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I am a single mother (by choice) have lived a long life in my short time, learnt from the many mistakes i have made, an hope to help other not make them, by sharing my experiences, and how i think best to resolve certain situations, i hope to solve some of ur problems!! A problem shared, is indeed a problem halfed!!

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*Interesting oral sex tip*

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13 March 2012: Just one i learnt along the way. If you lie down on the bed, and hang your head over the edge, your gag reflexes are reduced A LOT! Your fella will be amazed at how deep he can go!...

Scared of sex...does it hurt?

Q.   help!! my boyfriend wanted me to have sex with him but i am scared to!!! does it hurt??...

A.   13 March 2012: Firstly just to put it out there, make sure you are of the legal age, practice safe sex , and are sure you are ready for it. Sex is usually a little uncomfortable at first, but it generally doesn't 'hurt' . Sex is what makes the world go round, if ... (read in full...)

Meeting Online - Your Opinions?

Q.   Hello! A bit of background: I'm 20! Being quite traditional with my views on most issues, it's not really a shock that I'm sceptical about the online arena when it comes to meeting people. I have always thought that it's not a very pure way of...

A.   13 March 2012: I met a guy from the internet, we chatted for about 2 months before we decided to meet up, we really clicked, i actually felt like i knew him for years! And have to say, the excitment leading up to the actual 'meet' was brilliant, and being honest ... (read in full...)

Is this cheating? should I say anything to her or let it go?

Q.   I NEED SO MUCH HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!A couple weeks ago my GF and I broke up. We broke up for the weekend. She thought/thinks I am not the type to go hook up with other girls. Just because of my past and just who I am.. Well dating her I changed....

A.   13 March 2012: Ok first off, yes if you brake up for a brief period, when you get back together thats usually forgotten about and you carry on counting on the months where you first got together! Second of all, this is a tough situation, and i know everyone here ... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting? He's chatting to other women and telling them he loves them!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and I recently discovered he is chatting with women from the Phillippines via webcam again. This is something we got into several arguments about 4 years ago (and he promised to stop) and now I've discovered ...

A.   13 March 2012: Wildchild6484 I wish you all the best with your decision, may good things follow you :-D... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

Q.   I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is ...

A.   13 March 2012: Joshepy, i hope you find happiness and peace in whatever decision you decide to make. Love is a very hard thing to get over, we all know that and most of us have had to do it at one point. I wish you all the best in it, and if you ever need to ... (read in full...)

How do you date someone suffering from depression?

Q.   i just recently learned my bf may be suffering depression. I asked him what's going on with our sex life and he didn't want to talk about it but eventually said he has no sex drive. I asked if it had been a problem in past relationships and he said ...

A.   11 March 2012: I was with a guy who was suffering from depression, the lack of sex drive could be from the med's, it was in my situation.. It's EXTREMELY hard to be with someone suffering from this, i am not going to sugar coat it for you. It has to be really ... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting? He's chatting to other women and telling them he loves them!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 8 1/2 yrs and I recently discovered he is chatting with women from the Phillippines via webcam again. This is something we got into several arguments about 4 years ago (and he promised to stop) and now I've discovered ...

A.   11 March 2012: No you are not wrong. Watching porn is totally different to actually interacting with someone. You should confront him, and tell him that even though he believes 'its no big deal' to you it is, and your in this relationship too. Ask him to put ... (read in full...)

I want to leave my girlfriend because she is not a virgin, advice?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year now and we both love eachother. When I met her she was in a relationship and we started off as friends and she ended up leaving her ex boyfriend for me, She's never done anything bad, she's faithful, ...

A.   11 March 2012: You have jealous issues. Which can actually turn out to become pretty dangerous, and if you carry on this way you could end up a very lonely man indeed im afraid... You need to find the reason why this upsets you. Is it because you can't stand the ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex but we broke up 2 years ago, help me!

Q.   I've met someone four years ago, we stayed together for 2 years then kept going in and out of the relationship. I can't forget, I can't move on. I need to kill this love in my heart. The mind got forget but the heart just won't let go. I know it is ...

A.   11 March 2012: I myself was in the same situation, i loved my ex for years after we broke up, i had to see him twice a week, as he collected our daughter. Now and again he used to ring me for a 'booty call' an i would believe that , that night we spent together ... (read in full...)

My mom can be so cold hearted!

Q.   So I'm pregnant and everytime I seem to ask for some help from my mom it seems like I'm asking her for a lung. We never had the best relationship she's there and she provides love and whatnot but besides that she can be really really coldhearted. ...

A.   11 March 2012: I had to reply to this, as i am sure we share the same mother!! Mine is exactly the same, and as the years have passed, i've become to understand her more. She's rarely nice to me, has never showed me affection though. This doesn't mean she loves ... (read in full...)

Why was my old friend so rude?

Q.   Yesterday I bumbed in to my ex colleague she also a female.I haven't seen her in three to four years.wen we aparted is because I had found another job as I was on a learnership and sher was permanent.we hang out together as we were on same age group ...

A.   11 March 2012: It's obvious this lady is bitter over something, maybe something not even to do with you. Maybe she thinks she is better than you because she was higher in the rank at work, some people leave success go to their heads. The best thing for you do to ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend says she needs to study and can't see me but can make time for friends

Q.   Dear cupid, My girlfriend has been super busy with her thesis and work and has kept denying me to see her. I keep getting frustrated cause she always takes time to hang out with her friends instead of me. Now i am in the process of med school in...

A.   11 March 2012: You need to be honest with her. Tell her straight out, that you are feeling pushed aside. If she can make time for friends, then, yes, she can make time for you. Although i always value a person who makes time to maintain their friendships while in ... (read in full...)

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