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If a girl has been with a big guy how does she feel about sleeping with a smaller man?

Q.   Hello everyone i have a question mostly for the girls but i dont mind having different point of vues. if there is a girl who is used to have sex with Big guys ( if you know what i mean ) . how would she feel about sleeping with an average size guy...

A.   12 February 2011: i never compared men to one another. i have been with big, small average men and honestly not even ones have i ever said to my self 'my last guy was better cuz he was bigger"they were all different all unique. so dont worry about your girls ex-men, ... (read in full...)

A dildo for valentines day?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...

A.   12 February 2011: best gift ever! :)... (read in full...)

My boyfriend used his sex toy to masturbate AFTER having sex with me!

Q.   The other day my bf woke me to have sex. We did it and it was very good and after we both took a nap. When we woke I needed to run to the store for a few things. When I came back I noticed the bed comforter was pushed all the way to my side. He ...

A.   12 February 2011: Did you ever think that maybe YOU turn him on soo much that he it takes a long time for him to get back to his normal state?... maybe hes afraid that if he asked for more sex or oral he will feel selfish and you may think that all he ever wants is ... (read in full...)

She won't go down on me!

Q.   Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...

A.   11 February 2011: i feel bad 4 you... i dont understand why a lot of girls dont go down on there guy. how would they feel if you said" i dont want to give you oral, i dont like it" i would feel like hes rejecting a part of me.I love going down on my man he doesn't ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex but the guys I like prefer slim girls

Q.   Im 17, and a virgin, im a size 16-18 and i really want to have sex! ive had no sexual experiences, I just want to get out there! The only thing is, then guys im into, tend to like slim girls, i dont think i'll be able to find a guy that likes my...

A.   10 February 2011: get a sex toy....dont look to lose your virginity just to anyone. and in time you will find a guy that will want you for you. But if you feel that your over weight lose it.. your still so young that it shouldn't be to hard. good luck!... (read in full...)

Stretch marks at 13! Will they ever go away?

Q.   Hey so I have VERY sensitive skin I mean in 6th grade I coughed so much I got bruises on my face! So I'm 13 and I have stretch marks! I'm not obsesse not even fat really i think I just grew to fast and with sensitive skin it reacted =\ is there any ...

A.   10 February 2011: i had stretch marks on my stomach since i was 15, i was a havy teen . now im 27. sorry to tell you they dont go away :/..but they do get lighter. i was very depressed about them i but came to realize that they dont define me.This is something that ... (read in full...)

Stole big brother's girl!!!

Q.   Ok I have always known my big brother is seriously lacking in the size department I had always heard from girls he was around 3 inches and I got all the genes apparently I'm around 8 inches. Well I was really attracted to my brother's girlfriend ...

A.   8 February 2011: wow your are horrible!!! i hope if you do make her your gf she cheats on you 2!! you both deserve each other..your brother is the lucky one to get rid of her. Shame on you..hurting your own brother just to get laid.. dont worry KARMA is a ... (read in full...)

Anal sex and anal bleach?

Q.   I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and i want to try anal but im scared. The area around my ass hole and vagina is quite dark, does this honestly matter? im worried that when it comes rouund to it he may be put off. Also, i know this may so...

A.   6 February 2011: your way to young to be trying anal... but if you going to make sure YOU want it not because hes pushing you to want it. i am 27 and this year was the 1st time i had a great anal sex.. my ex before hurt me so much i never wanted to try it again. but ... (read in full...)

Would baby oil help and be safe for my pubic region after shaving?

Q.   Is it ok to put baby oil on the outside of the vagina? I just shaved an saw little red bumps starting so i put baby oil on it to see if it would make them go away. Thanks...

A.   5 February 2011: try bikinizone it works like magic!... (read in full...)

Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating?

Q.   Is watching porn while your in a relationship a form of cheating? I've found out my boyfriend has watched porn a few times and confronted him about it. I told him that I feel degraded when he looks at that stuff because he has ME, so why should he ...

A.   4 February 2011: I think I watch more porn then my man does... I don't see anything wrong with it. We like to watch it together ..try that ..goodluck :)... (read in full...)

Is my out of control pubic hair normal for women?

Q.   Hey, I'm worried about my pubic hair. Its dark and curly and also feels kind of spiky. I cut it every few weeks so it doesnt stick out my underwear. Is this normal? Do most women have hair like this? Im particularly interested what white people have ...

A.   4 February 2011: well i been shaving it off since i was 14...but of what i remember yes it was thick, curly...and i am white hehe..so its normal. i just like to have no hair down there...my bf def appreciates it :)... (read in full...)

I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!

Q.   I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...

A.   3 February 2011: my boyfriend told me from the start he hated them..but he used them for me, i went of the pill before i met him cuz i couldnt afford it(it cost me 80$amonth) and i wasn't having sex on regular basis. But i went back on it for him. he offered to ... (read in full...)

Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?

Q.   My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...

A.   3 February 2011: NOT OK! plus if she thinks you should be ok with it...there is def something wrong with her. and obviously she doesn't love you or respect you or the relationship...if she did she would tell him :NO that's disrespectful towards my bf and ... (read in full...)

Pubic hair question for guys.....

Q.   Well, I need advice on how I should shave my pubic area. I know the majority of guys like it all the way shaved, but I can never manage to get it completely smooth on the top part without getting bumps and redness. So, my question is, do you think ...

A.   2 February 2011: guys dont care! i shave every 2-3days..i got thick ,dark hair and i hate the feel of stubble. i use bikinizone cream it works like magic.. goodluck! :)... (read in full...)

How can I finally accept myself?

Q.   How can I finally accept myself? I look at myself and see a plain looking woman, and most of the time I feel fine, not pretty but also just normal, but then I'll see a prettier girl walking down the street, or on Facebook, or hell, even celeb ...

A.   2 February 2011: I Think at one point in our lives we all feel this way. God knows i been thru a lot of breakdowns about how i look. i still have my issues few of them...my boobs are to small and not exactly shaped perfect either, stretchmarks from being a lot ... (read in full...)

Is it weird that something like that is enjoyable?

Q.   During the act of bringing me to orgasm, my normally conservative boyfriend reached up to my throat and slightly squeezed. He lingered for a moment and then released, I guess to see if I would protest. He then placed his hand back on my throat with ...

A.   1 February 2011: one of my fav things for him to do before i orgasm. ! i actually asked for him to "choke'me a little when i was on top ready to climax.1st he was little nervous , he was afraid he would hurt me. we have little safe words, or signs to let him know if ... (read in full...)

Why swallow? whats the pleasure?

Q.   dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...

A.   1 February 2011: all men taste dif. i love the way my bf tastes. Im always willing to swallow, i want to show him that everything about him turns me on and trust me there isn't anything better then to watch your man watch you swallow his loud! :) ... (read in full...)

The best way to please a guy?

Q.   Dear readers, I want to know what is the best way to pleasure a male in bed? what would make him very happy?...

A.   1 February 2011: dirtball; yes i love it!! ;)... (read in full...)

WHY does he want anal???

Q.   dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...

A.   31 January 2011: anal sex could be the most wonderful feeling in the world! but you have to do it right and take your time. i love it love love it! i read a lot on it and watched videos...take your time, use A LOT of lube and you have to be in control not him.. best ... (read in full...)

What can I say to him via text to turn him on???

Q.   So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...

A.   31 January 2011: your so right dirtball! ..i love sexting and sending pics to my bf...but i am 27 lol and never have my face in the pic ..i know better ;)..but i do have tattoos...that ppl know me from hummm ;/ well you should always trust the person your sexting... ... (read in full...)

Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?

Q.   my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...

A.   30 January 2011: To: anonymous... Im sorry if I made you feel worse :( I didnt mean to. To me, mine are small because I was a full D before I lost weight.... (read in full...)

Why on the face?

Q.   dear readers, why do guys like the idea of cumming on a womans face so much? what is it that attracts them so much?...

A.   30 January 2011: i don't really know... but my bf loves it!..and i get into it as well. i think its power thing... that's like some women love to squirt all over man's face ;) i see nothing wrong with it, to each is own , to me its hot! ... (read in full...)

Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?

Q.   my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...

A.   30 January 2011:  i do accept my body for what it is. and the breast implant i wanted for myself no one else, but i think in someway the will change who i am. so no fake titis for me hehehe... i think im pretty proportionate..im 5'5 125lbs.. 34b, size 5(i got big ... (read in full...)

Why won't she let me finish her?

Q.   whenever I go down on my girlfriend, she pushes me away when she's about to cum. when I ask her why she wants me to stop she just gasps "no" like she's afraid of something. I don't understand why. She says that she enjoys it. why won't she let me ...

A.   29 January 2011: fear of her squirting or spraying all over you..i have that prob.. :/ ..i know i squirt , and he has never been with a girl that squirted..so hes not sure how he would react... so i stop him and let him give me an orgasm from sex.... (read in full...)

The best way to please a guy?

Q.   Dear readers, I want to know what is the best way to pleasure a male in bed? what would make him very happy?...

A.   29 January 2011: Blow jobs are what men love! My boyfriend can never get enough. He loves it when I let him take control... I lay down, he gets on top of me, and face f**ks me ...deep throat and all...he loves the sound of my choking on it lol...he loves to switch ... (read in full...)

Request for any ideas on how to spice things up please?

Q.   How to "Spice" it up? My boyfriend said he wanted to experiment, do new things. He is tired of the same ole same ole. We will do anything but actual full on intercourse, we are waiting on that one. Well we are kind of out of ideas. We tried the ...

A.   29 January 2011: You can make a video of one another masturbating for each other..or giving each other oral.. and anal is a great idea!... (read in full...)

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

A.   29 January 2011: i never been married..but i was engaged for 3 yrs (we broke it off) but i know how shes feeling... setting planned time for sex is the worst thing you can do... me and him were both in our mid 20's ( im 27now) our sex life went down hill after a ... (read in full...)

During sex he got too rough and wouldn't stop! I love him but this has me hurt and confused..what should I do?

Q.   well last night i went to the pub, with my boyfriend and our 2 mates. we were all having a good laugh and drinking. and me and paul* were pretty horny, so when we got home we had sex. bout an hour after we did it again. and for some reason it kinda ...

A.   23 January 2011: the fact that he didnt stop when you asked him is what gets me worried.... me and my boyfriend have rough sex...in the begining he was gentle, but i was the one that always said harder, or bite me nipples, slap my ass..even my face..i got so ... (read in full...)

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