Should I distance myself from my Bf AND my Mother? Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?.
Q. Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?. I have had an on/off relationship with my boyfriend for a year. Yesterday, I was out with him and I called my mum to pick me up. I got upset because my mum started shouting at me on the phone. ...
A. 3 November 2016: I don't think it is your Autism that is holding you back, I think it is your mental health. You need to seek help for that. Lift the phone and talk to someone who can help you. But honey you also need to stop putting yourself down so much and learn ... (read in full...)
How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?
Q. I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...
A. 28 October 2016: I understand what you mean. But she has told this man she loves him, therefore she must have an emotional connection with him, if she continues spending time with him it will never go away, yes she might have told you she now realizes you care, but ... (read in full...)
Should I distance myself from my Bf AND my Mother? Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?.
Q. Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?. I have had an on/off relationship with my boyfriend for a year. Yesterday, I was out with him and I called my mum to pick me up. I got upset because my mum started shouting at me on the phone. ...
A. 27 October 2016: We cannot answer these questions about what is going on in his mind. But we can try and help you to help yourself. Is it a problem living alone? Would your mother have you come stay with her for a while or even as another poster suggested an in ... (read in full...)
My guy friend held my hand what does it mean?
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and and one of my guy friends were on a group trip last night and he started to hold my hand. What does this mean? What do I say? What do I do?...
A. 27 October 2016: Ask him. Do you like this guy? If so then next time you are with him take his hand and talk to him about it. If he is your friend and sure you can talk to him comfortably?... (read in full...)
I'm only important to him at night
Q. iam having a boyfriend and I love him ,but he only takes me important during the night for example he can spend the day not calling me or even not sending texts ,he only does during the night,he hides me from his elder family members,does this man ...
A. 27 October 2016: If he loved you then he would show it. It seems he is keeping you a secret. If he only wants to see you at night then maybe he is scared that people will see him with you. If he only ever wants to do things sexual then he may just be interested in ... (read in full...)
I'm uncertain about who to date and don't know if I should wait
Q. I went on a few dates with this guy back in August. Due to him working offshore and then medical reasons, we haven't been able to get another one. He's working right now and he tries to message me every day. I do like him but lately it's been hard ...
A. 27 October 2016: August was quite some time ago. It is a long time for not to have met up with each other. If you both message every day well great you keep in contact, but if the conversation always turns sexual then I would suggest he is looking for someone to ... (read in full...)
Bad time, not interested or wasting my time
Q. Hi all need your urgent help and opinions. I April I a guy was introduced to me at my aunties birthday. he has worked with her in the past and was around my age. he seemed nice. I text him to say thank you for coming as is normal in my fami...
A. 26 October 2016: You are right to wait it out, maybe he is going through a lot, but am sure he could make time in the seven weeks to catch up with you. It is a difficult one but as long as you are not waiting around for him then yes I would just give him his space ... (read in full...)
My partner is more interested in pleasing his mother than me
Q. My fiancé and I have just discovered that I'm pregnant and our wedding was booked for the same month the baby is due so we've decided to bring it forward. We've given our small party of 40 guests the new date which is still 3 months away and ...
A. 26 October 2016: Your husband obviously does not understand that you will potentially not be able to have the wedding if you are in labor. He is obviously not thinking straight. It sounds like he does not like saying no to his mother. But you need to stand your ... (read in full...)
Will my financial dependance on my boyfriend become a problem?
Q. I am in a successful, long-term relationship with someone who I hope to marry. He has not proposed, but we have talked seriously about it. I currently live with my single mother. My biggest concern is that I have little formal education (I ...
A. 26 October 2016: The thing is maybe he does not mind, but am sure it will add pressure to him in the long run. He loves you and wants to look after you. But if it was me I would do any job so I could pay my way. Not a lot of people love what they work as they do it ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my BF how I am feeling over talk of his ex? Or should I investigate if she is real?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for one month now, but were friends for two years. I know all of his friends, but recently he's mentioned someone who he's never even spoken about before. Apparently, they used to be boyfriend and gi...
A. 26 October 2016: Is he one for telling lies when you doubt him on his word? If it is upsetting you then tell him that you don't like hearing about his ex. Just keep it simple and straight forward, but remember she is an ex for a reason.... (read in full...)
Why would a guy keep his GF around if he had lost all sexual desire for her?
Q. Can anyone especially men please give me some advice..I'll try+keep it brief... Basically would a man keep their girlfriend around in a serious relationship if they had lost all sexual attraction for their partner?... The reason why i ask is I'v...
A. 26 October 2016: If he is claiming he is depressed but you think it is an excuse then ask him to get help with it, if he refuses he is never going to get better. If you feel there is someone else that he is playing around with online or not then you should honesty ... (read in full...)
My beloved Bf is returning to the other side of the world. How do I cope with losing him?
Q. I met this guy a year ago, we started dating and have been together for about a year now - I've never been so happy in my life, he completes me and is perfect. But, he's moving back home to the other side of the world - he came over here to travel ...
A. 26 October 2016: Is it possible for you to move to his country? Have you spoke to each other about ways you could possibly make it work? If you can't then the best thing to do is end things and drop all contact. It will be hard but it does get easier.... (read in full...)
Is it "wrong" that I have a thing for females of a different race or religion?
Q. Hi, I am a Jewish white male. Is it "wrong" that I have a thing for females of a different race or religion? And girls - if you are a different race or religion, would you date a Jewish, or white man? Thanks....
A. 24 October 2016: You like who you like, no harm in that. The only thing with different races is different religions and different beliefs but if you can both over come that then perfect. ... (read in full...)
My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?
Q. A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...
A. 24 October 2016: You need to just be honest with her when she makes you feel uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
Why does he greet me this way when we arent friends....?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am sorry for the long post but it gets easier... I promise.. Me and a guy were good friends for a year. Well, he became my friend by just "Randomly" thinking up and adding my number to his whatsapp list. He texted me and ...
A. 24 October 2016: He sounds like a strange invividual. My guess is that he was having a bit of fun texting girls about sex. Does he know that it is your phone number or could he think he has someone else's phone number? Either way sweetie he does not sound like he ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't initiate contact as often does it mean he isn't as invested in me?
Q. I experienced my 1st real BU a year ago. I loved the guy and I put my all in the relationship, he ended up taking me for granted. I am starting to date another guy and I keep having doubts, just afraid that he isn't into me as much as I am into him. ...
A. 24 October 2016: You can tell him how you feel but you could be risking scaring him if you are both not exclusive, if you feel he is not making enough effort then yes you should be honest with him, it's best to tell the truth. He might be relaxed but the thing is ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex initiate conversations on skype?
Q. Why does my ex boyfriend initiate conversations with me daily on Skype when we're no longer together? He's been initiating conversations for about 2 weeks now. He also apologises when he is quiet on there and says 'I really hope you're okay'...
A. 24 October 2016: Just because you tell him that you are okay does not stop him from feeling guilty. Plus he knows your mental health issues therefore he probably feels worse about it. If you don't want to block him and you are not hurting or still have feelings then ... (read in full...)
If I get back together with my ex, should I tell him about the people I have slept with while we were broken up?
Q. Hi there! So I was in a 4 and a half year relationship with an amazing guy. We broke up due to living in different places, arguing when we saw each other, and as I was in my final year at University, had way too much going on for all the arguing....
A. 24 October 2016: You have mad the right decision I hope it works out for you both all the best ... (read in full...)
My friend found my girlfriend on a dating site
Q. I have been in an 18 month relationship with an extremely insecure girl who has been controlling, needy, and jealous of my past. I have often been aggressively accused of things that just dont exist. In spite of this difficulty, I have rode the ...
A. 22 October 2016: End things. I know it is hard and you love her, but she is not going to change. You will end up unhappy and miserable. She is not to be trusted and you deserve so much better. ... (read in full...)
Amazing connection vs. mind blowing sex
Q. So, does one choose an amazing emotional connection with good sex and potential for a long term relationship? Or does one choose the best sex he's ever had in his entire life with no emotional connection? But absolutely mind blowing sex! I've foun...
A. 22 October 2016: Well if you want to stay single and ave good sex then that is your choice. If you want to be with someone then you know what you need to do. It's really not as difficult as it seems.... (read in full...)
I can't get my unemployed ex boyfriend out of my house
Q. I've been in a relationship for 6 months, been thru a lot but really don't want a relationship anymore period. The issue is I haven't been able to get him out. What do I have to do? He has no job now after I threw him out and stuck in my area for...
A. 22 October 2016: Sweetie you need to remember he is not a child, he does not require you to look after him. If you keep coming to his rescue you will never be rid of him. It looks like you won't let go as you are afraid he will end up homeless but that is not your ... (read in full...)
LDR is not for me, but I don't know how he'll take the rejection
Q. I am a 23 year old Indian girl working in a very niche field. I met this 24 year old European guy when he came to work in India for 2 months from the European office of our company. Previously, I had short duration frequent relationships and had ...
A. 22 October 2016: If you really loved him you would try, but if you are having doubts then maybe you don't love him as much as you think you do. You really need to think it through as long distance is hard so you will need to make an effort. Make sure you are up to ... (read in full...)
My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?
Q. A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...
A. 22 October 2016: I agree, it could be she is wanting to hook up with you. It really is a mystery. It would make me avoid a person sexually if they have loads of partners... (read in full...)
She was out all night and didn’t text! I need outside views as I’m angry!
Q. OK, this may seem a little trivial but I'm really interested in other's views. My gf, who I have lived with for 2 1/2 years went out for a meal and drinks with work. I dropped her off at the train station at around noon and said if you're getting ...
A. 21 October 2016: I wish you had have listened and waited until you had calmed down, but anyway moving on. She obviously has a problem with alcohol. Yes counselling will help but she also needs to stop drinking if she cannot control it. I have a lot of experience in ... (read in full...)
My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?
Q. A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...
A. 21 October 2016: Yes you are right a huge red flag. Maybe she has low confidence in herself, and she is looking for reassurance from you. Either way off course you don't want to hear about her sex life so just kindly ask her not to tell you intimate details. As for ... (read in full...)
If I get back together with my ex, should I tell him about the people I have slept with while we were broken up?
Q. Hi there! So I was in a 4 and a half year relationship with an amazing guy. We broke up due to living in different places, arguing when we saw each other, and as I was in my final year at University, had way too much going on for all the arguing....
A. 21 October 2016: You don't need to justify your sexual health to anybody on here sweetie. As for telling him you have had sex while single it is your choice. ... (read in full...)
Should I distance myself from my Bf AND my Mother? Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?.
Q. Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?. I have had an on/off relationship with my boyfriend for a year. Yesterday, I was out with him and I called my mum to pick me up. I got upset because my mum started shouting at me on the phone. ...
A. 21 October 2016: Am not sure why you think it is your families responsibility to help you out financially. You are an adult. You get your money. You should be able to look after yourself and stop blaming your family for everything. When your grandfather left you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she's bored of sex and I'm fantasizing about other women. We're doomed, right?
Q. Mf gf said she is bored of sex yet I am the only one trying to be kinky or sexy in bed. It's doing my head in. Maybe I should be honest with her and tell her Ive been fantasizing about other women because you arent doing anything anymore. I have ...
A. 21 October 2016: So she is stressed and has low confidence. That to me is your answer. Stress kills the libido and low confidence means she probably hates undressing in front off you in case she turns you off.
You say you have tried building it up and you have trie... (read in full...)
How could he have issues with my weight and yet have such mind blowing sex with me?
Q. I'm looking for some perspective on a recent situation I experienced that has left me a bit confused. I dated a guy for about 5-6 months. During the entire relationship, we got alone EXCEEDINGLY well. I have never dated anyone as attentive or ten...
A. 21 October 2016: Don't think that there was anything wrong with you for being with him, because there wasn't. These things happen and he needs to deal with his own issues. It does not mean you cannot trust others, and it does not mean that he never cared and always ... (read in full...)
Slow progress with this guy I like
Q. Why do I get asked out by guys who are married or who are similar to the losers who made my life miserable before. I am a 53 year old woman with grown children and one still at home. Never been married. I am very independent with my own houses. ...
A. 21 October 2016: Hopefully it is not a pity date and he is genuine. Nobody is being negative to you hear, just like you said on your last post, we are all trying to help. We have nothing to gain here only taking time out of our day to help other people. I don't ... (read in full...)
Our wish to adopt a child has provoked some negative reactions, how do we deal with them?
Q. My husband and I have decided to adopt. I was surprised by the negative reaction of some of our friends! I was prepared for the usual fears and prejudices (it's not your flesh and blood, you can never love him the way you would your own etc.) b...
A. 21 October 2016: From reading your update I think you are more than prepared for what is ahead. As said a lot of people think going in to adoption will be all love, toys and fun and sometimes it is not. Off course the same can be said for biological children, as you ... (read in full...)
Depression, drinking and having to go on holiday abroad
Q. I live with my parents, and i'm currently on medication for depression. when my parents have had holidays, ive been able to look after myself and have behaved. I'm seeing a pyschlogist at the moment who is helping me through my troubles. I asked he...
A. 21 October 2016: Maybe the holiday might do you good, you can enjoy spending time as a family, and gain there trust. When you get back maybe you can work towards moving out off home and building a life for yourself. ... (read in full...)
Did I scare him off ? ?
Q. Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he b...
A. 21 October 2016: We are not always negative or thinking the worst. We just see when some people need a little help to see that they are chasing a dead end. Why ask the question if you are not prepared to hear advice from people trying to help?... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 21 October 2016: You would probably be his last because nobody else would put up with his behavior. Am sorry I just don't buy his excuses, yes he has a warped way off looking at things, but he knows how he is treating you is wrong, he also knows that you will let ... (read in full...)
My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?
Q. A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...
A. 21 October 2016: It sounds like she might have a crush on you, I mean surely that has crossed your mind before now?
She is trying to make you jealous by telling you other guys are interested in her sexually. Then she is jealous when you flirt with other girls and ... (read in full...)
How can I start a conversation with someone who hasn't directly interacted with me?
Q. I was at the pub last week and I saw this bar made who was gorgeous but I had no direct contact with her so it didnt seem natural to talk to her. She was collecting plates and empty beer mugs. What would be a good way to talk or strike up a ...
A. 21 October 2016: Ask her does she have the time next time you see her, then just make a conversation, ask her would she like to join you for a drink sometime and give her your number. Keep it simple.... (read in full...)
How do I rebuild trust with my wife when she's still going to see the man she crossed a line with?
Q. I have been married to my wife for 10 years and thought things were going ok. We did go through a rocky patch in June this year but thought we had got through that. I started to get a bit suspicious of a guy that she coaches who had left his wife a ...
A. 21 October 2016: I am so sorry for what you are going through, nobody should have to deal with this in a marriage.
Going back to before you found these messages, your gut told you there was something wrong, so there must have been some signs, can you think what... (read in full...)
How can I escape this loneliness?
Q. How can I get out of my depression. For the last 7 months Ive been hit with several bad episodes (it's been a rough year) - my relationship ended (it was a short one but still affected the way he acted towards me) he was not a caring man. My work ...
A. 21 October 2016: You need to start with being able to enjoy your own company. I love nothing more than having the house to myself and watching a good tv show or reading a good book and chilling with the dogs.
Have you any pets? Sometimes pets can give you a sens... (read in full...)
How do you turn foreplay into sex?
Q. My bf and I are going to have sex and wanna make sure it goes smoothly .what all happens in foreplay? How long does it last how do you turn foreplay into sex??...
A. 21 October 2016: Sweetie there is no set rules against foreplay. You do what makes you both comfortable, never do anything that you don't want to in order to please the other person. Make sure you are both relaxed and in the mood. Light some candles. Make sure you ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband use a sex toy rather than be with me and then lie about having a toy?
Q. My husband has always claimed that he doesn't/can't masturbate because he knows it's his own hand. (No, I don't seriously believe this) A couple of years ago, I found a pocket pussy hidden in his sock drawer. I asked him about it and he said he ...
A. 21 October 2016: My guess is he does not want to hurt your feelings. No I don't think his toy is better than you, I think it is because he wanted a quick release and that fitted the bill. Being intimate is a different story. He probably was being honest and told you ... (read in full...)
How do I get to know my crush?
Q. I have a crush on a parking patrol officer who works at a plaza behind my school. He gave me a ticket about a month ago and since then I've been wanting to find a way to talk to him. I went up to his car yesterday to ask him a question about getting ...
A. 21 October 2016: You have already posted this and people have already gave you advice. I will give you the same advice as last time, bite the bullet and ask him to coffee, it really is no big deal, nothing to be scared about. If he turns you down at least you can ... (read in full...)
Gift interpretation help
Q. I need help interpreting a birthday gift I received from my new boyfriend. We met online about 2 months ago, live 4-5 hours apart, hit it off right away and have met in person 3 times, talking on phone twice/week for a long talk, with him saying he ...
A. 21 October 2016: At the moment you both don't really know each other to well yet. I mean you have only met each other three times. So he probably did not have a clue what to get you. Maybe his friend gave him the t-shirt and as for the pig well maybe he thought it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in jail and I'm lonely
Q. Has anyone ever had a boyfriend in jail before? My boyfriend has been in jail since Sept. 30th,and it has been hard. He is in jail for a parole violation. His lawyer thinks that he will get out on the 25th of this month,but there is a possibility ...
A. 21 October 2016: Have you no friends or family? I can understand that you miss him, but is there a need to be lonely? Why not take up new hobbies, spend more time with friends. Have an active social life. Remember he is the one in prison not you, enjoy your life. ... (read in full...)
I’m disgusted by his personal hygiene!
Q. I need to start by saying my boyfriend is usually wonderful. He is very sweet, generous and loving. But that just isn't enough. I feel so guilty to admit it, but he disgusts me. He always smells bad and doesn't brush his teeth or shower unless I ...
A. 20 October 2016: Sweetie all you can do is be honest with him. He is not silly he must know he has bad hygiene. You just need to tell him how it is. Not fair to try and save his feelings, he needs to know how he is making you feel. ... (read in full...)
She was out all night and didn’t text! I need outside views as I’m angry!
Q. OK, this may seem a little trivial but I'm really interested in other's views. My gf, who I have lived with for 2 1/2 years went out for a meal and drinks with work. I dropped her off at the train station at around noon and said if you're getting ...
A. 20 October 2016: I would be annoyed as well. If she could not find a taxi then why not call you? Or at least send you a message to tell you not to worry. Sounds very odd to me. In general do you trust her? Maybe she has made a genuine mistake. But I think you should ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex initiate conversations on skype?
Q. Why does my ex boyfriend initiate conversations with me daily on Skype when we're no longer together? He's been initiating conversations for about 2 weeks now. He also apologises when he is quiet on there and says 'I really hope you're okay'...
A. 20 October 2016: Stop taking his calls, stop sitting hoping that he is thinking about you, that he wants you back, that he regrets breaking up with you because that is not why he keeps calling you. He is calling because he feels guilty, he has not found anyone else ... (read in full...)
If I get back together with my ex, should I tell him about the people I have slept with while we were broken up?
Q. Hi there! So I was in a 4 and a half year relationship with an amazing guy. We broke up due to living in different places, arguing when we saw each other, and as I was in my final year at University, had way too much going on for all the arguing....
A. 20 October 2016: No don't tell him, but don't lie. You done nothing wrong. You where single. Leave it at that. ... (read in full...)
Should I distance myself from my Bf AND my Mother? Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?.
Q. Was this abusive behaviour by my boyfriend, or not?. I have had an on/off relationship with my boyfriend for a year. Yesterday, I was out with him and I called my mum to pick me up. I got upset because my mum started shouting at me on the phone. ...
A. 20 October 2016: No it is not right off him to man handle you in any situation. It sounds like he was frustrated with you. Still not an excuse. If he would rather spend his money in the pub than come see you then that says really all that you need to know.
As for ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she's bored of sex and I'm fantasizing about other women. We're doomed, right?
Q. Mf gf said she is bored of sex yet I am the only one trying to be kinky or sexy in bed. It's doing my head in. Maybe I should be honest with her and tell her Ive been fantasizing about other women because you arent doing anything anymore. I have ...
A. 19 October 2016: You tell her about your fantasies and your sex life will go from low to zero quicker than you could imagine. Talk about hitting a girl where it hurts. Don't ever share that information with her.
Does she know why her sex drive has went down? Is s... (read in full...)
How could he have issues with my weight and yet have such mind blowing sex with me?
Q. I'm looking for some perspective on a recent situation I experienced that has left me a bit confused. I dated a guy for about 5-6 months. During the entire relationship, we got alone EXCEEDINGLY well. I have never dated anyone as attentive or ten...
A. 17 October 2016: His actions say more than any words do. So believe them and do not let him hurt you with his words. I am not sure why you he would say this to you. My guess is that he wants to hurt you, maybe he wants no contact with you and that is why he said it, ... (read in full...)
Slow progress with this guy I like
Q. Why do I get asked out by guys who are married or who are similar to the losers who made my life miserable before. I am a 53 year old woman with grown children and one still at home. Never been married. I am very independent with my own houses. ...
A. 17 October 2016: Is this the same guy from the gym? If it is then really you need to let him go. I believe you are attractive and he does flirt with you. But to me it is part off his job and you are beginning to sound clingy and needy.... (read in full...)
Our wish to adopt a child has provoked some negative reactions, how do we deal with them?
Q. My husband and I have decided to adopt. I was surprised by the negative reaction of some of our friends! I was prepared for the usual fears and prejudices (it's not your flesh and blood, you can never love him the way you would your own etc.) b...
A. 14 October 2016: I think the are judging the situation as a whole. I think between them they feel you are not ready as a couple for this challenge, I think that they are worried that you are taking on to much and it will take over your life.
Off course that is not ... (read in full...)
Depression, drinking and having to go on holiday abroad
Q. I live with my parents, and i'm currently on medication for depression. when my parents have had holidays, ive been able to look after myself and have behaved. I'm seeing a pyschlogist at the moment who is helping me through my troubles. I asked he...
A. 12 October 2016: Sweetie you are an adult you do not have to do anything. I totally understand that your parents are probably worried about you, you are there daughter and you are suffering from depression so I can see why they want to look after you.
But you are ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 11 October 2016: you can't knock him for being honest no, but you need to see it as it is, he does not respect you. He does not want to be committed to you. He sounds almost arrogant like you should be thankful he comes home to you at night. Honestly I don't know ... (read in full...)
Did I scare him off ? ?
Q. Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he b...
A. 10 October 2016: It sounds like he is not interested in you. Maybe you read to much in to it. It is possible he is already in a relationship. Either way I think you should cut your losses. ... (read in full...)
Do I get back with him and have a baby?.
Q. I really am starting to worry about the future now and what decisions I should make. There have been lots of things that have happened over the last few years that is very difficult to talk to anyone about, so I came across this and thought, it ...
A. 6 October 2016: I don't think you should be with either men. You have said yourself you are not in love with your ex so why would you contemplate spending the rest of your life with him? You deserve to be happy as well, you seem to be forgetting that.
As for the ... (read in full...)
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