juniors)that he only met a week ago, its obvious hes rebounding from his last gf cause they only broke up a month ago. I stayed out of his last relationship and let it take its course but ...
A. 29 December 2009: How dare you. You have no right to break them up! Would you like it if someone tried to break you and him up. IF You ever dated him in the first place? I didn't think so, so I'm pretty sure you're just going to have to wait it out, I'm not giving ... (read in full...)
I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me.
Q. I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me. At the same time I'm reluctant to fit the whole paranoid-woman stereotype, but I can't help it. For starters, he cheated on his girlfriend before me. Multiple times, with multiple girls. While I ...
A. 29 December 2009: To be completely honest, he sounds like one of those jerks that simply think, "I'm a man, I can do whatever the hell I like, Because I've the penis, and women aren't as important as us." And I know a lot of those kind of men, they cheat, and they're ... (read in full...)
Does masterbation cause health problems?
Q. hi there again, this time i want to ask that do masterbration effects health?? I mean i masturbrate 2-3 times daily and day by day i am feelling weaker! I asked a friend and he told me that masterbrating too much can also cause AIDs! So i want to ...
A. 29 December 2009: ...
Your friend told you you'd get AIDS from masterbating? That's one of the stupidest things I've heard, in well... A long time. You wont get AIDS from masterbating, you get it through needles, Blood, sexual intercourse, etc... Not everyone has ... (read in full...)
He says I'm too much of a good friend to date me?
Q. I really wanna date this guy he says he likes me but he said I'm too much of a good friend to date because he doesn't wanna lose me. What do I do?!?!?!?!!??...
A. 29 December 2009: Well, maybe there's nothing you can do. But obviously he does like you, but he's thinking in the long run.
Maybe he thinks, if you both break up, that your friendship will be ruined and that you're too special to lose.
But to show him how you feel... (read in full...)
I am genuinely confused here..can you all help?
Q. Well...Here's the thing... At 16, first year of college, I started seeing this guy who I knew back in Primary School. I found out I was moving and we ended it. Even though we were moving, I started dating someone else...a second year in college....
A. 29 December 2009: Glad to be of service. Everyone needs some help once in a while, but this guy does sound like bad news. I knew a guy like that once, I really liked him too, but then his best friend and I got really close, and today after 5 years we're still real... (read in full...)
Do women like intelligent men?
Q. Hello, i was wondering, does women like intelligent men? I really love to become a mathematician or a physicist, i mean not the wrong social stereotype of the geek who cant socialize, i mean a guy that is fit + personality + mathematician or physi...
A. 28 December 2009: First off...
Why're you deciding what you want to be, because you're wanting chicks?
Grow up. That's silly, well rather stupid. A girl will love you no matter who/what you are, as long as you find the "RIGHT" girl.
But someone is always going... (read in full...)
I took sperm off his condom and inserted it into my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. i'm 18 and i want to get pregnant so bad, my boyfriend came in me but it wasnt my ovalating date, a week after he knew it was my ovalating day an he didnt come in me, but a drop of sprem hit my vagina, after that he put on a condom when he was done ...
A. 28 December 2009: I have to admit, that was a pretty stupid thing to do.
And since when did you have the right, to do that?
For your sake, I hope you tell him.
And if you're pregnant (Which you could be.)
I hope he doesn't dump you.
But seriously...
That j... (read in full...)
How do I strip for him when I'm so shy about my body?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year! And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, w...
A. 28 December 2009: But then again, aren't people usually surprising?
No person is ever the exact same.
=]... (read in full...)
Why is my girlfriend giving the impression she is available to other guys?
Q. heyy just found out my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, has told two different guys that shes hung out with (one of them was the guy that she cheated with and second a new guy shes been hanging with alot) that she is single and me and her ...
A. 28 December 2009: Because your girlfriend is one of those girls, who I honestly think should be put into space.
Okay that was a "tad" harsh, but the point remains. If she's cheated once why did you take her back?
I don't understand this concept! Why do people t... (read in full...)
How do I confront him without it turning into a major fight?
Q. I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about ...
A. 28 December 2009: No offense, but if it wasn't bad, why would he deny it?
Just tell him you saw his site, & The pictures on it, and say "Don't get mad, I just want to know."
If he accuses you of being paranoid and what not, explain to him again what's what.
O... (read in full...)
I am genuinely confused here..can you all help?
Q. Well...Here's the thing... At 16, first year of college, I started seeing this guy who I knew back in Primary School. I found out I was moving and we ended it. Even though we were moving, I started dating someone else...a second year in college....
A. 28 December 2009: Once a cheater always a cheater.
I know it's harsh.
But what's to say... "Harm"... Wont cheat on you again?
You deserve someone who treats you like a princess, who loves you for you.
Lets say your knight in shining armour.
I hope you find him, y... (read in full...)
Cyber cheated... Now my wife hates me!
Q. I did a really really stupid thing and cyber cheated on my wife, I met a girl through a chat room and for 3 months we sent dirty emails to each other and spoke on the phone a dozen times and emailed pictures of our privates to each and pictures of ...
A. 28 December 2009: If you knew women, you'd realise she'd probably thinking;
"Oh, I'm not good enough."
"It's my fault he cheated."
"Why did I do something wrong?"
Etc! And you know what, she was completely right to throw you out, you're not sorry for what you did... (read in full...)
Should I speak to my mother again? I really need help!
Q. my "mother" is a terrible person. She makes me feel worthless everyday. I try talking to her and all she does is make me feel like I'm not worth anything. I am a college student and I am having difficulty adjusting with all the stress in my life. In ...
A. 28 December 2009: You should try talking to your mother, and telling her how you feel, but to your boyfriend, if he loves you, why would he love over something so small?
But you really should try talking to her.
And if she doesn't listen then... Well, you can't sa... (read in full...)
He has no idea I like him..how do I let him know?
Q. Hi Everyone, There is this guy that I extremely like and the only thing stopping us from getting together was this girl that he liked even more. I found out that she just got with a guy barely 2 days ago but when my crush finds out I'm sure he'...
A. 28 December 2009: Okay so the guy's a jerk to you, and you still love him?
You shouldn't have to prove your love to a boy, he should believe you, and trust your judgement.
Or maybe he can't read between the lines.
Don't go all out, and have sex with the guy, lik... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and scared to death that I may be pregnant. Help!
Q. Hi. I am 14 and I think I am pregnant. My boyfriend knows, he says hes with me all the wall. He told me even befor we had sex that he wanted to marry me so I beleive him. He doesnt think I should get an abortion and neither do I. But my mom is a ...
A. 28 December 2009: Okay so you're 14, and you believe that this boy wants to marry you at that age?
No offense to you, but you shouldn't even be having sex at that age, it's an adult activity, and now you know why kids aren't supposed to have sex at young ages, some... (read in full...)
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