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No replies yet... 28 May 2010: Lila here~ Love is a wild thing. It can not be socialized or normalized. It breathes and pulses and dances to the beat of the Universe. To expect that Love will keep you safe and secure is utterly missing the point. To truly, deeply love ...
Infidelity is Bad for Your Health
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27 May 2010: Pinkee here~ As some of you may know, I cheated on my husband when I was married. I have learned a lot since then. I am quite clear that I NEVER want to do that again, not to anyone- my partner, my potential “partner in crime”, or myself. Even ...
The Question of Contraception
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13 May 2010: Lila here~ For the past 50 or so years, the burden of contraception has fallen squarely on the shoulders of women. Thanks to the good doctor in Shrewsbury, MA who invented the Pill (his wife was my high school librarian for years-- you might im...
Farting, Burping, and Swearing in Relationships
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4 May 2010: Pinkee here~ Yes, I thought I’d bring up this politically incorrect topic. I mean, the way a lot of people are about this stuff, I’m almost wondering if it’s okay to talk about it, never mind do it. But in the Booty Doctors tradition, I am taking ...
How do you know you're with The One?
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3 May 2010: Lila here~ How do you know when you’ve found “the One?” Allow me to first dispel a common myth. Most of us have more than one “the One” in our life. With very few exceptions, we will all experience more than one great love in our lives. Each ...
Being an Oasis for Each Other
No replies yet... 27 April 2010: Pinkee here~ In today’s fast paced world, nothing is more soothing at the end of the day than your lover’s touch. I know that many times you would just like to have sex, but it’s not ALWAYS time for sex. Plus, I understand that most of you out ...
The Laws of Attraction
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25 April 2010: The Universal Law of Attraction states that like attracts like; what we think about and feel about the most, at the deepest level of our being, is what we will attract into our lives. This is true, even when we don’t like what the Universe is ...
Do You Have a “Good Girl” or a “Bad Girl” on Your Hands?
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25 April 2010: Pinkee Here~ Lately, I have been reading the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Barbara is a sex therapist, author, and columnist, and has much to say on this topic. Unfortunately, most women fall into the “good ...
All About Multiples (And I Don’t Mean Births)
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17 April 2010: I’ve had multiple orgasms on my mind lately. Just thinking about what a wonderful thing they are. If you’re like other guys I know, you just may love the idea of teaching or helping your woman to have multiple orgasms. My personal story a...
Authentic Arguments
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15 April 2010: Lila here~ Last week I wrote about speaking authentically. How on earth is a person supposed to remember to speak authentically when they’re in the middle of an argument? Well, that’s the time it’s the most important, so the more you practice when ...
Creating Good Communication
No replies yet... 9 April 2010: Lila here~ Communication is critical to growing and nurturing relationships of all kinds. When we communicate about our feelings, we come from either love or fear. In other words, we communicate either authentically or from a place of ...
Ah Breasts, But What to do With Them?
No replies yet... 31 March 2010: This is a topic so basic, so obvious that I never thought of talking about it before. Now, I’m not professing that just because I HAVE breasts, I know everything there is to know about them. (For instance, I still don’t know why, when I do a shot, ...
Success With Squirting
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25 March 2010: Lila here~ If you’ve been listening to our radio show you may remember that I’ve been on a mission for a couple of months now. I’ve been trying to squirt, with little success… until this morning. Pinkee reviewed a DVD in January called “Nina Hea...
Orgasms 201
No replies yet... 18 March 2010: “Orgasms are like snowflakes; no two are alike, they’re free, they melt in your mouth, and not even the weather forecast can predict when they’ll come.” Cory Silverberg. Lila here~ I counted eight different types of orgasms last week, then ...
Orgasms 101
No replies yet... 13 March 2010: Last week I was doing some research on orgasms. I was stunned to find that most of my search results came up with two types of female orgasms. Most results referred to either clitoral or vaginal orgasms. Those are certainly two types, but there are ...
Body Language 101
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4 March 2010: Lila here~ Last week we talked about reading body language on the show. I thought I’d recap some of our findings for the sake of those of you who weren’t able to tune in. How can you tell if a woman you’ve just met likes you? Lucky for you, s...
Get More of the Good Stuff
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2 March 2010: Pinkee here~ Want to get more of the good stuff and less of the bad stuff in your relationship? You know, the fun, the sex, the love, the good stuff, as opposed to the fighting, the misery, the resentment, the sex starvation? You might be s...
Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT
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24 February 2010: ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...
Oh, And Another Thing...
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19 February 2010: Pinkee here~I just thought of another one that you guys seem to be spending waaaay too much time worrying about (see last week’s post, “It’s All Good, Guys”)- your height. As an exotic dancer, I know this because I wear high heels. I try not to ...
It’s All Good, Guys!
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13 February 2010: Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...
Eroticism is Not a Competitve Sport
No replies yet... 10 February 2010: So many times couples focus on the Big O when they talk or think about their sexual encounters. That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal oriented. It’s also typical for women who are disconnected from their feminine essence or who have a lot of ...
What Drew You Together?
No replies yet... 5 February 2010: Pinkee here~ This week Lila's post was aimed toward those who are already in relationship, but some of the flame (or, okay, I know sometimes it feels like ALL of the flame) has gone out of it. Along those same lines, I want to offer a techniqu...
Why Start With Sex?
No replies yet... 2 February 2010: Lila here ~ This is for those of you in a relationship already. Maybe you’ve been in it for a while, and things have gotten boring. Maybe you think you can’t even stand being in the same room as your partner, never mind having sex with her! You ...
Helping Your Woman Unleash Her Inner Freak
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26 January 2010: Lila here~ One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that ...
HOW TO KISS A WOMAN
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21 January 2010: Pinkee here~ It’s January, which feels like a good time to get back to basics. Why don’t they teach things like this in public schools? Well, I’ll tell ya- no one ever taught me, OR a lot of the guys I’ve kissed. In case you’re interested in what ...
Why Women Can’t Separate Sex from Love
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19 January 2010: Lila here~. The truth is, most women genuinely cannot separate sex from love. Even in our post feminist, equal opportunity culture, women are still hard-wired to expect love and sex to be combined. Heck, I was talking to a stripper about b...
Six things we women wish you men knew
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15 January 2010: Lila here~ Last week on the radio show we were talking about the top 25 things women wish men knew, according to Men's Health magazine. I came up with my own top six: 1. We're suckers for romance. You probably know that, right? Never ask, do yo...
Why Men Are WAY Better Than Sex Toys
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11 January 2010: Lila here ~ It seems like everywhere I turn lately, someone is talking or writing about men being obsolete or in danger of extinction. It’s upsetting, and I want to assure you it’s not true. Take sex toys, for example. Men will NEVER be replace...
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Infidelity is Bad for Your Health
Q. Pinkee here~ As some of you may know, I cheated on my husband when I was married. I have learned a lot since then. I am quite clear that I NEVER want to do that again, not to anyone- my partner, my potential “partner in crime”, or myself. Even ...
A. 1 June 2010: Hi,
I think maybe what you're trying to say is that I should just forgive myself? I think I have done that, but learning to trust myself again is maybe more the issue. I do agree, stuff happens. In my case, it's not as though my marriage... (read in full...)
Farting, Burping, and Swearing in Relationships
Q. Pinkee here~ Yes, I thought I’d bring up this politically incorrect topic. I mean, the way a lot of people are about this stuff, I’m almost wondering if it’s okay to talk about it, never mind do it. But in the Booty Doctors tradition, I am taking ...
A. 24 May 2010: Yes I agree, as with everything else, communication is the key!
Pinkee... (read in full...)
The Laws of Attraction
Q. The Universal Law of Attraction states that like attracts like; what we think about and feel about the most, at the deepest level of our being, is what we will attract into our lives. This is true, even when we don’t like what the Universe is ...
A. 17 May 2010: OK, I'll try to clarify a few points here.
First, there are 3 main core wounds, but there are an almost limitless variety of ways those core wounds play out in different people. The version of core wounds we carry are, in fact, the "baggage" we c... (read in full...)
The Laws of Attraction
Q. The Universal Law of Attraction states that like attracts like; what we think about and feel about the most, at the deepest level of our being, is what we will attract into our lives. This is true, even when we don’t like what the Universe is ...
A. 11 May 2010: Thanks for the clarification, DoubleM--- these are generalizations, not absolutes.... (read in full...)
How do you know you're with The One?
Q. Lila here~ How do you know when you’ve found “the One?” Allow me to first dispel a common myth. Most of us have more than one “the One” in our life. With very few exceptions, we will all experience more than one great love in our lives. Each ...
A. 11 May 2010: You are right, Doomed-Love, it is really an answer only the two of you can make. This was intended to help you make that decision, not give you a yes or no. :-)
Very wise words, Crissy! And you know, we often meet "the One" and have a great rela... (read in full...)
Do You Have a “Good Girl” or a “Bad Girl” on Your Hands?
Q. Pinkee Here~ Lately, I have been reading the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Barbara is a sex therapist, author, and columnist, and has much to say on this topic. Unfortunately, most women fall into the “good ...
A. 10 May 2010: Dear BettyBoup, I know things are not black and white, but it sounds like you may be a general bad girl but since your partner is not a "bad boy" you haven't been so bad girl-ish lately. Sound like a bit of a compatibility issue. Good lu... (read in full...)
Do You Have a “Good Girl” or a “Bad Girl” on Your Hands?
Q. Pinkee Here~ Lately, I have been reading the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Barbara is a sex therapist, author, and columnist, and has much to say on this topic. Unfortunately, most women fall into the “good ...
A. 10 May 2010: Dear Madalo 1,
I don't think that disqualifies you for being a bad girl! ;)
Pinkee... (read in full...)
Do You Have a “Good Girl” or a “Bad Girl” on Your Hands?
Q. Pinkee Here~ Lately, I have been reading the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Barbara is a sex therapist, author, and columnist, and has much to say on this topic. Unfortunately, most women fall into the “good ...
A. 26 April 2010: Dear trigger18,
The most important thing, in my opinion, is for us all to have as much fun as possible with our sexuality. Yeah I highly recommend the book. Good luck with your mission to be Bad!
Pinkee... (read in full...)
All About Multiples (And I Don’t Mean Births)
Q. I’ve had multiple orgasms on my mind lately. Just thinking about what a wonderful thing they are. If you’re like other guys I know, you just may love the idea of teaching or helping your woman to have multiple orgasms. My personal story a...
A. 19 April 2010: Dear "Double M",
Well that's a very good point about cunnilingus, thank you for adding that! I plan to read your post about it, and also the book "She Comes First". If more men knew these techniques, there would be more happy women out there, a... (read in full...)
All About Multiples (And I Don’t Mean Births)
Q. I’ve had multiple orgasms on my mind lately. Just thinking about what a wonderful thing they are. If you’re like other guys I know, you just may love the idea of teaching or helping your woman to have multiple orgasms. My personal story a...
A. 19 April 2010: Dear q1605, LOL!!! Pinkee... (read in full...)
Success With Squirting
Q. Lila here~ If you’ve been listening to our radio show you may remember that I’ve been on a mission for a couple of months now. I’ve been trying to squirt, with little success… until this morning. Pinkee reviewed a DVD in January called “Nina Hea...
A. 5 April 2010: Dear Anonymous,
Yes it's true that some guys don't know about squirting and some people (men and women) think that squirting is pee. But that's where you can come in and educate your future boyfriends. Most guys think squirting is awesome,... (read in full...)
Success With Squirting
Q. Lila here~ If you’ve been listening to our radio show you may remember that I’ve been on a mission for a couple of months now. I’ve been trying to squirt, with little success… until this morning. Pinkee reviewed a DVD in January called “Nina Hea...
A. 30 March 2010: Wow, that's pretty unusual to squirt without g-spot stimulation, good for you! As for waking up to sex, he knows I love morning sex. He didn't just 'stick it in', he made sure I was ready first. :-)... (read in full...)
Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT
Q. ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...
A. 3 March 2010: Great question-- yes, the results are the same for women as men, except for the zinc (because we don't generally lose fluid, unless your a squirter). We can also get yeast infections-- but you can get those from any kind of sex, solo or otherwise. ... (read in full...)
Oh, And Another Thing...
Q. Pinkee here~I just thought of another one that you guys seem to be spending waaaay too much time worrying about (see last week’s post, “It’s All Good, Guys”)- your height. As an exotic dancer, I know this because I wear high heels. I try not to ...
A. 1 March 2010: Dear Sammi Star,
I think we all tend to think this way-that men should be taller than women, because it's what we've been socially conditioned to believe. But we here at the Booty Doctors are here to question every supposed truth that we've le... (read in full...)
It’s All Good, Guys!
Q. Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...
A. 15 February 2010: Hi Double M.,
I guess my point only applies to those men who have some self-consciousness about the above issues. I'm sure glad that no one in the state of Texas has those issues, though!
Pinkee... (read in full...)
Six things we women wish you men knew
Q. Lila here~ Last week on the radio show we were talking about the top 25 things women wish men knew, according to Men's Health magazine. I came up with my own top six: 1. We're suckers for romance. You probably know that, right? Never ask, do yo...
A. 3 February 2010: Girlfriend000, I totally agree. In fact, how can someome EVER promise? I mean, someone can have the best of intentions, but sometimes things happen that are out of our control. I prefer to make agreements, not promises. And then to s... (read in full...)
Helping Your Woman Unleash Her Inner Freak
Q. Lila here~ One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that ...
A. 3 February 2010: Hi Veronika, Yeah, it must be the particular guys you've been dating. But if that's the case for you, you can just follow our tips and apply them to the guys- that works! Pinkee... (read in full...)
Helping Your Woman Unleash Her Inner Freak
Q. Lila here~ One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives, children, work related travel, and the fact that ...
A. 27 January 2010: Hi DoubleM,
Yes, I have to agree, sometimes there just nothing better than good old-fashioned love making complete with oral!
Pinkee... (read in full...)
HOW TO KISS A WOMAN
Q. Pinkee here~ It’s January, which feels like a good time to get back to basics. Why don’t they teach things like this in public schools? Well, I’ll tell ya- no one ever taught me, OR a lot of the guys I’ve kissed. In case you’re interested in what ...
A. 25 January 2010: Dear ChloeLouise, Yes, that sounds like a good one, too. Also, for all of you who want more information of this sort, listen to the Booty Doctors on Wed. nites from 7-8pm, EST. All you have to do is go to www.blog... (read in full...)
HOW TO KISS A WOMAN
Q. Pinkee here~ It’s January, which feels like a good time to get back to basics. Why don’t they teach things like this in public schools? Well, I’ll tell ya- no one ever taught me, OR a lot of the guys I’ve kissed. In case you’re interested in what ...
A. 25 January 2010: Hi Hearfullalove, Each to her own, I guess!... (read in full...)
Why Women Can’t Separate Sex from Love
Q. Lila here~. The truth is, most women genuinely cannot separate sex from love. Even in our post feminist, equal opportunity culture, women are still hard-wired to expect love and sex to be combined. Heck, I was talking to a stripper about b...
A. 20 January 2010: Well, DoubleM, not all men would agree with you, just like not all women would agree with the Booty Doctors. I guess in some ways we can make these generalizations, and in some ways there's always an exception to the rule. But I bet the ladies ... (read in full...)
Why Women Can’t Separate Sex from Love
Q. Lila here~. The truth is, most women genuinely cannot separate sex from love. Even in our post feminist, equal opportunity culture, women are still hard-wired to expect love and sex to be combined. Heck, I was talking to a stripper about b...
A. 20 January 2010: Thank you, old-spinstah!... (read in full...)
Why Men Are WAY Better Than Sex Toys
Q. Lila here ~ It seems like everywhere I turn lately, someone is talking or writing about men being obsolete or in danger of extinction. It’s upsetting, and I want to assure you it’s not true. Take sex toys, for example. Men will NEVER be replace...
A. 12 January 2010: Hi, Pinkee here (LIla's partner). I agree, Lila is one helluva woman. These complainers are the unnamed "they", mostly women younger than ourselves, I would say. Thanks for reading!... (read in full...)
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