My wife thinks I'm seeing other women. How can we sort this out?
Q. Hi all. I got a prob that I think I’m stuck with. I been married for year and half and things ain’t too pretty. My wife is thinking that I’m seeing other women and hiding things from her. I have a friend, T, that lives south of England, I’m...
A. 14 January 2013: your wife might be covering a thing up
by bringing up this story from no where,
watch her closely buddy... (read in full...)
Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?
Q. This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...
A. 28 June 2012: we all do mistakes
and you have already left your wife,
going back to her well put you under her blame,wrath,...etc forever
if you real love this new woman stay with her
and remember you are seeing your som two times a week
and also remeber ... (read in full...)
Is it ethical to cut down contact from my mom?
Q. Is it ethical to cut down contact from my mom? I know that sounds like such a harsh question and probably think I'm a horrible daughter, but I can't take the stress from her!!! Whenever I see her number on called id my heart drops in my chest, and...
A. 22 April 2012: Darling,
One day when you become a parent you well know that you well give all of your life to your sons and daughters,
And if they cutt off contact with you it would be so heart breaking,
But in order to have a good relation with your mom you... (read in full...)
True or false? Are girls attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging?
Q. I have this question about dating in general: I have heard from my guy friends and even read this on a girl's profile on a online dating site, that Girls are attracted to guys who are mysterious and who are mentally challenging. Otherwise if yo...
A. 30 October 2011: Generally Speaking
Girls are attracted to bad boys
they arent attracted to good and polite nerd type boys,
just being kind of mysterious well add on some spice to you witch well attract more women towards you
but remember just a bit mysterious, ... (read in full...)
My GF has the sex drive of a man-is this normal?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have found the perfect woman, but that's the problem - she's too perfect. She doesn't care that I've just been made redundant, orgasms through penetration alone when we have sex, genuinely finds me physically attractive and explai...
A. 2 September 2011: You are a very lucky guy,
Don't ruin your pleasure with these meaning less thoughts
... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out.
Q. I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me, but don't know for sure, and I have no really way of finding out. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months. She is Korean, speaks korean, and I do not. Well the reason I suspect she is c...
A. 2 September 2011: They say in love and war there is nothing wrong
And therefor i believe that creeping her phone isn't wrong at all
Because she is your GF and you might get married one day
About this lee person why don't you call her/his number at first place ... (read in full...)
She asked me to put lipstick on her
Q. This girl i really like asked me to put her lipstick on her and at the time i thought she just asked me because she didnt have a mirror and thought i could do it better but does it mean more than that? and i said i wouldn't trust myself in a jokey ...
A. 2 September 2011: The girl obviously like you bub
If she didn't like she would'nt even let you get close to her... (read in full...)
Are people who look at porn more likely to cheat?
Q. Hey, I'm interested to know-do you think people who look at porn are more likely to actually cheat on their partner? I'm asking because I know my bf of 1 yr watches porn videos online every 3-4 days. It used to get me down, but so many people have ...
A. 14 August 2011: NO, Watching porn has no connection with cheating and it doesn't mean that he doesn't like your appearance but men are visual creatures and watching porn to them is like watching romantic movies to women... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's widowed mother depends on us for entertainment
Q. me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 3 yrs and his mom is widowed i know she is lonely but she relies on us for entertainment. she lives about an hr away so when she does come over and go out and do different things she ends up staying the ...
A. 14 August 2011: One day you'll get old and may be lonely like her
Wouldn't it be hard if your children tried to push you off just to satisfy their spouses?... (read in full...)
I thought that I wanted my lover and it was right to leave my husband but now the reality is setting I am not so sure.....
Q. Ok this is very difficult and I please ask you not to judge me, as I have seen many people in my situation torn to peices over subjects such as this. I know this is wrong, a mistake, and I am a bad person everything like that. I dont like myself for ...
A. 9 August 2011: it seems that you havent had sex with your other guy yet
and then you are very much still on the safe side,
to make things short
try counselling with your husbans who seems loving AND HONEST
and avoid this guy who seems quite manupelative
Go... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: imho
wathcing porn isn't cheating
while sexting and flirting online is cheating
or atleast a form of cheating ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I use viagra?
Q. Hi I have been in a loving relationship for the past year. We have a great sex life, the thing is, I use viagra because it helps me to perform (I am 39 now and well enough said). I have never told my girlfriend that I use viagra and I am wanting ...
A. 14 June 2011: if you dont have to tell her dont do
it is not a big deal BTW,
you are very young to use these medications unless you have some health issues i am 35 and healthier than when i was 25
Good Luck... (read in full...)
My wife passed away a month ago, is it too soon to think of dating?
Q. My wife past away one month ago from today. She has a cousin that reminds me a lot of her. And I'm falling for her. They look alike. But I don't think this is the reason that I'm interested. If I never knew my wife and met this woman, I'd still be ...
A. 12 June 2011: if you find love with a right person follow your heart and there is nothing wrong that this women is your wife's cousin Good Luck... (read in full...)
Everything I try to do just falls apart
Q. OK so things have usually gone pretty well for me and things have come relatively easy for me all of my life... until now. Lately it is like i am under some kind bad luck spell, because everything I try to do just keeps falling apart. My ...
A. 12 June 2011: when everything seems collapsing suddenly usually there are big and happy surprises ahead so keep your good work and your positive thinking you will get over it eventually Good Luck... (read in full...)
Why would a married woman hit on other womens husbands?
Q. I have this coworker who has been married most of her life. But she always hits on the male coworkers, who are also married. She has even done it infront of their wives too. She always asks them to come over and sleep over at her house. I find thi...
A. 12 June 2011: i agree with caring guy if no one answered her invitations to come over they must all know that they are nothing but false her behaviour shows mostly that she is an attention seeker or may be she has a type of a histrionic personality disorder ... (read in full...)
My wife is cheating on me in my own home, how do I stop this?
Q. i am indian. I marry my wife 3 years back. She is working in a multinational company for about 2 years. We have one child. One day she has gone out for a office trip for about 2 weeks. Later i come to know from her one of frieds that it was not an ...
A. 11 June 2011: only three years in marriage and she is alrwady cheating?
i think that you had an arranged marriage with this girl and she has never loved you
i say prove her cheating officially so the divorce wont affect your reputation and divorce her because ... (read in full...)
Is my gf cheating on me?
Q. Basically what I want to know, is whether or not my girlfriend is cheating on me. After a bad break-up my fiancee and I got back together, against many friend's wishes.. But lately she is texting ALL the time when she's with me, it's either ...
A. 4 June 2011: There is something fishy between her and John. In fact she is using both of you and I mean you and john for her own advantage. Bbreak up with her my friend and find some one who deserves your attention. Good Luck... (read in full...)
Suddenly developing feelings for someone else
Q. Hi, I am experiencing something new and confusing to me and thought I might seek out some advice from strangers who can perhaps more clearly judge the situation without being biased. I've been with my current partner for nearly 4 years. We live t...
A. 31 May 2011: try to get rid of these feelings because it well eventually grow and it would lead you to either cheating
or breaking up with your curent bf
Good Luck... (read in full...)
If a man loves you, would he call you a bitch?
Q. Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly ...
A. 31 May 2011: Darling
love and jealousy may end to commiting crimes !
so bad words isnt realy related to love
but it shows what kind of poor bringing up your bf had
Good Luck... (read in full...)
It hurts when my friend pretends he doesn't know me!
Q. I have a male friend who is married and we get to talk together once a week usually. Sometimes, though, when i see him during the week at school, (he's a teacher), he will completely ignore me. I'm not sure why he does this, but when we do chat, ...
A. 31 May 2011: if he has a crush on you and you like his attention
then i believe you have entered the unwated zone
because usually sch kind of friendship may end to an unwated affair or atleast an emotional affair that would affect and hert every one includin... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is emotionally blackmailing me unless I agree with her!
Q. I’ve been with my gf for almost 11 months, and we just had a conversation that severely divides and strains us. She’s 25. I’m 26. We’re both Asians. My mom had wanted me to clean her dryer front trapped lint for some time at her home. While cleaning ...
A. 31 May 2011: well i didnt read the whole thread
but i can tell you something
she well continue black mailing as long as it works
with you,just pretens that you didnt understand
and do what you want to do aslong as it is not selfish and you know it is the r... (read in full...)
No longer attracted to my wife
Q. Im not attracted to my wife. i know it sounds shallow and i feel guilty as hell about it, but no matter how hard i try to look at her with the same affection i used to have for her, i just dont have it anymore. i dont like kissing her and i dont ...
A. 30 May 2011: your problem is easy my friend and it is written within your lines
she looks good when going ot work but very dull and boring at home
so tell her straight what you want her to look like,
take a one week leave and go from your house
so when you c... (read in full...)
Can women tell when men have erections, by looking?
Q. I was reading the question about the guy who wondered if his girlfriend felt his erection when she brushed up against it while cuddling. It made me think of something even more base, which is: Can women tell when men have erections by lo...
A. 30 May 2011: it depends on the size of the penis and the tightness of the pants he has on... (read in full...)
Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?
Q. I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...
A. 30 May 2011: from my international experience arround the world i find that men GENERALY prefer curvs and curvy girls offcourse people have different tastes but that is what i have personally noticed ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talks about sex but when the opportunity arises he backs out!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he ...
A. 29 May 2011: he might be virgin
if so it is very normal
Good Luck... (read in full...)
I like watching women in porn but in reality I don't want to touch one. What is that about?
Q. I like watching women stripping porn, watching big fake boobs turn me on (like a fetish or somethinng) but in my reality when girls offer to kiss me i get turned off and im like no i dont wana do that, is this a weird fantasy? i love men, wana ...
A. 25 May 2011: unlike men
many hetrosexual women like to watch lesbian porn
and even gay (male on male) porn tough they are completely hetrosexual so no worries
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...
Q. My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...
A. 25 May 2011: 1-) make sure the dates are accurate
2-) if they were accurate be sure to keep to copy for you if the days showed some unwanted surprised
3-)keep an observing eye on yur wifes actions and e-mails accounts,facebook, and so on
but dont let her nott... (read in full...)
After years of a sexless marriage my eye is beginning to wander
Q. OK, here's my situation. I have a good marriage of 12 years and a nine year old son. In the last 9 years my wife has not made love to me except for two times, even though every other part of the marriage works. Even after surviving SERIOUS cancer ...
A. 25 May 2011: inho there is a high possibililty that she is having feeling guilt every now and then and hesitating because she is married yet there is a big possibility that she is after the attention and nothing more and she is hunting for other men aswell... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair. Not sure I want to. How do I get my will power back?
Q. Two weeks ago, my neighbour kissed me. We have been texting and meeting up secretly. I feel horrible...my conscience is killing me....yet I feel completely helpless. How do I get my will power back? I know this isn't good for anyone... and no...
A. 25 May 2011: Darling
it would be such misreable painfull path to go through
i've been through an emotional affair once and it is such a pain to be in one
if you continued and followed your heart it is going to be worse
i say some professional hel... (read in full...)
Why can't he commit to just me?
Q. I am 18 years of age, and for three years I have been inlove with one particular male. We have been close from the day we have met. And I have always stood by him and been loyal. Although the relationship has been on and off for the past three years ...
A. 25 May 2011: this guy must learn a lesson
infact most of his behaviour is due to the fact that he knows that you are always for him
show him that you are leaving him for good
if he loves you he well change for you and that would be a good lesson for him
if ... (read in full...)
Husband being extra nice and hiding the cell..is he cheating?
Q. ive recently noticed my husband has been keeping his mobile out of my sight,by keeping it in his pocket,when before it was left anywhere around the house.at the weekend he did leave it in the bathroom,so i took a look but a password lock had been ...
A. 24 May 2011: i don't think he is cheating because he is not going out unless his work place helps him to cheat. but may be he is in touch with one of his ex's or he is hiding something.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to just stop the sex with this married guy but keep the friendship?
Q. Hi guys, I need some advice here...I met this married guy at work about a year ago. We both liked each other and became friends. We finally crossed the line about 3 months ago and we both knew it would happen. He has a baby with his wife but he ...
A. 22 May 2011: nothing is impossible
but after crossing the line it is not that easy to keep it just friends
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?
Q. Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to...
A. 21 May 2011: love is blind my dear and when some one loves you he wouldnt care if you were form the US,UK,...etc it seems that your worrying is keeping multiple good men away from you but you are still young and life is full of good chance for you... (read in full...)
My receptionist gf adds guests on her personal facebook account! Am I right to be angry??
Q. My girlfriend work as a receptionist in a hotel and she really loves her job. i work in the same place as a security guard (that's were we met) we trust and love each other and she shows me everyday and i really love her and trust her too.. we've ...
A. 21 May 2011: facebook again all that you have to do is to observe her behaviour and with time you wel know what is going on dont show her your insecurity because if she is hiding something she well get more manipulative actions and it will be very hard for yo... (read in full...)
Is my wife of 21 years cheating?
Q. Well here goes. I suspect I already know the answer to this question but here goes anyways. I suspect my wife of 21 years is cheating on me. Over the last 2 years my wife has really changed. She is from the Philippines and the last time she went ...
A. 21 May 2011: best wishes for you i know it is tough time right now, but whats to be done is to be done and sooner is always better Good Luck... (read in full...)
My best friend's wife.........
Q. Alrighty guys and gals,I have a little bit of a problem. For the past year or more now I've had feelings for my best friend's wife.Now before you tell me it's wrong and to let it go, I know, I tried, and thought I was over it......well the...
A. 16 May 2011: been there my friend and it is such a rocky painfull way to pass so avoid it,
my advise to you would be so simple ,
tell you friend's wife to help to find a girlfriend from her group of friends
and concentrate on your new GF
this way
yo... (read in full...)
Is my wife of 21 years cheating?
Q. Well here goes. I suspect I already know the answer to this question but here goes anyways. I suspect my wife of 21 years is cheating on me. Over the last 2 years my wife has really changed. She is from the Philippines and the last time she went ...
A. 16 May 2011: i think it is clear that she is cheating
get it official if you want because facing her again well get her only to be more manupulative and cautios
can you get a private detictive ?... (read in full...)
Wife will not have sex with me if she's sober
Q. My wife will not have sex with me unless she has several drinks in her. We have been married for over 20 years and this has been the case since the begining. When I was younger, I knew that this was kind of disfunctional and I tried to talk to her ...
A. 16 May 2011: if you children are grown ups
and you think you still got the chance to find someone better infact i believe there is someone that you might emotionally envolved with recently ,
get out peacefully out of this marriage and have fun in your life..
... (read in full...)
I've broken up with my partner of eight years - have I done the right thing?
Q. I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of eight years and I can't decide whether to make the split permanent. It took me ages to make the break - he's kind, generous, affectionate, good round the house and he loves me. On the other hand, our sex ...
A. 14 May 2011: you are in a very critical condition right now because even if you decided to return to your sexless boring relationship you well continue thinking about this other guy and your decision of breaking up is a brave decision that shows a good and... (read in full...)
My desire for good sex is taking over and ruining the relationship
Q. I am finding things difficult with my partner. He hasn't been with many women. He always insists we have a bath just before sex (I am the cleanest person so this is ok) and everything is very mechanical. He says he wants to be really good but ...
A. 14 May 2011: i'll make this short for you
seek professional help
and if didnt work finish your relationship with this man
as it is extremely unhealthy to have a serious relation with a person who doesnt fullfill your sexual needs,
Good Luck... (read in full...)
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