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writes:My girlfriend says it takes me too long to orgasm. The problem is I orgasm when I feel her tightening around me when she is about to orgasm. Thus, I think I need to last a little bit longer. How do I do this?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 This should actually not be considered a problem, unless it totally prevents her from finishing. You might also consider switching to perform oral on her for her first orgasm, then finish with a possible simultaneous orgasm and her second.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks DoubleM
This is a strange one because all of my girlfriends have been amazed at how long I can last and she says the same.
The prob is when she is about to explode she gets so tight it becomes uncontrollable for me.
We can have sex for hours and she has multiples but at that crucial moment for her ejaculation bam!
Never had this prob before!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (12 March 2009):
You can practice Kegel exrecises, which teaches you how to develop groin-area muscles and possibly withhold climax. You can find plenty of information on this Web site using the search field, some of which I contributed. For me personally, it is largely mental. But I'm an older man (about 60) who simply learned to last over time.
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