Should I tell my partner I cheated a year ago?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we are both in our mid-late twenties. He put me in a very vulnerable position early in relationship which I forgave him for and we worked through it. Last year I made a stupid mistake and cheated on him. I ...
A. 18 January 2009: The key to your question is you say, "You will never cheat again". If you TRUELY believe that, there is no reason to tell him. Think about it. By telling him, what possible good could ever come of it? Whats the worst thing that could happen? I ... (read in full...)
I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me
Q. How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him ...
A. 18 January 2009: Listen to what DoubleM writes. He is very good. If I might add, a lot of men, me included enjoy masturbating in front of their female lover. Personally I like to ejaculate on her breasts or on her face and hair. So, if you are willing to do that, ... (read in full...)
I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?
Q. I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...
A. 18 January 2009: Well, thank you all for your helpful suggestions. I have gotten the urge to give another blowjob... so I have contacted my friend and I will be going over to relieve him later on. I don't have feelings for him, I just like to suck him off!... (read in full...)
Nipples, or cleavage?
Q. Do men prefer seeing hard nipples through a shirt or ample cleavage?...I have both...
A. 15 August 2008: Think of it this way. It may help. I love breasts. I also think some times it is sexier to leave to the imagination.
Take Jennifer Aniston for example. I think she is her sexiest when her nipples are erect and poking through her dress or... (read in full...)
He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do ...
A. 29 April 2008: You say you are between the ages of 10-12. Is he about the same age? He does seem like he might be gay, but given your ages (if he is the same age as you), he might just be exploring his sexuality. I remember at that age I had some of the same... (read in full...)
Why do I still get sweat marks, even though I use deoderant?
Q. I wear loads of deodrant and sometimes don't even feel that hot, but I seem to always get sweat marks!! I hate it, no one else gets it! What can I do? x...
A. 5 April 2008: I agree with brooke5426. One thing I would like to ask though.
I realize you are young, but are you over weight? If you are, this could be part of the problem. If it is, try getting in to a routine of extra walking or running. An overweig... (read in full...)
Are older girls more attractive or just out of my league?
Q. This is my first time doing this, and here's my problem: I find myself really attracted to an older girl who's about 5 years older than me. She's just about to finish her undergraduate degree while i'm in my first year in college. I find her incre...
A. 5 April 2008: Think of it this way. If you ask her out and she says no, you are no worse off than you are right now. Also, you say she is about to graduate. That means in the next few weeks, she will leave school and you may never see her again. For the rest ... (read in full...)
How could he fancy me, when everyone says I'm ugly?
Q. in the past ive been told by most people that im ugly and i believe them. ive got a horrible face, a huge nose, horrible eyebrows n im fat too. but now there is 1 lad (who is a lil older than me) who texts me a lot and tells me he thinks im gorgeous ...
A. 4 April 2008: I know how you feel. When I was your age, I couldnt get a date if I were in a female prison with a handful of pardons! Although I have never met you I bet you are prettier than you think and your "friends" who said you were "ugly" are just being ... (read in full...)
How to be able to keep the conversations interesting so that the other person remains with a good impression?
Q. i need some advice on topics to talk about with someone special?to keep the conversation alive and keep the other person interested and to leave a impression that would make the other person coming back for more..please help...
A. 31 March 2008: This one is actually so simple we over look how easy it is. We have a tendancy to ask "closed end" questions (ie questions that require a on word answer like yes or no or fine). This can make a conversation go no where fast. Ask open ended... (read in full...)
Any help in getting over this deep depression?
Q. For the past few years i m finding myself helpless, unfortunate coz i did not achieve anything whatever i had i have lost it...and i make friends quite easily who are very free with me and care for me as if they are my true friends but when time ...
A. 29 March 2008: Olive,
I understand what you are going through. Depresseion is an aweful thing. It sounds like you have delveloped some patterns with friends and boyfriends. It's a cycle you have to break. The best way to get help is see a therapist. They kn... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to leave my fiance alone because he may masturbate!
Q. hi i have this little problem that i cant get past its masturbation. my fiance says he doesnt masturbate because he knows that i have a problem with it and i want to believe that he doesn't but i can't. i dont like to leave him alone for fear t...
A. 26 March 2008: I agree with happytochat. Also, the fact is 9 out of 10 men masturbate and the tenth one is a liar. Even men who are married masturate. It doest mean they care any less for you.... (read in full...)
Is it really better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? I need some help.
Q. Is it really better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? I always thought it was, but now I’m losing that belief. I’ve only ever had the one relationship and it ended 2 days ago. I could really do with some help. I’ve ...
A. 26 March 2008: It sure is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. It hurts so much now because the break up just happend. It will get better with time. The good news is you now have a benchmark. When you meet another woman, and you w... (read in full...)
Do men like to see pussy lips through a women's shorts?
Q. What % of men want to see cameltoe on a woman and why do so many prude women have a problem with it ? Jealousy ? While you judge what looks inapropriate your alright with dresses, tops that display most of your breasts and cleavage and that isn...
A. 20 March 2008: Personally, I would rather see hard nipples poking a t-shirt (ie Jennifer Aniston) than a camel toe.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wrote me a threatening email! How do I respond?
Q. Boyfriend and I are arguing.He did somethign that hurt me and all day I waited for flowers and an apology or both. When I finally received an e-mail from him it was nasty and threatening. I don't know how to respond to that. I feel I should sh...
A. 20 March 2008: I agree with Devilish Angel. Here in the States, that could be something that needs to go to the police.... (read in full...)
How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual?
Q. ok, I have another lil' prob. How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual? (I have a boyfriend and like him a lot) Like when I watch porn, I watch lesbian porn only! There have been a few occasions where I have looked at a girl and said "I'd like t...
A. 20 March 2008: I know how you feel just from the "man's" side. I like watching bisexual porn where men are involved. I like to watch and wonder what it was like to give a man a blow job. So like "BigSis" said, "There is only one way to find out." That is what ... (read in full...)
I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me ...
A. 19 March 2008: I think where the misunderstanding came from was the way you wrote the last sentence in the fourth paragraph. You wrote, "I didn't do anything at all, but not only was a naked guy in the same bed with me, but people (at least Stacy) saw him leave ... (read in full...)
I thought it was a girls-night-out, drank too much, and woke up next to a naked man...what should I do about telling my husband?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. My husband went away for a business trip that extended into last Saturday (because he had a late Friday meeting, and he was several hours away). My in-laws took the kids for the weekend for a visit. My girlfriend invited me ...
A. 13 March 2008: You did not give this man consensual sex. If you both just laid there naked all night, then no harm no foul, but if he had non consensual sex with you, it is rape.
You need to talk to him, not Stacy and find out what happend if any thing at... (read in full...)
Dealing with a wounded ego after I bested my BF
Q. I think my BF is being really pissy over something I didn't think was a big deal. We were talking the other day about sports we no longer take part in but used to enjoy and I mentioned that I used to do judo in college and was pretty good, even ...
A. 13 March 2008: Ask if he would like a rematch and then try your best to beat him!... (read in full...)
Am I weird because I enjoy kissing and licking a woman's posterior?
Q. What do you women here think of a man who really loves the female posterior? The reason I ask is because I am somewhat obsessed with the female ass. I absolutely loves kissing and licking a woman's ass. I'm talking the cheeks, not the anus iself. ...
A. 13 March 2008: I really dont see any problem with it at all. I like doing that myself.
Now if you wanted to do the same to her anus, she might have a problem with that and you would need to discuss that with her to see if she would be ok with that.
Kissing... (read in full...)
How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?
Q. How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual a...
A. 13 March 2008: My girlfriend had this same fantasy. The way I found out was by accident. When ever we made love she always wanted her hands above her head and my holding them. She liked being tied up and she would tell me to do what ever I wanted to do to her. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is premature - anything we can do?
Q. My boyfriend suffers with pre ejaculation, what can i do to help stop this?...
A. 11 March 2008: Ive actually heard this from a urologist. It actually takes practice. Stimulate him and just before ejaculation, stop. Let his penis go soft and repeat. If you do this on a regular basis, he should be able to go longer. If this doesnt work, he ... (read in full...)
I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me.
Q. I'm 21 years old and have a three month old son. I have just recently moved in with my partner who has started hitting me. He says it's my fault for pushing him too far which I do do that but I just can't take it anymore. The other night I had my ...
A. 10 March 2008: MOVE OUT NOW...RIGHT NOW!... (read in full...)
I think I am bisexual
Q. hi im a male 24.. i recently broke up with my girlfriend , got drunk and gave my friend a blowjob.. so i think i must bi bisexual.... yes he came and yes i choked but i did swallow.. but the thing is now i have been confused since.... should i do it ...
A. 10 March 2008: If you were drunk at the time, I dont think you can come to a conclusion one way or the other.
However, have you ever fantasized about giving men blow jobs in the past? If so, you may be bisexual or you just want to experiment with your sexualit... (read in full...)
He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.
Q. I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't ...
A. 10 March 2008: Anything you dont want to do, you shouldnt have to.
Having said that, I had a girlfriend once who didnt like to swallow. She didnt like the taste. I was fine with that. One time, thought, she offerd to swallow. She actually liked it and said... (read in full...)
Guys: About breasts, do you like them small or large, real or fake?
Q. hello, i notice that my boyfriend eyes other girls clevage.i feel that my breast is small but he says mine is just the right size. so i was wondering if guys prefer large breasts or dont mind small ones.how about fake ones?...
A. 9 March 2008: I never saw a boob I didnt like:)... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has a urine fetish. I feel confused about our sex life.
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, This is going to sound so crazy...and I am completely embarassed to ask it but...Well, here it goes. My boyfriend and have been dating for almost a year now and we are very much in love...Also, he and I are highly sexually active. ...
A. 9 March 2008: You say in your question, "He never likes to do it to me. Just me to him." Does this mean you want to try a Golden Shower too?... (read in full...)
It's my first relationship, how do I know if he's the one?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We are 22 and it is my first relationship. For the last two months I have been continuously questioning whether or not he is "the one for me." It often leads me to believe that he is not. Then I ...
A. 7 March 2008: I think if you read your question back to yourself, with in it lies the answer. It sounds like the only reason you are staying with him, is because he is your first serious relationship. You are still very young. You will know with out a doubt ... (read in full...)
Quiz - who want's sex more often?
Q. This is more like a quiz for you guys ... I spoke to my BF and we kinda disagree on: "WHO WANT'S SEX MORE OFTEN IN A RELATIONSHIP .. GIRLS OR GUYS?" So guys and girls ... hit me w some fun answers :) Lierin ...
A. 7 March 2008: It depends if you are married or not. Before marriage, the girl does. After marriage, it is the guy by default because the girl doesnt want sex at all, lol!... (read in full...)
When he went for my penis I pushed him away! I now regret it..does this mean I am gay?
Q. hi im confused. about 2 yrs ago i went on holiday with my cousin and 1 nite he started acting gay and wanted 2 do stuff with me. anyway i secretly wanted it but when he started 2 go 4 my penis i pushed him away pretending i didnt want it. we have ...
A. 6 March 2008: I think the reason the two of you dont communicate so much any more, he is embaressed about what happend, and thinks you do not like him. (I'm only guessing here) Try talking to him and tell him what you wrote her. Then if you feel like it, ask ... (read in full...)
Feel self conscious about my 30aa chest! Would going on the pill help?
Q. me and my boyfriend lost our viginity to each other recently and have only had sex twice together and he said to me you dont like me touching your front do you and its because ive never taken my top off in front of him due to having 30aa bra size ...
A. 6 March 2008: A lot of men like smaller breasts so dont let it worry you. Your bf must like them too if he wants to see them. Take a bath or shower together and have fun with it! Good luck... (read in full...)
Couldn't find my missing panties, until they turned up in my BF's computer desk!
Q. Here is a really strange one to everyone. I was doing my laundry as usual and when I was putting it all up and away I noiticed something missing. Ok the article of clothing was my skimpy stringy black thong. Sure I was a little confused on where ...
A. 6 March 2008: I am a person who likes to be dominated or submissive. It sounds like my own behavior. Maybe that is what he is into. Be careful how you approach him if you want to continue this relationship. Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?
Q. I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...
A. 6 March 2008: No, I dont think you are an effeminate whimp. You are a human being. I do have to ask, what is your obsession with beating and being beaten up? If you like to wear womens panties because they feel better, go right ahead and wear them. No ha... (read in full...)
I'm worried my boyfriend did not like the oral, even though he said he did...
Q. Hi I gave my boyfriend a blow job for the first time yesterday,i've never done it before and now im worried that i wasn't any good at it as i did not go all the way down for the fact i was worried about gagging, my guy said he enjoyed and he sounded ...
A. 6 March 2008: Yes, keep the teeth away. If you did use your teeth when you gave your boy friend a blowjob, he probably would have made an uncontrolable sound such as "ouch". You would have know. I dont know of a man, gay, straight or otherwise, that ... (read in full...)
I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?
Q. I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...
A. 6 March 2008: Thank you all so much for your response. I do find women attractive, and continue to have relationships. I find myself more attractive to the act of giving a blowjob not the person.... (read in full...)
I think I may be gay or bi... but how do I find another man to find out?
Q. Hey, Been thinking a lot lately, and can't stop thinking about doing somehting with another guy. Don't know if I really want to have sex yet or anything, but I've really fantasized a lot about giving a blowjobto another guy, and also curious abo...
A. 5 March 2008: I was in the same situation! I wanted to know what it was like to give another guy a blow job. I looked in the personal ads and called a few. One in particular I got to know pretty well. I went over to his house and gave him a blow job. We did ... (read in full...)
My friend will have threesomes with my girlfriend, but refuses to with his girlfriend, why is he being selfish?
Q. I’ve have had mmf threesomes that had involved girlfriends and my best friend. After we did the first time he asked if we can do it again with other girlfriends. So at least with 4 different girls we’ve had threesomes. It has been cool, and its ...
A. 5 March 2008: Forget the 3 some with his gf's...He's no friend at all. It's all about him. He has already demonstrated he will not change so why try? It will not stop.... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's ...
A. 5 March 2008: It might be pretty strong to label him as "Gay". For what ever reason a lot of men like to watch and/or participate in a 3 some with their significant other. Does that make her a lesbian? He may be bisexual, and is emaressed or afraid to discus... (read in full...)
He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.
Q. I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me fo...
A. 5 March 2008: Sweetheart, leave the bum! Any one deserves better. He cannot afford you, but he can afford hair transplants? What are some of his other hobbies, etc. Does he go out with his male friends? He is a person who puts himself first. It is pr... (read in full...)
Follow Up for the Ladies - The B-cup Cleavage Question
Q. Hello again! Thanks everyone for your advice and putting up with my cleavage obsession. I've tried the push up bra but it still doesn't help - bras never bring my breasts close enough together. And smaller bras make the flab underneath my armpits ...
A. 5 March 2008: Have you tried a "Wonder Bra". I think Victoria Secret sells them... (read in full...)
Did my guitar teacher use me?
Q. Ok,im 16 and ive always had this thing for older men...like a lil fantasy and i always end up infatuated with any older man between the ages of like 25/38 ish who is reasonably attractive, they usually are my teachers which is worse. Sooo i had ...
A. 5 March 2008: In addition to all the previous great responses, just remember this: If he cheated on his gf, he would cheat on you! MOVE ON....... (read in full...)
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